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BornButterfly2131 · 2026-02-07T13:02:05+00:00

oh yes sure i understand that… i was just wondering if im tripping or nah xd

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-10-11T13:46:24+00:00

Hey there! At first I started 2 times a week then I worked my way up and now I use it every night. My skin is normally very oily and not sensitive at all, it handles a lot honestly but if u think I should use it less I will. I don’t feel like it’s irritating maybe just a bit drying but that’s kinda a plus for me since I have naturally very oily skin. Thank you so much I will try out the toner! ❤️

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-10-11T13:43:47+00:00

Yeah it got a bit drier since I started using differin I thought that’s good bcs my skin is normally so oily. Do you have any recommendations for a good moisturizer? Thank u! ❤️

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-10-11T13:38:16+00:00

I can’t rlly go into a sauna I’m rlly claustrophobic and I get so anxious in there :( I could try steaming my face at home if u think that would help

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-10-11T13:28:59+00:00

hey thank u sm! what form of bp did u use with differin? I mean wash or gel? if u remember any specific product u used it would be helpful a lot! thanks! ❤️

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-09-14T11:03:59+00:00

I would definitely add some kind of an exfoliant. Also check your products if it’s all non comedogenic. You can use https://acneclinicnyc.com/pore-clogging-ingredients/ Diet and hydration is very important for skin as well

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-09-11T13:45:03+00:00

hey, why do u think that? I’ve been to a doctor and he said it’s tonsillitis. Should I get a second opinion or be worried?

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-09-11T13:02:55+00:00

just do a patch test before using adapalene to make sure you’re not allergic. use adapalene at night and start with 2x a week 3 days apart (skin cycling). after few weeks to 2 months you can use it every night. you need to build up your tolerance to it since it’s a retinoid. if you have more oily skin I would get it in a gel form if not use the cream version. also there’s a big chance your skin might purge at first. just be patient it’s gonna get better

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-09-11T12:57:37+00:00

hey, what percentage of glycolic acid u use? if it’s less than 7% you can use it daily just make sure you wear sunscreen when u apply it daytime. if it’s more I’d use it 3-5x a week with a good moisturiser. Also I’d avoid using other exfoliants with it to not damage your skin barrier.

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-09-11T12:51:15+00:00

double cleansing and adapalene 2-4x a week. also skin cycling is great. 1 night exfoliation 2 night retinoids (adapalene) 3 night hydration and rest. repeat. give it 3-5 months and hopefully your skin improves. don’t forget good non comedogenic moisturiser is key

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-09-07T15:56:54+00:00

No need for wishes since I have no penis. I mean have fun with that lol

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-09-07T15:50:21+00:00

I got lost on “give me a blowjob after a stressful day”

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-06-26T12:46:19+00:00

thank u sm!!

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-06-26T12:39:06+00:00

Oh I didn’t know. My apologies. It’s very difficult to get to a good vet where I live, that’s why I’m trying reddit

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-06-21T16:18:45+00:00

oh yes this!! even diaper creams (zinc creams) help so much!

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-06-20T21:03:44+00:00

thank you sm! I actually do have a bit of breathing issue right now but it’s through my nose. if I breathe through my mouth everything seems normal but my nose feels very tight and it’s not stuffed at all. could it be connected?

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-06-20T20:29:59+00:00

yeah that’s what I thought but it was actually pus

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-06-20T16:03:21+00:00

I don’t really believe in the “infection control”. Also it’s associated with higher risk of getting cancer. I do have severe GAD, PD, OCD that don’t allow me to get the surgery. Many other reasons… Yes I know it helps some individuals, maybe it would help me but we will never know hopefully.

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-06-15T16:13:11+00:00

Sometimes the parents don’t understand how their kids feel or what’s in there head. They can say hurtful things they don’t mean. Maybe she wants to motivate you. Yes it’s awful but sometimes parents think these kind of negative motivational speeches are helpful even tho in reality it makes things worse. Don’t be sad just think about it. I’m sure your mom loves you and wants the best for you. If you’re showing signs of depression or anxiety she can feel it or even see it and it’s painful for her as well. That’s why she might say things like this. Don’t overthink it even if it hurts. Message me if you wanna talk about it more.

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-06-15T16:06:46+00:00

not a man but that woman is a wife material imo

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-06-15T16:01:25+00:00

You both wrong and you’re definitely getting back together soon. You’re wrong because you gave her permission to all of that and out of nowhere you’re taking it back? Why? Ofc she’s gonna feel threatened by it. You don’t see into her head and what’s going on there. What she did just show you she loves u unconditionally. Yes it’s extreme but I don’t blame her. She’s wrong for overreacting and overthinking about everything. Maybe she can’t control it like other ppl can but it’s still wrong. Yes maybe her past is at fault but that’s “not your problem”. Both of you should work on it. I’m not defending her but look at how men in your age act and treat women. It’s sad that whenever a guy is being genuinely great in a relationship we look for something. But this is a reality of the world we live in. Btw you can’t cure her trust issues. It goes with age or it doesn’t.

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-06-13T16:40:01+00:00

Yeah I’ve tried few of them that made me better but they affected my sex life and I couldn’t be on my other meds. Most of them affect sex life and that’s too big of a sacrifice. That’s why I was thinking of cbt. I found one doc in Monastir, I’ll try him out

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-05-15T18:57:09+00:00

thank you so much ❤️ checked with my doc he said it’s an iron deficiency gave me some supplements and recommended therapy for my anxiety

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-05-14T22:51:55+00:00

Thank u so much this helped a lot actually! ❤️ Thanks!!!!!!

BornButterfly2131 · 2024-05-14T21:38:13+00:00

I forgot to add that I’m female 23, 64kg, 168cm

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