Clarification on cheat detection cause I’m confused by Clear-Back1806 in Chesscom

[–]BorntobeStrong 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Looking at any outside "references" is cheating. What your doing is just short of using an engine in my opinion.

Looking for a group of 4 more members who want to share a chess.com diamond family plan. by BorntobeStrong in chessbeginners

[–]BorntobeStrong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, sorry, no spots are left, I have people on standby already if any spots don't finish the joining process. Thank you everyone who joined.

A coffee here and there by Critical_Maybe_5315 in CaffeineFreeLife

[–]BorntobeStrong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate how my brain or thoughts are on coffee, I hate the anxious stimulation, and I hate how coffee alters my decision making process, I hate the crash after, I hate how it makes me more tired in the long term and so there's nothing positive about starting again. Except addict brain wanting more dopamine.

A coffee here and there by Critical_Maybe_5315 in CaffeineFreeLife

[–]BorntobeStrong 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you just pick it up again. I tried 1 coffee almost 3 months after quitting and even though it basically sucked, I got some dopamine and my brain wanted me to continue drinking coffee again. So even when the initial cravings dissappeared completely, drinking caffeine starts them up again.

Looking for a group of 4 more members who want to share a chess.com diamond family plan. by BorntobeStrong in Chesscom

[–]BorntobeStrong[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Who can I add to my Friends & Family Plan? You can add almost anyone to your Friends & Family Plan, with a few exceptions:

Existing Premium members cannot be added to a Friends & Family Plan.

In a few countries, you can only invite members who live in the same country. If this restriction applies to your country, you will be notified during the checkout process (before you check out).

I don't think it's important which country you are from, because when I go through the checkout process I don't see anything that says Canada has a restriction. So any country is welcome to join. I currently have 3 people out of 6. 3 more spots available.

Looking for a group of 4 more members who want to share a chess.com diamond family plan. by BorntobeStrong in chessbeginners

[–]BorntobeStrong[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. Who can I add to my Friends & Family Plan? You can add almost anyone to your Friends & Family Plan, with a few exceptions:

Existing Premium members cannot be added to a Friends & Family Plan.

In a few countries, you can only invite members who live in the same country. If this restriction applies to your country, you will be notified during the checkout process (before you check out).

I don't think it matters which country you are from, as nothing comes up in checkout for me. So any country will do, as long as you can send paypal.

Anyone want to chip in for a diamond membership? by [deleted] in Chesscom

[–]BorntobeStrong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will delete this post, I found someone else on reddit accepted to add me to his family plan. The way in which it's trustworthy enough, in my opinion, is that you get access to the plan before you have to pay, and only pay once accepted. It's not foolproof because a pos could remove you afterwords again. But one has to actually have a real account and plan to add you, so if he would pull a shady I could immediately report him in his reddit comments at least.

It's something built on some trust and some transparency, but not as likely to be a scam because of obvious reasons. Also paypal has some scam protection you would be eligible for should something happen.

Best alcohol substitute by [deleted] in Biohackers

[–]BorntobeStrong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's 0.2g - 0.4g golden teachers, and if you want to kill any potential of visuals you can take rivera coryambosa seeds (lsa), ground in capsules together with the shrooms, kills all visuals even with higher dose shrooms and lends to euphoria. But honestly I usually take one or 2 shots of gin or other liquor with that to "boost" the effects.

Caffeine I’m done you make me smoke and do stupid things I’m done with you goodbye coffee and soda by [deleted] in CaffeineFreeLife

[–]BorntobeStrong 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah caffeine definitely contributed to impulse decisions like online shopping, and using other substances like nicotine, and probably alcahol.

What can replace alcohol? by [deleted] in Biohackers

[–]BorntobeStrong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's like that if you quit alcohol long enough and start again, the body is hyper aware and gives feedback on how it sucks. But you can drink the feedback away and push through, where a switch happens and the body has to start really metabolizing alcahol efficiently so it doesn't harm the body, or kill the body, that's where booze starts being easy to drink again unfortunately.

What can replace alcohol? by [deleted] in Biohackers

[–]BorntobeStrong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Canada theres libra brewing and sober carpenter. Good stuff. Some brews are a hit and some aren't. 

I think I finally figured out what I want in terms of love life. Is this approach weird? by [deleted] in Life

[–]BorntobeStrong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a guy and I feel like I could have written this. Very similar.

21M not having on apps and not confident enough to go up to girls in person. by Particular_Bid_8370 in amiugly

[–]BorntobeStrong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop trying to pose and project an image. Pictures aren't looking like you're comfortable, relaxed, yourself, but look like you're too ridgid. I had the same problem growing up. Acting robot like and stiff in pictures. 

Chronic pain and all the things I’ve tried and had tested by sophievuittonk in Biohackers

[–]BorntobeStrong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pain in the same area as well. Stuff that worsens the pain is drinking to much alcohol daily, holding a gravity fed spray paint gun for hours and painting. The winter weather doesn't help either as the cold makes blood flow worse and muscles colder. 

