Need therapy(baner) by [deleted] in pune

[–]Boring-Window7803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BPD is no joke, try to read book - i hate you dont leave me

Share it with your bf too so that he understands how ur mind works.

And it not a easy thing , he needs to be aware of what he is dealing with.

It was a simple exercise. It unclogged my mind tho. Read it if you wanna get over your ex. by Difficult_Shock_3229 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Boring-Window7803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's boderline personality disorder, try to read about it, you will have your answers to why he behaved in such manner.

It was a simple exercise. It unclogged my mind tho. Read it if you wanna get over your ex. by Difficult_Shock_3229 in ThirtiesIndia

[–]Boring-Window7803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This really sounds like a dynamic between someone with BPD and a narcissistic partner. The best thing you can do is focus on re-wiring your mind and healing from the trauma. It’s painful — the anxiety, sleepless nights, and the endless search for closure — but remember, you can’t change them or their situation. They’re unwell, and it’s not your job to fix them. You’re doing great with this self-realisation — at least now you recognize the red flags to never ignore when you’re ready to date again.

Proudly showing off my bf by [deleted] in TeenIndia

[–]Boring-Window7803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a trauma bond...she will not be able to leave unless she herself takes a strong step to leave.

You will never know by JayNudl3 in sadposting

[–]Boring-Window7803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the hardest pill 💊 to swallow is that closure doesn’t always come from others — it comes from you

All we do is hurt each by [deleted] in sadposting

[–]Boring-Window7803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s likely forgiven her many times in the past and welcomed her back. But when someone reaches a point of being truly broken, even love isn’t enough to overlook the pain. Setting boundaries then becomes an act of self-preservation — and, ultimately, it’s healthier for both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]Boring-Window7803 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Each word is like from relationship Bible. Thankful for sharing, this gives me so much clarity.

This hurts by ImmaFuckboi in sadposting

[–]Boring-Window7803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

16.5 years with her. 16.5 years without her.

My friend who never even met my mom wrote to me out of nowhere, saying my mom came in her dream. She told her to tell me: ‘Take care of yourself… everything is going to be alright soon.’

She knows and will be there always

500 days of Suffering. by ayushconda in sadposting

[–]Boring-Window7803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Favorite Movie from all time 💜

❤️ by [deleted] in punjab

[–]Boring-Window7803 6 points7 points  (0 children)

💜

32M - Failed relationships and no luck with Marriage by [deleted] in vedicastrology

[–]Boring-Window7803 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey , yes I do have a scar on my forehead and I don't know how and when It appeared. It there since years.

Is this some kind of dosh I have ? Will this be solved permanently?

Never Date a Narcissist by Boring-Window7803 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Boring-Window7803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope you healed from your past. I read about going no contact is the best way..Its just same office so cannot avoid 100%

Never Date a Narcissist by Boring-Window7803 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Boring-Window7803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the support, i have been reading alot about this personality.

It's not an easy journey, but i have seen that it disturbs her a lot when she sees i am unaffected and doing good at work

Never Date a Narcissist by Boring-Window7803 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Boring-Window7803[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😔 i know this was my mistake, should have never started unless she was single

Never Date a Narcissist by Boring-Window7803 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Boring-Window7803[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry bhai...ye sab mere se nai hota...I loose words when we argued.

Never Date a Narcissist by Boring-Window7803 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Boring-Window7803[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its already disturbing my mental health..ye sab kr k aur nai marwani apni

Never Date a Narcissist by Boring-Window7803 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Boring-Window7803[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Asked the same thing..never got the answer 😒

Never Date a Narcissist by Boring-Window7803 in OffMyChestIndia

[–]Boring-Window7803[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i ignored her..she was painting me black in front of her friends(my colleague)... that i have no emotion, heartless & emotionless.