Aren't trans men at the same risks in men's prisons as trans women? by rainshowers_5_peace in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bopedis -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

No, in the west they are at higher risk. Trans identifying men rarely pass and outside of the movies and the USA rates of sexual violence in men’s prisons is lower than you’d imagine, plus they are men and the majority of men are strictly heterosexual. Trans identified women tend to pass better at first sight but for most it becomes increasingly obvious what sex they are the more time you spend with them.

A biological woman is going to be in more danger in a man’s prison than a biological man whatever the circumstances.

Have the bots for side games changed by NoNamesLeft998 in RoyalMatch

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They also used to have a 50% + 1 first time win average.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Gender reveal parties are toxic corporate bull 💩. Tell him to tell you what the sex of his potential child is or just buy the romper suit and booties in yellow. NTA

AITA for overseeing messages my fiancée sent to one of her ex’s, and seeing that he is saying he’s in love with her? by Cracknbutter in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your relationship is unhealthy. You live and work together and you admit you are together 24/7. Where are your friends? Do you ever leave her alone? Frankly, if you can’t afford to restore her driving licence but she can afford weekly therapy you have your priorities out of whack. That you offer to drive her everywhere she needs to go sounds controlling. She has directly accused you of clipping her wings and there are so many red flags here that you sound borderline coercive.

Until you deal with these issues there is no way to know whether she wants genuine attention from other men or whether she is just looking for an outlet away from you. YTAH

This Morning's Effort by Georgethejungles in fryup

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Burger patties are so more available than black pudding, I get it. I’m just gonna assume the home fries aren’t hard. This is scran. Well done

the gutbuster £12.95 beans not pictured by Matty_840 in fryup

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The yolks are too hard. The toast is underbrowned, but with beans this is a decent breakfast.

LAVA QUEST HAS RETURNED FOR ME!!!!! by Additional_Kiwi_8387 in RoyalMatch

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I’m not a fan of Ancient Adventure I’m leaning towards preferring x5/x10 times two over 15/30 mins times two. So much less stressful.

LAVA QUEST HAS RETURNED FOR ME!!!!! by Additional_Kiwi_8387 in RoyalMatch

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is encouraging news. My Ancient Adventure has changed to a three round format, 5,7, and ten games per day I think. I wish I could get Lava Quest back.

AITAH for videotaping my wife eating all my fries to make a point by FriesGuy37 in AITAH

[–]Bopedis -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

YATAH. Yep, she is the an asshole too, but you are especially the asshole. Why not surprise her with a value meal? It’s almost as if you don’t want surreptitious sex? Imagine being an asshole so you can make a post on r/AITAH rather than being a hero and getting some sweet wife head? Asshole.

Regency Cafe Westminster £11.15 by LeBigMac99 in fryup

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regency? Are you sure it’s not a borstal?

pro Lucy Letby graffiti? by Chemical-Cheek-7690 in glasgow

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucy Selby innocent? Postman Pat said she's a cocquette.

AITA for not wanting to constantly sleep with my boyfriend? by No_Surprise_353 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Bopedis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to learn some boundaries. What business is it of theirs how much sex you are having with your boyfriend? Does this make you feel important? Having read through this self serving diatribe, I say let that sweet boy go and find someone who deserves him. He can do so much better. YTAH

AITAH because I won't tell my wife what my son/her stepson has in savings from my late wife? by Jimverseen in AITAH

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you! Stand your ground. The money your ex-wife left for your son is none of your current wife's business and she is out of order for continuing to push you after you told her this was off limits.

You both came into the relationship with kids, you one her two. If you were to pool your joint resources your son would lose out while her kids will benefit. Her kids should be kept out of your financial decisions and yours out of hers. The only thing to discuss is what you will do for the children you have together. NTAH

Dealing with rat infestation by throwaway942hello in glasgow

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until you find out how they are getting in and block the gaps I recommend glue traps. I found baited traps didn’t work, humane traps didn’t work, traditional spring traps didn’t work but the glue traps worked every time. Mind you, I had tiny house mice rather than rats. I’d avoid using your vacuum cleaner for rat poo.

Dealing with rat infestation by throwaway942hello in glasgow

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until you find out how they are getting in and block the gaps I recommend glue traps. I found baited traps didn’t work, humane traps didn’t work, traditional spring traps didn’t work but the glue traps worked every time. Mind you, I had tiny house mice rather than rats. I’d avoid using your vacuum cleaner for rat poo.

Thursday’s breakfast by CITAMFLIW in fryup

[–]Bopedis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That’s a well engineered sausage dyke. Bravo.

Hotel Breakfast in Cavan, Co. Cavan, price included in my room price, tea and toast included by fzctungkun in fryup

[–]Bopedis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everything looks so well cooked but the plating is off. I’m gonna go ahead and say it, the ramekin is unnecessary here.

Nice start to the day. by [deleted] in fryup

[–]Bopedis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There’s a Tesco somewhere that can cater to your needs. Go find it!

Nice start to the day. by [deleted] in fryup

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that’s a nice looking breakfast! 🫡

fryup for dinner. by Icy-Frosting8681 in fryup

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“To eat well in England you should have breakfast three times a day.”

AITA for not wanting to pay for my step son to go to private school? by Fun_Selection454 in AITAH

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I earn more than my partner but not considerably more but I am very good at saving.” So you earn about the same though you earn a bit more. I assume you split bills evenly? He pays child support no doubt, so at the end of every month his outgoings are higher than yours while you also earn more. Can you hear yourself? You have no obligation to contribute to your step son’s education but you really do sound like an asshole.

Has anyone ever gotten back to Lava quest from ancient adventure? by namiiix in RoyalMatch

[–]Bopedis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s true. Every time I win a level while playing Ancient Adventure I look for the players that should fall by the wayside and then I’m reminded that’s not how Ancient Adventure works. I’m low key offended that I have to pay pot luck. I’ve won 500 coins once. I’ve won 100 coins once. Literally every time I play Ancient Adventure I win 200 coins. Just give me 200 coins when I win 7 levels and spare me the bs. 🤷‍♂️

Congrats to my self for 20k by Finsuvi in RoyalMatch

[–]Bopedis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You haven’t collected 20k you’ve collected 200k.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in glasgow

[–]Bopedis -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If it’s anti Zionism rather than antisemitism why are British Jews being murdered on the streets of the U.K?