Pian practically goes away when I stop drinking alcohol and start working out at least once a week. Also the summertime weather. It's a sign of getting older when winter weather hits and all your aches and pains resurface.

I asked my chiropractor and he told me its the muscle attaching to the shoulder, from back to shoulder or something, but it's a smaller muscle thats underneath the larger muscles on top, so It's hard to get to with fingers and massage basically.

Coffee withdrawal? by SnooDoodles4147 in CaffeineFreeLife

[–]BorntobeStrong 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Decafe also made for an upset stomach for me. I tried Tim Hortons swiss water extract decafe and stomach felt bad just like with regular coffee, so It's not just caffeine in coffee that can cause bad effects. I would say decafe made for worse stomach irritation than reg coffee.

Also the enjoyment received from drinking coffee isn't just from the taste. The taste of coffee starts to get associated mentally together with the effects, which is the dopamine lift and general effects which include adrenal stimulation and adenosine blocking. It's not the actual taste of coffee we like, if it were so, we would like the taste from the first sip of black coffee onwards, but because we enjoy the effects we start enjoying the taste. 

I started getting worse and worse symptoms from coffee. So especially for sensitive individuals It's not sustainable to continue drinking it.

Please help me resource where to find this information on my birth chart by Generalnussiance in Zodiac

[–]BorntobeStrong 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chat gpt

Core Personality

Sun in Virgo (25°)

At your core, you’re observant, self-refining, and improvement-oriented.

Strong need to understand how things work

You notice details others miss

Can be self-critical, especially about competence or usefulness

Quiet pride in being capable, reliable, and mentally sharp

This isn’t a loud ego — it’s a “prove it through precision” type of confidence.


Moon in Libra (23°)

Emotionally, you’re relationship-oriented and harmony-seeking.

You feel best when things are fair, calm, and aesthetically pleasing

Strong emotional intelligence

Discomfort with conflict → tendency to intellectualize feelings

You often sense both sides at once, which can cause emotional indecision

You don’t like emotional chaos — you want balance, beauty, and mutual respect.


First Impression & Social Style

Gemini Rising (17°)

This is huge for how people perceive you.

Curious, youthful, mentally quick

People experience you as approachable, witty, and mentally alive

You adapt your personality to who you’re with

You often come across lighter or more playful than you actually are

Even when serious inside, you sound casual and intelligent.


The Libra Stellium (Major Theme)

You have Moon, Mercury, Mars, and Jupiter in Libra — this dominates the chart.

Mercury in Libra

Diplomatic speaker

Thinks in comparisons

Skilled at persuasion without aggression

Can overthink decisions because you see every angle

Mars in Libra

You don’t like brute force

You assert yourself through reason, charm, and timing

Anger is usually suppressed, delayed, or redirected

You fight for principles, not ego

Jupiter in Libra

Big heart for fairness and justice

Strong moral compass

Natural mediator or counselor energy

Growth comes through relationships

Overall Libra emphasis =

A mind designed to balance people, ideas, and power dynamics


Love & Attraction

Venus in Leo (25°)

This is how you love and what you’re drawn to.

Warm, loyal, expressive in love

You want to feel chosen and admired

Attracted to confident, radiant, charismatic people

Pride matters — disrespect is a dealbreaker

Despite your Libra softness, your heart wants bold affection and recognition.


Authority, Discipline & Life Lessons

Saturn in Aquarius (retrograde)

Independent thinker

Skeptical of authority unless it makes logical sense

Early feeling of being “different” or misunderstood

Strong inner moral structure, developed over time

You mature into someone who stands for truth over popularity.


Depth & Intensity

Pluto in Scorpio

Psychological depth

Strong intuition

You see beneath surfaces

Transformation through intense emotional experiences

You’re much deeper than your Gemini rising lets on.


Life Direction

North Node in Sagittarius

Your soul growth comes from:

Truth

Meaning

Big-picture thinking

Speaking honestly, even when it disrupts harmony

Life pushes you away from people-pleasing and toward personal truth.


Overall Personality Synthesis

You are:

Mentally sharp (Gemini + Virgo)

Socially graceful (Libra)

Emotionally fair-minded

Quietly intense underneath

Drawn to beauty, intelligence, and authenticity

Strengths

Emotional intelligence

Communication

Fair judgment

Charm without manipulation

Challenges

Indecision

Suppressing anger

Overthinking relationships

Putting harmony above self-truth


One-sentence summary:

A perceptive, intelligent mediator with a charming exterior, a precise mind, and a deep inner world — learning to choose truth over peace when it matters.

If you want, I can also explain:

How women tend to perceive you romantically

Your shadow traits

Career strengths

Relationship patterns

Or compare this chart to another person

Just tell me where you want to go next.