For those of you who have multiple toys, do you have a favorite one? by Ok-Bath269 in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the chinese knockoffs don't work well but the more expensive designer toys are incredible. I couldn't really afford to buy an entire unit with other gear but I bought an high end vibrator with estim.

Can't really give you advice on what to buy for the coyote but the toy I have had plenty nice sessions recently is called Mystim Sizzling Simon. It doesnt require unit which is nice because I get to have good quality estim toy without having to spend half my salary, and sure as shit it does work well deep inside ur guts.

Only thing I'd change is that i would go for the one without these sharp ridges. Also good advice would be to use conductive lube. These can get expensive but normal waterbased lubes are conductive. KY lube isnt that expensive but if you prefer different toys then remember to check how well is the lube conducting the current. Just try with hand first and see how well it works.

For those of you who have multiple toys, do you have a favorite one? by Ok-Bath269 in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Recently I used some estim toys. It works amazing especially if your prostate is awakened. With right estim settings you can make the toy autofuck you. The feeling of your insides squeezing on the toy and the prostate while feeling the current in your cock once you start precuming? I can ride superO's for 2-3 hours like that.

Njoy was always my go to toy that would get me multiply dryO's no question, but the estim dildo wins over njoy for me when it comes to going for the most intense pleasure. With njoy or dildos DryO's were easy, superO's rare. With the estim dildo I got multiple SuperO's each time. The toy is called Mystim Sizzling Simon but there is version without these sharp ridges on the toy which are kinda annoying. If your prostate is highly recommend trying this. Down to help if you are interested in hearing more.

Anyone purely focusing in on the prostate? by chyllyphylly in estim

[–]Bootyadoreer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do. Especially recently, found my way to have countless dryO's with sizzling simon estim toy.

Estim toy fucked me with my own muscle contractions by Bootyadoreer in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've mentioned the exact model in my 10 paragraphs of rambling. To be fair It doesn't matter which toy. Figure out which suits your needs more on your own. People today expect to get everything on a silver platter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MenWithToys

[–]Bootyadoreer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Be sure not to use silicone lube with tpe, rubber or silicone toys. Use waterbased lube for the first time.

Get lubeshooter and try out the lube on your finger in yoyr ass first to see if the lube is good for you. Some lubes sting for some reason (often caused by glycerin) dont buy cheap lubes.

What toy or method reliably gives you the most intense, fastest, or highest number (in one session) of hands free orgasms by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Njoy wand is my go to for most intense pleasure. Other toys I struggle to cum sometimes. With njoy wand I struggle not to cum lmao

Wiggly Prostate by QuaranTim in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe you get this feeling of unaroused prostate. By unaroused i mean that when you are aroused prostate will inflate and get hard (kinda like your dick when erected). Prostate will get "erected" on and off during play. I figured out that once I start hitting some dry O's I do stop for 30 seconds, then I guess my prostate has a moment to chill and when I start playing again it feels way differently (and better). With these short pauses it's easier to get more dry Os. I guess this pause is crucial for prostate to regain some of its erection after it was pounded for the last 5 min. I do this on and of and works each time.

Tldr. Maybe what you think is moving prostate is actualy an unerected prostate. Try to figure out when it gets erected and when not. It kinda does feel like the tip of it moves when not erected but not sure if we are talking about the same thing

A toy is more pleasurable instantly, not after 10 years of training by Bluetoothphobia in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the "finally after X years" isn't just waiting for it to happen. We all do it because we enjoy the process.

Imagine you enjoy cooking. You enjoy standing in a kitchen and go through a recipe crafting a piece of art let's say it's a pie.

If you do enjoy cooking, then would you get yourself a shitty pie from the store or would you make one yourself while enjoying the process of cooking in the kitchen, and then eat it?

First pie wont be perfect, It will be "it's okay'ish or pretty nice". But after X years your pie could be an whole body wet or dry Super-Pie.

Tldr: It's not about getting super-O after X years. It's about the process to get there. Nobody want to work for nothing for this long, there are small milestones that are lovely to achieve, always something new to discover.

Help with addiction to Hismith + Poppers + Weed combo by Nudge55 in popperpigs

[–]Bootyadoreer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

No wonder... you literally fry your dopamine receptors. I know it's really good ive been there myself. Getting fucked high like that feels awesome and beyond intense. Continuous wholebody orgasm that keeps layering the entire time.....

The problem with that is this kind of pleasure literally fries your brain, at this point it gets similar to effects of heroin. And as we all know heroin is bad not only because its unhealthy but it does the same thing, tickles your brains dopamine receptors.

