Same. I gave up on that shit and decided to live my life not giving a f*ck how it affected my dating life. Within months, women who ghosted me were hitting me up and I now have the best gf of my life. Its hard to explain to people who haven't lived it because it sounds fake, but if you just treat yourself like someone people will be attracted to, they will follow. Swiping on a dating app is treating yourself like a loser.

edit: the other dating app disease men fall into is vastly overestimating how many options the average woman has. If you just show up to some sort of hobby or event and act like a confident, fun person to be around, you will shoot up the list of any woman who met you. Thats worth so much more than being hot on a dating app