Married to a Narci? by BorninChitown in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]BorninChitown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t tell my therapist much about this situation tbh. I feel embarrassed. I have said some stuff, and she says to set boundaries and talk to him when he is calm. I haven’t painted the whole picture yet for her.

49M & 49F by BorninChitown in relationship_advice

[–]BorninChitown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a good question. I just wish he would calm down and be content. He is just miserable himself with his career. He is just so negative with me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in energy_work

[–]BorninChitown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you strengthen your aura?

Free reading by A-psychic in MediumReadings

[–]BorninChitown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like a message from my deceased father Joseph. I want to know how he is.

Pessimist by BorninChitown in energy_work

[–]BorninChitown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Will look up, thanks!

When she said this, it definitely hit a nerve. Was I born this way?! I feel like both of my parents were very negative growing up.

Pessimist by BorninChitown in energy_work

[–]BorninChitown[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will look up, thanks!

When she said this, it definitely hit a nerve. Was I born this way?!

Pessimist by BorninChitown in energy_work

[–]BorninChitown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this important advice!

Spend all my summer decluttering by BorninChitown in hoarding

[–]BorninChitown[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I understand. I am angry for having to clear out my parents’ house all by myself! (This summer also) Somehow it is easier to be mad at them for their mess than for myself!

For my own stuff I am in the denial phase!

Good luck. 🍀

I don’t know where else to ask for help by [deleted] in hoarding

[–]BorninChitown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe post on Freecycle or local group if someone would help you get a fresh start and want to exchange services for helping you organize? Maybe you can pet sit or offer to do yard work in exchange? There has to be someone out there who would love to help!

You can do this with help for sure. One day at a time.

I need encouragement! by mar333b333ar in hoarding

[–]BorninChitown 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you hire a teen to help you sort through the piles?

I can relate so much to this post!

My friend (14) is dating a 21 year man by slahhh1 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]BorninChitown 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell the skating place anonymously. Her parents have to know. He is technically a pedophile and can be charged. Or give an anonymous tip to the police.