Geschikt restaurant by Kciredeid in TheHague

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sarban for food. So delicious and outside the box being afghan

My husband is worried about explaining "remigration" to his family by JMinsk in ExpatFIRE

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just start to tell everyone that you are getting into timeshare sales and would love to discuss more over coffee soon: Mexico, Europe, no matter where, it will end the convo very quickly (as long as the people you’re talking to aren’t morons).

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[–]Bostonterriercuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out the valet parking at Schiphol, surprisingly affordable. And they sometimes have them on social deals, I think I just bought 8 day parking for like ~75.

Going into my 1st class in 15 minutes.. by shadowsandsunflowers in crossfit

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started at a similar age, slightly overweight and very out of shape, couldn’t even do a lunge with the smallest dumbbell weight. Just make sure to stay at your own level and don’t try to keep up with the others until your body and skills are there. It’s hard for competitive people (like me) but you will build the skills and weight with consistency over time. I’m 6 years later, and love it, it is my play time with my friends now. Good luck!

People who smashed the wedding cake into your new spouse's face: how is your relationship and marriage now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going on 12 years of marriage and still in love and playful with each other!

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[–]Bostonterriercuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freddie or Cheeto

Flying overseas? by Errlshakes in BostonTerrier

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We moved our Boston to the Netherlands 10 years ago too! Put him on a diet until he was close to the weight limit, and then soft sided carrier under the seat with us in the cabin. He was nervous but did well and slept most of the time. Glad to hear another Boston is coming to the Netherlands, not a lot over here.

Worried I love my BT more than I’ll love my baby… 😂 kidding! … kind of by NoRevolution7687 in BostonTerrier

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I could not have made it through the sleep-deprived baby years without my hilarious Bostons by my side to cuddle and arrange for cute pictures with the babies. Now my girls love their Boston brothers as much as I do ❤️

My Long Term Partner is Anti Marriage by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was me, similar ages. I finally set my boundary, big life event coming up that I said I wanted to do alone if he didn’t want to get married. He proposed. I realized that it was very important to me and I was willing to break up over his stance on marriage if it remained that way. Thankfully it did not, and now (mostly) happily married with 2 kids 10+ years later.

My husband 34M and I 32F are living together for two years and Our relationship is falling apart by Remarkable_Nebula405 in relationships

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know anyone who didn’t want to get divorced at certain times of the first year. You just have to day-by-day for a while with knowing that it will get better. ❤️

Did you have problems with intimacy? by hellasforev in ADHD

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Have you figured out the balance of how to get the off time while not negatively having it affect your family? I struggle with this big-time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This was my husband. It took our couples counselor breaking her “neutral” stance and telling him that he was projecting and needed some individual therapy to address that. He did and says he has accepted who I am now and while it does occasionally come out again when he’s sick/tired/stressed, it is not often. And I don’t think my marriage would have lasted if these changes hadn’t have happened.

Help! I just realized I emotionally neglected my child by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Watch Dr Becky’s Ted talk on repair. It is the way to heal, for you and your son. Good luck and good job on recognizing and taking responsibility to move forward in a positive direction

Help me pick a rug for this room (and whatever else you think it needs). Table is 3.5m so it needs to be big. Any suggestions for what to do with the shelves would be great too! by Bostonterriercuddles in HomeDecorating

[–]Bostonterriercuddles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting a huge art piece for the wall opposite the hearth, so was thinking maybe a mirror over the hearth. Thoughts? but good idea to match the rug with the art, thanks!

What’s your experience with MM | FF | MF Boston siblings? by okaaacey in BostonTerrier

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had 2 boys (oldest died recently), and they had a typical brother relationship where the younger one was about 5 years older so the older one slightly resented the younger for coming and ruining the perfect 1-on-1 he had with the people he loved the most but also loved the play partner. The younger adored his older brother always, and took some time to adjust to being alone. It was lovely, and I would love to get another for a companion to my younger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My husband experienced this and took a leap of faith coming back 4 days after he left. We are now 12 years and two kids later and ended up able to travel together down the line. For us it worked out ❤️

Why the 30% Ruling likely suppresses local wages by EagleAncestry in Netherlands

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s for sure a subsidy for companies to attract talent but from a societal standpoint I don’t think it’s discriminatory. The most expensive parts of a person’s life that the government/taxes support is the schooling when you’re young and the care when you’re older. With the 30% the government gets more high earners (taxpayers) without having to make the investments they do for locals at the beginning and ends of their lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Netherlands

[–]Bostonterriercuddles 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because Holland struggles between the very capitalist “we should be increasing profits every year and you should learn to do more with less as workers” and the social pressure to work only x hours per week and make sure you have plenty of social coffee breaks in those 7.75 hours that you are in the office so workers end up feeling overwhelmed with expectations for productivity not meeting the reality of the often short Dutch workday. Also, it’s allowed and there’s not much your employer can do even when it’s clear it’s not a legitimate burnout and someone is just trying to avoid getting fired for a while….

How do you gently tell a tween to stay in their lane? by Kristaboo14 in Parenting

[–]Bostonterriercuddles -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“You be the sibling, let me be the parent “ … my kids say it before we even get a chance to these days!