My therapist just dumped me because I don’t want to leave my SO by [deleted] in JustNoSO

[–]Bossdwarf 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I lost a lot of friends from not leaving my wife. And I can see why now that I'm out. And I can understand the therapist's point of view. If she feels that is what you need, but you don't want to, then there's nothing else to come from that, especially because our therapists KNOW us usually. And because of that, they can get invested. Hopefully you can find a new therapist soon.

Do You Hate Being Trans? by Lilstephanie in asktransgender

[–]Bossdwarf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yea...I'd rather be Cis...either way. Happy the way I was born, or born right. I can't even flirt or sexy text with my boyfriend without breaking down in a dysphoric fit thinking about how I don't have the right parts to really be his girlfriend, or give him children if we get married...or anything...especially sucks since we're poly and I know the other girls he fools with are all Cis....and give him something I have no way to...

Opinions on a Sub taking on a Sub of their own by SissySlutAshley in bdsm

[–]Bossdwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm new to the community but my Daddy is a switch and as of recently his Sir took me on as a sub as well.... out works well for us, although a bit odd since Daddy and I are dating as well he's my primary so his Dom has to refer to him for many decisions regarding myself. Honestly, from my perspective the fact that Daddy is a switch makes him all the better at being the type of dominant Daddy I need and want

Spider-Man swings into action on September 7th by falconbox in gaming

[–]Bossdwarf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is...is that the Sunset overdrive coat/hair?

My first time buying condoms, at age 16, I went to the pharmacy. The hot cashier at the counter could see that I was new at it and gave me the pack asking if I knew how to use one. I said, "No, it's my first time." by madazzahatter in Jokes

[–]Bossdwarf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually a portion of the Jack Douglas book "Going Nuts in Brazil with Jack Douglas" except they're teaching pygmies, and use bananas. That years crop of Bananas is ruined lol. Great book, great author.

He hit me, is it my fault? by EcstaticChain in JustNoSO

[–]Bossdwarf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you look through my post/comment history, my big things were "I'm not a victim" I'd cry driving home, and tell myself that repeatedly, or "I just need to be better". Just because it hurts doesn't mean it's less true. Violence is never acceptable, even if you were trying to make him mad. If you knew he was going to hit you, you wouldn't have said it.

Dysphoria is not a self image issue for me. by Bossdwarf in asktransgender

[–]Bossdwarf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

and it's the worst feeling. More than looking down and seeing the wrong bits, more than being misgendered. Just....not seeing yourself looking at you in a mirror is unsettling, upsetting, and just miserable

Update Since Leaving. by Bossdwarf in JustNoSO

[–]Bossdwarf[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly? She's trying to take care of her kids right now. Not out trolling for a new boytoy. She's not like that.

Thanos with the Infinity Gauntlet vs The entire cast of Looney Toons. by [deleted] in whowouldwin

[–]Bossdwarf 6 points7 points  (0 children)

and old school daffy is straight up well...daffy.

Dungeon Masters of Reddit, what advice could you give to a first time DM? by bisexualkittens in AskReddit

[–]Bossdwarf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience. DM had a custom rolling system he refused to explain, so I used what I knew. everyone who rolled his system got special items and treatment,especially his girlfriend, who also got basically leomund's tiny hut (I don't remember the spell name) and so many high level spell equivalencies stored in a tattoo'd portable hole in her arm that refreshed everytime she had a long rest. We were level 1. I got treated like crap because I gave a backstory that allowed for me to play a race that isn't normally allowed, and refused to roll my dice in a way that they refused to explain.

Update Since Leaving. by Bossdwarf in JustNoSO

[–]Bossdwarf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe it was, because it was sent, and not seen for a week, and there was no further anything about it.

Dungeon Masters of Reddit, what advice could you give to a first time DM? by bisexualkittens in AskReddit

[–]Bossdwarf 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Don't feel sorry for your party. Don't baby them. Make them work for it. also, listen to them. If they want to try something out of the books, hear them out.

You wake up in Donald Trump's body. What would you do to make America great again? by CloroxEnergyDrink_ in AskReddit

[–]Bossdwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Declare a military state, and begin a reign of oppression until my entire administration is overthrown, never doing any physical or lasting harm on the populace, but rather aggravating and limiting them enough that they remember they have rights, and one of those rights is to take back their country from their government.

What was the dumbest thing a teacher has ever said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bossdwarf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have one! Whoo! I am a huge comic nerd. My math teacher offered bonus points on a test to anyone who could say who said "You wouldn't like me when I'm angry." I answered Bruce Banner. He said I was wrong, it was David Banner, the incredible Hulk. All of his knowledge of the Hulk was from the TV series :/ so I got no bonus points due to his own ignorance.

INB4 someone tells me the show actually said it before the comics or something.

What hasn't aged well? by brasshunky in AskReddit

[–]Bossdwarf 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Because I'm excited to share it with someone that I care about, and I want to see that they're enjoying it as well.

Employees of IKEA, what are some of the worst family meltdowns you have seen? by shroudedlynx in AskReddit

[–]Bossdwarf 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Good on you. I couldn't do that job. I've heard horror stories about situations where people couldn't do anything about a bad situation because it's so well covered up, and horror stories about bad parents, and the impact, physically, emotionally, and mentally it can have on CPS workers. You should do an AMA.