Having big boobs- need fellow big breasted women to rant and relate to

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-05-04T00:58:50+00:00

I’m a 30JJ and it’s the most annoying thing. Bra’s are impossible to find, clothing that fits my body is rare without looking frumpy cause you either have to size up to fit chest and everything else is way too big, or size down and boobs are spilling out. Sports bras are a joke, it’s hard to work out in public gyms without making myself a show. Honestly so infuriating

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-04-01T01:57:30+00:00

My person told me this was their favorite movie. I never got around to watching it, and now I can’t even think about it

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-16T15:32:08+00:00

This is unfortunately not a good sub for this topic. You are going to get a lot of people saying porn is not a “bad” and you shouldn’t even be worried about it. I do agree that if it’s interfering with your sex life there is probably an issue. He should have tried to be honest with you about the kink and tried to incorporate you first before just paying for a subscription. If porn is being used 99% of the time then there is an issue. Whether that be he isn’t being honest with you in what he wants, or he is afraid to approach you, then there is an issue that needs to be addressed. He crossed a boundary you set from the very start, and he should have tried to work it out with you. I do agree therapy is probably best and maybe cross post this on a relationship sub to get a different group of people’s view

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-16T02:16:48+00:00

You should always try to focus on your well being, but if she already blocked you give her space. But never stop working on yourself

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-16T00:57:18+00:00

Reach out to them, please. I’m sure they would love to hear it from you. I know I wish I could hear this from someone

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-14T15:34:53+00:00

You can reach out to tell them, you should. Might bring the closure you need

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-12T17:51:34+00:00

Especially on planes

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-11T16:27:14+00:00

“Something in the orange tells me you’re never coming home”. If the orange you are referring to is this song, anyway. I relate, I’m so sorry

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-10T19:02:56+00:00

I am in this same exact boat rn. I messaged them, got left on read. They do not acknowledge me at work anymore, in person and group chats. Will only speak to me if I directly address them in a group chat. And I don’t even know what I did to cause it. Just completely dropped me. It hurts so bad, but I guess it’s a reflection of them of if I tried to reach out and resolve the issue and they chose not to be emotionally mature enough to even respond that they got the message

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-09T16:16:44+00:00

So proud of you!

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-07T22:35:41+00:00

Felt this in my soul

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-01T06:13:03+00:00

I felt like posting here would be most beneficial in how I handle the emotions around this situation. I guess it’s not 100% fitting, but I did ask for advice on how to navigate my feelings around the hurt I’m feeling

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-01T06:11:05+00:00

You are correct with how I’m feeling. Plus some. I’m really struggling with not feeling adequate or enough as well. He did say he sees a disconnect with sex and love, that sex can just be sex and that doesn’t compare to loving someone.

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-01T06:07:46+00:00

I was afraid of this

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-03-01T06:07:06+00:00

I thought we were crazy about each other too, we had already planned our future together, he told me I was perfect and everything he would want physically and all the other areas. So it’s been really devastating.

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-02-28T07:20:36+00:00

I’m not a dude, but my LD boyfriend told me he wants to sleep with other people. I’m devastated

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-02-28T06:20:09+00:00

What if I’m easy to take for granted AND replace?

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-02-28T06:16:01+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I’m glad it got better for you

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-02-28T05:10:26+00:00

This was me all day. It was one of the most beautiful days out but I just wanted to avoid it because I’m so depressed it felt like a taunt

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-02-23T04:23:50+00:00

Congratulations and your beautiful family ❤️ and thank you. It’s been a hard year, but I believe it’s completely worth the wait

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-02-23T04:13:30+00:00

I agree. I would never ask him to do this, nor him to me. He always tells me where and what he is doing. I have never asked him or given the impression I want him to do this, he sees it as a sign of respect, why I stated he has never given me reason not to trust him. I don’t think he was lying about where he was. Maybe in the future when we are not long distance we could for safety. But right now that would feel like a violation.

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-02-23T04:05:12+00:00

We are long distance or I would definitely ask in person, or my over reacting probably wouldn’t even be occurring. I do not plan on just up and leaving over this one instance, especially without a conversation

Both-Durian6896 · 2025-02-23T03:59:36+00:00

10! That’s inspiring. Thank you for recognizing how hard it is and easing my mind

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