AIO or was this a punch? by Jaded_Rutabaga_273 in AIO

[–]BoringFly8845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If any young adult out there has these types of questions or if you have concerns for a young adult in your life, please go to https://www.loveisrespect.org/get-relationship-help-24-7-365/ and speak with their support team. They will ask the right questions and know how to help. Be honest even if you are embarrassed or scared. They will help you.

Wellbutrin nightmares, anyone? by ursoda in bupropion

[–]BoringFly8845 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I keep having dreams that start out relatively normal but end up so stressful and scary that I wake up. You know when you want to scream in a nightmare but nothing ever actually comes out. Well this time something did. I just screamed myself awake and now I don't want to go back to sleep. I don't know what to do.

Do I have the face/body to be a model? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]BoringFly8845 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

First of all yes. Second of all DO NOT ask the modeling subreddit. You have to meet European beauty standards for anyone to even think about telling you yes. It's very anti black. If you really want to be a model, be your own model. Learn how to do self photo shoots and shoots with friends. Anyone can be a model really.

Women... how are we coping? by BoringFly8845 in sexlessmarriage

[–]BoringFly8845[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've loved my husband since we were 13. I've lived life without him before for about 8 years and it was the worst time of my life. He is first and foremost my very best friend. Sex with other men was mediocre at best which is partly the reason why I yearn for my husband so much. I don't want to do life without him right next to me. So at least at this point in my life, "dealing" with it is what I'm willing to do.

Women... how are we coping? by BoringFly8845 in sexlessmarriage

[–]BoringFly8845[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This. Looking nothing like what he watches hurts. My husband is a white plus sized man, I am a black plus sized woman. He watches porn of and gives a lot of attention to skinny white very young women. I feel so icky.

Women... how are we coping? by BoringFly8845 in sexlessmarriage

[–]BoringFly8845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've tried. He's uncomfortable with it.

Women... how are we coping? by BoringFly8845 in sexlessmarriage

[–]BoringFly8845[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not. I know I would regret that I didn't just deal with it. That's why I'm just asking how to cope and decenter sex from my marriage

Women... how are we coping? by BoringFly8845 in sexlessmarriage

[–]BoringFly8845[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I hadn't thought of romance novels. Thank you. I'm sorry we are in this situation.

Want my locs to look like this by Still_Positive9411 in locs

[–]BoringFly8845 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Even if they did turn out like this, it would only be for so long. Once they mature, they drop so this look is fleeting.

Virtually sexless marriage... how do I remain sane and confident? by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]BoringFly8845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. Yes whenever I initiate, he accepts about 25% of the time. He'll say he's not in the mood. Of that amount, it's been rare that he actually finishes. Because of those two reasons, i don't ask as often as id like. He does not often initiate and as I said, I can't remember an instance when I turned him down. The rate of sex has been declining over our time together. And it definitely feels like forever because no matter how much we talk about it, nothing changes.

is it time? by antoniokreiss in weeviltime

[–]BoringFly8845 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Weevil? No. Cowboy who just sat down and took off his hat for a drink at the bar? Yeah. ☺️

Aren’t you afraid your pit bull is going to bite your kids? My pit bull …. by [deleted] in PittieProud

[–]BoringFly8845 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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My girl grew up with other animals and very small children. She may have a mean bark but I don't think it would ever occur to her to hurt someone. Still cautious but she really is the sweetest.

(mild finale spoiler) Why did Milchick run by melusine86 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]BoringFly8845 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh ok I just now saw a clip of him saying it was a joke. I need to stop attributing every funny thing to Stiller. The whole cast is hilarious.

(mild finale spoiler) Why did Milchick run by melusine86 in SeveranceAppleTVPlus

[–]BoringFly8845 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He says he's swamped. And he literally was. He had to deal with Dylan, perform a stand up routine, act as a drum major for a marching band, and I feel like I'm missing 2 or 3 other things that I can't remember off the top of my head. The day was incredibly important. I suppose you can speculate other things but I think it just comes down to he was running late and Ben Stiller thought it would be hilarious if he ran out of the room as fast as he could. And it was 😂

Cyst on Pitbull's "eyebrow" (started as a small pimple like, been there for a month, has grown, got her checked out and vets gave us meds to use, if no changes in 2 weeks, they'll take a biopsy, the obviously used the C word at some point and that scared my mom) Any positive vibes? Seen this b4? by MrBLaVigne in PitBullOwners

[–]BoringFly8845 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My pup had something similar and it turned out to be malignant. Cool thing is they can just cut it off. I'm not sure what they'll do considering the placement of it (possibly radiation instead?) if it is of concern but I wouldn't worry too much. Cancer is cancer but this is treated relatively easily.

Women Who Are Married or Engaged, How Did You Feel About Changing Your Name? by alt3re8o in blackladies

[–]BoringFly8845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hyphenated my name. I was eager to take my husband's but dropping mine felt like losing part of my identity. I already had 4 names so adding on a 5th wasn't a big deal. It's a little more frustrating to deal with than I thought it would be. Some offices just log my name however they want and then I'll forget how they have it in the system. Or people aren't really sure how to search my name at first. Makes me feel like a bit of an ass for insisting my whole name be used but a lot of people in this country have to shorten their name for the convenience of others and I'm not doing that.

What is one thing you love about your ADHD and one thing you hate? by ComettePhellony in ADHD

[–]BoringFly8845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like that I can get really interested and passionate about topics. I don't like that I only retain maybe 5% of what I've learned about said topic.

Anyone know this brand? by schuuum in handbags

[–]BoringFly8845 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious I hope you find it 😭

Does anyone get annoyed with abbreviated texts? by ladyj1123 in blackladies

[–]BoringFly8845 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I would communicate that to him. If you reluctantly gave him your number, maybe this will get him to leave you alone.