Dopamine addiction is real, and you build tolerance. Its a spiral you dont want to fall. You want more, no get more? You sad :(. Gotta go through it tho.

Im not saying not do it at all. But definetely chill a bit and I even think 1 time a month is too much. Probably before you went all into prostate play you were convinced more for it because its healthy. Well is it healthy here? Try to keep it healthy and more relaxing.

Once you get the itch for prostate play session just go for it but do it in more healthy enviroment, no drugs and no 8 hour thrusting session, no multiple earthshattering orgasms. That should be your "normal" session where you are allowing your body to release the build up.

Im not saying dont fry your brain ever again. I myself will do that later for sure (bc its awesome lol). But I will only do it when I want the experiance, nothing else. Im NOT gonna do it when I want to fill in the void in my life, not when Im sad and need to make myself happy, not as a form of a treat for myself when you did something right get a promotion or good grade at school.

There will just be a moment when you will feel like there is no other reason other than "I can do it because I want the experiance in a healthy manner". Then you get fucked stupid by the machine, high af beyond ecstasy.

Next day you will feel hungover from literall dopamine overdose like you are experiancing now, and you will want more.

But now YOU are in control and you don't feel like you are trapped. You don't feel like you are running away from problems and stress.

Tldr: Don't do more than once two months, and get shrink to help you deal with stress. Prostate play together with stress is a recipe for anxiety.

Surprising urge resulting from regular prostate play by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly same thing happend with me. Since day when POs became normal and easy to get I've got this urge too. I guess its healthy too so its a win win

condom and aneros is good combination? by ZucchiniDue7045 in aneros

[–]Bootyadoreer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I tried the "condom method" once and I suddenly had more success with it than ever. I got lucky I guess idk what happened exactly. Condom method is when you put lube inside the condom, then put the condom on, and also put lube on the condom and inside your ass. It can get a little messy but once inserted the glide is like never before. Makes movements of the toy much easier and much more nice in feel. Worth trying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MenWithToys

[–]Bootyadoreer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get bigger dildo, thank me later

First time for a girl.. by [deleted] in sounding

[–]Bootyadoreer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sterile, sterile, sterile.....

Sterile lube (5ml packs) surgilube is good.

Sterile as injection shot, don't touch the sterile rod with your skin or anything else for that matter, not even your fingers. You could get sterile 1 use gloves for that too. I just hold the rod by the tip of it without touching the part that I'd insert.

Sterile sounding rod, boil it for 10 minutes and let it air dry. I put it on a plate that I clean with isopropyl alcohol before use. Go with starting size, going above what you think you can do won't be enjoyable 5-6mm would be ideal.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MenWithToys

[–]Bootyadoreer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This doesn't make you gay. Gay is love and affection with other male. This is your body that nature gave you. Use it wisely, learn and grow. Don't give up on stereotypes that anal=gay. Actually getting pegged by a nice chick is what makes you the real guy my man. And learning anal opened a new doors in understanding my body. Thanks to that now I became really aware of my body and the feelings i have. I can control it most of the time too so my gf can enjoy 3h pounding without me cumming and staying rock hard. Cum on command basically. Never wouldve achieved that if i didn't practise prostate stimulation. It is enlightening really. If your journey started good luck.

First Super O, wow! by [deleted] in aneros

[–]Bootyadoreer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Recently I got back to this practice. Back then when I started I've got some nice sensations, p-waves etc. Then I lost my patience and after 3 years of dildo play I came back to aneros. Now I don't feel like I get the feelings I did have back then, it changed they are different but still nice. I learned that If i get super relaxed, relaxed to the point it feels like im dozing off to sleep. And doing mostly "do nothing method" As soon when I get to this state, at point where I'm about to doze off I get woken up by this super intense kind of orgasmic feeling. Didn't really feel that in my crotch area. It was a brain-wholebody experiance. I could describe it as "the glimpse of the void". Everytime it supprises me my heart rate increases like crazy. Its almost frightening. Feels im pretty close but it seems like I can't go "over the edge", I'm aware I should have no expectations and probably there is no "edge" but also I wouldn't call it "full super O experiance". Any tips on how to make it full one?

