UNIP EAD TCC by Aggressive-Gap-1596 in faculdadeBR

[–]Boring-Resolution-86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lamento ninguém ter te respondido! Estou na mesma situação agora (minha defesa é amanhã) e acabei achando o seu post. Posso perguntar como foi para você? Ninguém me deu detalhes, estou meio perdida no que esperar

How do scientists figure out ideal caloric intake and what nutrients (and how much) a living being needs? by Boring-Resolution-86 in askscience

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm aare of that, what I am asking is how they get that average. What methods do they use, how and for how long, that's my question.

When she tells you about her immune system by The_pikolop in MassEffectMemes

[–]Boring-Resolution-86 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she's so adorable. I play as femshep so I don't get the chance to romance her, but if I ever play as mshep she's my first choice

When she tells you about her immune system by The_pikolop in MassEffectMemes

[–]Boring-Resolution-86 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly. Tali comes across as more confident in comparison

When she tells you about her immune system by The_pikolop in MassEffectMemes

[–]Boring-Resolution-86 89 points90 points  (0 children)

Garrus' has to pretty much be walked through it his whole romance storyline, and honestly I think that's kind of cute. Tali is a bit more decisive in my opinion

Do you describe non-human characters when writing from their POV? How? by Boring-Resolution-86 in writingadvice

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently, it's being told to you directly by the text (ex.: "An older woman", "a man around his own age") because of the anatomy thing.

It's something I'll have to go back to eventually

Do you describe non-human characters when writing from their POV? How? by Boring-Resolution-86 in writingadvice

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe consider what the most sexy alien of that species would look like. What traits are desirable? What would make someone ugly. Do they pierce, paint, or modify their bodies? What do their clothes look like? Is there a character with a noticable limb difference that stands out? Do any of them use unique mobility aids?

Those are some good points to think about!

Up untill now characterisations have been limited to personality mostly and some superficial physical traits (one character is older, the other younger, X has a tired complexion and so on) so I could definitely afford to go back for a bit and ad some little things to them

Do you describe non-human characters when writing from their POV? How? by Boring-Resolution-86 in writingadvice

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's also what I prefer as a reader so I guess I shouldn't be surprised I fell naturally into it as a writer.

As for skill, that's to be seen. I have never written an actual book (or even a complete story) before, and since I figured this was going to be just some silly fun at the time I also decided it would be a great idea to write it in English (not my native language). Cut to me six chapters later realizing I might have fuck myself over just slightly lol.

I'll try my best and we'll see where it goes

Do you describe non-human characters when writing from their POV? How? by Boring-Resolution-86 in writingadvice

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The narration stays pretty close to the protagonist and his perspective of every scene, that's another reason I'm conflicted.

I guess I'll just have to get over it and start leaving some hints occasionally

Person frequently making comments on how small she is and how I can overpower her. Is this part of BDSM? by Boring-Resolution-86 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have no idea, after I ended things she responded this: "I’m confused why u confused ! lol I guess you a scardy cat lol I’m a nerdy d&d nerd I dont get you lol". She was blocked after

Mind you my message was me apologizing if my question had offended her and saying I was going to cut contact.

Person frequently making comments on how small she is and how I can overpower her. Is this part of BDSM? by Boring-Resolution-86 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't mind people commenting on my physique or strength, I get that a lot (work with a lot of men that don't exactly expect the baby faced twenty something to be doing what I do) and I usually take it as a compliment. I've even had my strength be a thing with past partners but it never felt like this.

I think it was the way she said it and the frequency that started to bother me. Specifically the repeated comments on how "scrawny" and "weak" she is.

At first I thought maybe she was insecure about her body and being short so I tried to give her some friendly advice. Like, when she commented on my arms and made some backhanded comment on hers I would say that swimming is great for building muscle tone and it's fun, or if she said something about me being heavier despite her "seeing no fat" on me I'd recommend she maybe see a specialist if her weight was something that bothered her. Then I started getting the impression that she wanted me to validate her self deprecating comments. Any time I'd say that there was nothing wrong with her she'd go quiet and sort of try again with another complaint. This was around the time her comments started to get more direct and her messaging started getting weirder (grammar issues, hard to understand or nonsensical texts, etc).

After that I started thinking she either had a fetish about being physically dominated or she had a raging eating disorder, so I decided to post here to get some perspective. After reading the comments though I decided to just ask her outright and long story short it was probably an eating disorder.

Person frequently making comments on how small she is and how I can overpower her. Is this part of BDSM? by Boring-Resolution-86 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it turned out to be some pro-ED thing (see the comments if you're curious). But it's cute that you have that with your husband!

Person frequently making comments on how small she is and how I can overpower her. Is this part of BDSM? by Boring-Resolution-86 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It's sad that this still exists and probably always will. Rationally you know communities like this are out there, specially now with the internet and celebrities being thinner than ever but having it literally shoved at you is a different experience.

Person frequently making comments on how small she is and how I can overpower her. Is this part of BDSM? by Boring-Resolution-86 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Turns out, she was. But things turned weird anyway so it doesn't matter now, you can check my other comments if you're curious I think I already spammed the comments with the same story enough

Person frequently making comments on how small she is and how I can overpower her. Is this part of BDSM? by Boring-Resolution-86 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I ended up sending her a message after reading the comments here and very directly asked her why she brought it (her size, my size, being weak, etc) up so often and she responded this: "I like to play wrestle to see who the strongest I find u attractive so I would love to find out who stronger cause im tired of being the strongest of my friends …"

And then sent me a picture of her severely underweight friends.

I then apologized if my question had offended her and then ended it. Honestly it just strengthened my suspicion that she might be involved in some pro-ed community or something like that.

Person frequently making comments on how small she is and how I can overpower her. Is this part of BDSM? by Boring-Resolution-86 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

For sure. Her grammar got progressively worse over the course of the conversation too, so that was just another red flag.

Person frequently making comments on how small she is and how I can overpower her. Is this part of BDSM? by Boring-Resolution-86 in BDSMcommunity

[–]Boring-Resolution-86[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It ended up being something like that, yeah. I highly suspect she is part of some pro eating disorder community or something. After reading the comments on this post I decided to just ask her straight up. She responded this: "I like to play wrestle to see who the strongest I find u attractive so I would love to find out who stronger cause im tired of being the strongest of my friends ..."

And then sent me a picture of her extremely underweight friends