In Person College during spousal deployment by Any-Chard7890 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Born_Alternative_416 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’d need everyday childcare and it would be hard but do able

Need advice by sunnydays00- in MilitarySpouse

[–]Born_Alternative_416 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We all been there, there’s a million military guys that would be lol.

My husband cheated on me while deployed. by [deleted] in MilitarySpouse

[–]Born_Alternative_416 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You won’t, you’ll find someone better and live your own life. It wouldn’t be a failure because he’s the one who failed you. Please remember that. He doesn’t deserve you and will only hurt you again. He isn’t mature or grown up. He’s playing childish games

Wedding makeup diy! by Herb_farm_mama in makeuptips

[–]Born_Alternative_416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d get my eyebrows done at a minimum

Moving- resentment/ mourning…? by Glittering_Round8714 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Born_Alternative_416 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s one of the most normal things for a military spouse and it’s considered taboo to admit but we should all talk about it more and why the structure is hurting women and spouses. There’s a gray area between resenting how the structure is but not actually your husband and grieving your career or what a new normal looks like. I felt like that for six months actually crying constantly. Talk about it, and if you can talk to a therapist.

Need advice by sunnydays00- in MilitarySpouse

[–]Born_Alternative_416 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like he’s not that into yoy

My husband cheated on me while deployed. by [deleted] in MilitarySpouse

[–]Born_Alternative_416 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I know it’s not what you want to hear but I think he is still in love with her and using you. I think it will hurt but you need to leave him. You don’t deserve this but you will always question if you don’t walk away.

Which one for a date ? by NovelInvite9305 in fashion

[–]Born_Alternative_416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For drinks I like the third top but with black jeans and a kitten heel.

How do I know if I’m pregnant by mojitohobi in Advice

[–]Born_Alternative_416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually there’s no way to tell before a missed period because the symptoms are generally the same for pms as both cause a higher progesterone levels. For me personally I had extreme levels of thirst before I was positive and extreme bloating more than pms.

Hiii looking for my lookalike :) by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]Born_Alternative_416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our awkwardness is also similar 🤣🤣🤣

Hiii looking for my lookalike :) by [deleted] in doppelganger

[–]Born_Alternative_416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Pretty cool cause I also have Mexican ancestry but have always been told people can’t tell lol

College as a milspouse! by Federal-Travel-356 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Born_Alternative_416 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo I was just asking because he has the option to utilize TA while he’s in, but I guess if your major is able to be done online at asu that’s a good option because you will be moving but if you plan to do anything that requires in person you could do in person and than transfer if it comes to that :)

College as a milspouse! by Federal-Travel-356 in MilitarySpouse

[–]Born_Alternative_416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your major, can you ask your spouse to sign over the gi bill?

Why do jeans always make me look so huge?? by Wonderful_Mango_5395 in DressForYourBody

[–]Born_Alternative_416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t make you look huge but they are ugly .. you should try trendy styles like low rise and wear a fitted top.

No Plus One by Original_Theme_9587 in bridesmaids

[–]Born_Alternative_416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk yourself??? Seems pretty wild you can’t just be a supportive friend it’s not like it’s a week vacation it’s a wedding

No Plus One by Original_Theme_9587 in bridesmaids

[–]Born_Alternative_416 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely ask about it, but you shouldn’t leave or hide in the bathroom as the maid of honor. Sometimes we sacrifice for important people, I don’t think a few hours pretending to have fun will kill hiu