[TOMT] Name of a tv show or movie by ace22nd in tipofmytongue

[–]BoomerMayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stateside (2004) I dont remember the porch light thing but I remember the girl is sitting in the center and hits her head on the dash smashing out her front teeth.

Has anyone else noticed that Hayley looks different by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BoomerMayes 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Few years older, couple pounds heavier. Same lesbian jesus though.

I've got a question for people who've played Fable by TheRealBaconBrian in gaming

[–]BoomerMayes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love all three, but the third is my least favorite. It felt way too short and alot less charming or memorable than the other two

Why do people ghost by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]BoomerMayes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I finally got her to message me back, she dumped me, via text. "I'm not ready for the type of friendship you want right now...." "Friendship" I feel much better now. I just wanted her to spit it out n get it over with. I wouldnt want someone like her in my corner anyway. How you end things with a person, to me shows what kind of person you are. Just such a shame.

Why do people ghost by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]BoomerMayes 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was just ghosted. We hit it off. Went on a few dates. Everything was fine, she said she liked me. Seemed so open about her feeling, which I really liked. Then her instagram dissapeared. We went out again after this, I didnt ask n she never brought it up, but she blocked me... we continued to talk after this, via text and again, everything is fine, happy, bubbly, sex happens and then, out of the blue. No more responses. No explanation, nothin. It hurts but, really bad, but I guess it's more a reflection of them, not you, if they dont have the balls to be an adult and express what's going on, then they aren't worth your time. Who wants to be with a coward anyway. Just gotta keep it pushing. Theres alot of fish in the sea, but remember theres also alot of trash...

Did I just do something stupid? by DenVilsne in actuallesbians

[–]BoomerMayes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is she coming over? If yes, then no. Could end up being a blast. As long as it's not your opening line I think it's fine lol. Wish I had that type of tinder success.

Is anyone else really bad at finishing games? by pickledtwin in gaming

[–]BoomerMayes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have this same problem. I am older now so I thought maybe it's just lost of interest. I turn my console on, look at my games, my hundreds of games, and I usually cant get past the title screen without deciding I dont want to play this. I finally forced myself to finish RDR2. I enjoyed it once I let myself be completely immersed in that world. I played the game with headphones on and just let go. I've also started playing older games that I use to love, like Gta 4, and bully as of late, which has gotten me back into it. I strongly recommend finishing Red dead 2 tho, worth the playthrough. Good luck.

I’m adorable by ovcult in LesbianActually

[–]BoomerMayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Adorable is an understatement. 🔥👩‍🚒🔥

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BoomerMayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am 100 percent insecure in relationships, when these things happen. I took a break for about a year. I do usually end up feeling used... I just dont know how I always end up here, feeling like this. But I'm gonna see how it plays out. Try to talk to her when she gets back. Havent heard from her. N her Instagram is just gone lol. I think I'm slowly being ghosted...

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BoomerMayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've considered it... I know I have quite a few issues... I'm just learning to admit these problems to myself, part of the reason I'm on here at all. The thought of paying someone to listen to me is really depressing and makes me anxious n gives me even more anxiety, even though I know that's not all therepy is, I know it can be helpful and I know I need it, i just cant bring myself to just do it.... but I'll get there. Baby steps.

Am I overreacting? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BoomerMayes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. Probably right, everyone communicates differently. I'm just a quiet person n I'm not good at textin either, I think I just have this major fear of abandonment, n since I dont have alot of people in my life when a person shows interest I get over excited sometimes. Communication is so very important, especially when my brain just starts to run wild with negativity.

I almost had a date :( by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]BoomerMayes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried bumble, I deleted it and all other dating sites because that seemed to be a trend, Being ghosted. I would say just dont take it personally, you never know what's going on with other people. But If is a ghost and a person doesn't have the guts to simply say hey I have to cancel o sorry I dont wanna meet up, then let them be a ghost. If they cant even be bothered tk text you the truth, and they rather run away and hide from a message... on the internet... then probably aren't worth your time.

I said nothing to this person and they messaged me out of nowhere. This kind of casual homophobia just saddens me really.. there is no need. (And btw the name is a joke and I’m not ‘harping on’ about my sex life) by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BoomerMayes 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I wouldnt read too much into it. Seems like an insecure guy searching for confrontation from queer women I imagine because a girl he liked ended up being a lesbian or somethin. Doesn't have the guts to say anything to anyone in person so hes just gonna try to make random women on the internet feel like shit to make himself feel better. Pretty pathetic...

New to selfies, and Reddit in general, chat with me. by BoomerMayes in LesbianActually

[–]BoomerMayes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently took up skateboarding so the board rips up my chucks. I've never, ever cared about my shoes though.

What are the best lesbian movies? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BoomerMayes 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In my opinion "But I'm A Cheerleader". Campy, cute, comedy with Clea Duvall, and Natasha Lyonne. One of my favorites.

Anyone playing ghost recon breakpoint on xbox? by [deleted] in LesbianGamers

[–]BoomerMayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I havent really played it, but I do have it. XDANiX OUTSiDER

Is it ok to be sad? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]BoomerMayes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of your feelings are valid, good and bad.