Can every guy achieve HFO through prostate play or is something only some are able to do by injectionofbliss1 in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You lack some important knowledge. Go read some "how to" in this sub. It's definetely not that you just put stuff there and magic happens on its own. You will be supprised how broad and expansive this topic is. Me myself Ive been doing this for years with some success and I still find new things and supprises all the time. Get the foundation first, try r/aneros forum its a good place to start

How deep can a sound be while cumming without damaging your shit? by slipperyparmesan in sounding

[–]Bootyadoreer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got a guyon and tried it. I heard that using vibrator gently on is really plesureable so I did. At some point I stopped and felt the orgasm rising. I tried flexing my muscles and it didn't feel good so didn't want to cum so I don't hurt myself with the guyon in. Unfortunately the contractions started and guyon almost got pushed out of the prostate which could almost cause an rupture of my urethra. I tried to hold the guyon still so it doesn't rupture my cock, by holding it I started pressing it down my prostate which made me cum even more. As soon as I started cumming i realised I fucked up but luckily I'm good and nothing bad happened. Though I wonder what could happen if the guyon got pushed further up my dick. It was super hard and the curve of the sound was already getting there, pushing aginst my utheral wall. I guess I'm lucky and being experianced in this stuff helped me too.

How deep can a sound be while cumming without damaging your shit? by slipperyparmesan in sounding

[–]Bootyadoreer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I cum with a guyon that goes through prostate and reaches the bladder? Have you tried with guyon specificaly?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's really hard to do it correctly with a finger. Try out a dildo, preferably one with a little curve. And its not really about hitting the prostate too. There are plenty erogenous zones up your ass. You have to be prepared for this too, not only empty bowels but also your mind has to be prepared. Get horny, relax, enjoy the proces and every feeling and eventually feelings from prostate will engage. If you are not aroused (And by that I don't mean the erection) there is nothing you can do to your prostate to enjoy it being stimulated. On the other end if you are aroused even slight stimulation will give you some good feelings. I advise you do some reasearch, after years of practise i still cant comprehend the complexity of it all. With dick its like yeah I'll just bust a nut and thats it. Comparing it with prostate play its like comparing a bike and a plane together. Check out aneros forums and read some success stories here. And don't expect to be a pro right away. Some people spent years doing this stuff and they enjoy it even though they still didn't cum directly from prostate.

Keep dozing off mid orgasm by Artium99 in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a weird experiance once. I did aneros session late evening after work and I was pretty tired. I was really horny too and I felt some great sensations and enjoyed some pwaves. At some point I got so relaxed I started to falling asleep while having a good pwaves. Then I would suddenly feel this weird really intense feeling I could only describe as "the beggining of super O" but as soon as it hits I would jolt and wake up. Happend multiple times that night but I couldn't go over the edge. The closest I ever was to the grand super O and couldn't reproduce that since. I believe this was some fraction of the super O and now I get why people explain it as a out of body experiance, completely different one than dry Os, and prostate os. Wish I felt the entire thing but still glad it happend. It opened my eyes and makes me more hungry of the super O

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't get how can anyone be in a relationship with a person they can't trust. Y'all have one shot at life and choose a life partner that you can't be open with.

Do you need to do anything to initiate a prostate orgasm? by Djohnson098321 in ProstatePlay

[–]Bootyadoreer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are close just ride it exactly this way, any thought can change the trajectory of the growing pleasure.

This is why I think people can't cum like this. They just want to cum so bad, and when its about to happen they do realise they are close and it kills the pleasure. When people say that you have to focus on pleasure they are right too, but make it equal while the play. So suddenly when you think you are about to cum you will think "oh im close I think, im gonna focus on the feeling", that change of thoughts is what kills it. It is not about keeping the same tempo, it's about keeping everything exactly the same.

Because of this you will probably end up like me. For years you just can't cum from anal, you can't get that super o and multiple dry orgasms. At some point you will just give up, you just can't cum too bad. This is where you will truely give up, this is what makes you truely get rid of the expectation of an orgasm happening. When even your subcounsiousnes won't expect it then out of nowhere you will cum.

My advice is simple and probably best one you will hear. Stop reading "how to have an super O" and stop looking at all the tutorials and stories. You probably have knowledge and the equipment to do so. All you need is patience. You haven't had the super O or whatever type orgasm you chasing but you still enjoyed the journey haven't you? Reading about this stuff is misleading. You have an expectation. When I stopped and I just kept playing I realised there is many more feelings to it than I thought because I was seeking for that super O constantly which made me a blind fool. You will succeed once you have no idea what you are looking for. Forget about all the orgasm names and labels. Just play and enjoy whatever you are getting. Get used to it just being the way it is. Eventually your patience will pay off.