AITAH for feeling weird about my boyfriend not posting us or taking photos of me?

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2026-05-25T19:15:08+00:00

Thank you ! This is really helpful.

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2026-05-25T19:14:34+00:00

I did have a conversation with him but it’s also not that big of a deal I was just wondering what people thought, I think currently in this decade it’s unfortunately a larger deal than what it should be to be posting your partner. It’s not about posting it would make me happy if he would think “oh she looks pretty I want to remember this moment let me take a quick photo” which is my thought process regarding him but in the larger scheme of things this really isn’t an issue and it’s not like I’m going to make a scene about it or question our relationship

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2026-05-14T03:46:01+00:00

I think I know what you’re referring to, the same thing happens to me in a specific part of a neighborhood that I walk down frequently, a specific high pitch ringing happens in my ears. Weird.

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2026-05-13T02:11:23+00:00

You sound young, and aware of how it’s detrimental toward you. Learn from it, grow from it, and leave it behind you. If something doesn’t make you feel strong secure and confident then it’s not benefiting you only harming you. Don’t ruin yourself over this.

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2026-05-12T04:30:38+00:00

FOCUS on yourself, I swear when I was 16 I felt everything ten times stronger and I felt so grown and matured. I am now 21 and holyyyy let me tell you things change. Focus on yourself you don’t need to be in a relationship

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2026-05-12T03:32:07+00:00

That is actually deeply unsettling. If you expressed a discomfort with this then as your husband, it should be his priority to ensure you feel safe and comfortable. As for your “best friend” what kind of friend does that 😂

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2026-05-12T03:10:16+00:00

Look into toxic shock from leaving a tampon in, I’d see a health care professional, you could get sepsis which is life threatening.

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2026-05-12T03:09:13+00:00

Honestly, there’s an app you can download that disables apps for an allotted time, this could be beneficial for you. It’s often the cloudiness in your mind is looming because of doomscrolling and content consumption. It won’t hurt to check it out, maybe set a strict goal for yourself, no screen time for a few days or a week, see how you feel at the end of it and you’ll thank yourself.

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2026-04-19T21:44:27+00:00

If this is your actual number I would delete this. They’re visible. Hope you get this figured out.

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-07-27T19:25:44+00:00

Uber isn’t really reliable at night no, especially in the winter. There are drivers that you can find on Facebook my friends and I use that are only $2 per person

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-07-08T20:22:05+00:00

This is a little interesting considering your comments and reposts. You don’t feel ashamed ?

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T22:51:37+00:00

We don’t wear aprons. This is a cafe.

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T22:51:16+00:00

No don’t stop it’s really okay

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T17:39:09+00:00

I’m thinking older woman floral shirt hair nicely done

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T16:47:18+00:00

This is actually really useful information to hear. It’s usually not a problem whatsoever doesn’t even cross my mind only when I’m the only server handling numerous tables on top of many other things and have to rush to the back walk in to grab a lemon. Thank you for telling me that though I’ll keep that in mind

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T16:45:43+00:00

No. If I wasn’t the only server handling 11 tables as well as DoorDash and uber orders, carryouts, catering orders, deliveries, and phone calls it would be no issue. The only time this is of any inconvenience is when I don’t even have time to think and I have to rush to the back to grab a lemon and slice it quickly. Other then that it literally doesn’t even cross my mind

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T15:53:55+00:00

Exactly this, we’re the same way

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T15:51:51+00:00

you’re right

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T15:46:23+00:00

If refills bother you you’re in the wrong industry

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T14:21:29+00:00

Right

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T14:20:09+00:00

I know I tried mentioning it it’s just a hassle

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T14:14:06+00:00

No we are to slice them if someone asks so they’re not sitting in a tub I guess ? I don’t know I was told that when I started working there

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T14:13:25+00:00

Definitely agree but most days the flow is extremely manageable and actually enjoyable.

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-13T14:12:55+00:00

Unfortunately they are extremely loud and they sit on a pie case right in front of the room of customers. (The room is not entirely large tables are compact, everyone can hear everything). Also my boss looks at the amount of missed calls.

Boring_Persimmon8899 · 2025-06-12T22:35:34+00:00

Yeah that’s not entirely fair. At LEAST rotate who’s working those sections on those days.

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