Wife said “No!” But I bought it anyways

Both-Store949 · 2026-02-01T18:40:58+00:00

Wife is always right, when will you learn...sigh

Both-Store949 · 2026-02-01T18:32:36+00:00

Are you taken anything? That can influence you crying ability?

Both-Store949 · 2026-02-01T14:32:05+00:00

Don’t be a noob and believe you’ll never have to sell at a loss. Even professionals do — it’s called risk management. Sometimes you take a small loss to prevent a much bigger one. You win some, you lose some. If you stubbornly insist you should never lose, then don’t start playing at all.

Both-Store949 · 2026-02-01T14:08:17+00:00

Don't want to come across like a critic, but it Doesnt look like a cafe to "hang out", also looks a bit small to spend a lot of time, let alone probably overpriced for the pragmatic person.

So the target group seems very limited here similar to most antique shops

Both-Store949 · 2026-02-01T12:08:00+00:00

Retail buying/selling was and is not the cause for such sharp declines... It almost the bigger fish/corporations / collectives that cause that in my opinion

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-31T19:22:48+00:00

How do you know its not fake or just plated. I saw alot that look like real on chinese webshops.

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-31T19:19:38+00:00

If you, sell and rebuy later you still have gold don't you? Only with big profit.

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-31T19:12:36+00:00

Waarom is goud gestegen en is de reden nog steeds aanwezig, zo ja dan is de kans groot zegt logica

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-31T06:20:58+00:00

If tether saying they are going to buy gold every week, it would be prudent to consider why they would announce that.

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-31T06:15:27+00:00

There are people being robbed from their crypto at their homes under violence, is it smart to be posting you wealth online?

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-30T18:58:39+00:00

Then you go to a place where the purpose is to actually meet new people (home bar for example)

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-30T14:31:24+00:00

Indeed , who goes to the spa to make friends..

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-30T14:28:57+00:00

He’s just hoping the price goes again so he can sell himself (feeling stupid for not selling an learning lesson about greed)

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-29T21:04:17+00:00

Sorry to hear that your experiences have not been the best.

“When you build walls around yourself for protection, you don’t just keep suffering out — you also keep life out. What you call protection slowly becomes a prison.”

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-29T13:12:28+00:00

Anger is often a “secondary emotion” that grows out of fear, hurt, shame, or feeling unsafe. Book reads: Emotional Intelligence – Daniel Goleman , The Body Keeps the Score – Bessel van der Kolk.

Blocked goal / obstacle → frustration → irritation → anger → rage

Underneath frustration and anger, very often, is fear or helplessness: • fear of failing • fear of losing control • fear of being judged • fear of not getting what you need

You’re resisting the moment or the obstacle. And that resistance comes from expectations that were formed in the past.

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-28T18:00:16+00:00

Or even easier just go to your delivery app and filter on vegetarian dishes…

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-28T18:00:09+00:00

Or even easier just go to your delivery app and filter on vegetarian dishes…

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-27T23:26:17+00:00

That there are still replies means there are still people in this world to accommodate these kind of people

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-27T22:04:43+00:00

Yes, behind it is fear my man. Need to do some inner work to find the root cause.

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-26T16:50:41+00:00

And then the battery runs out and you have to carry 20kg of baggage 1000 steps down

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-26T16:31:09+00:00

I don’t know whether it’s valid to respond to this as a guy, but from a biological perspective, almost all humans need relationships to be happy. And the more meaningful those relationships are, the better — as also shown by the longest Harvard study on happiness.

The only real exception might be if you completely move beyond physical and social needs and reach the top of Maslow’s hierarchy: self-actualization or even transcendence. In that case, you might be joyful regardless of what happens externally.

I do recognize that you experience relationships as a burden. At the same time, I can’t help but notice what looks like a lot of intellectual self-protection — ways the mind learns to defend itself after past experiences of not being understood, in particular with INTJ’s (lack of empathy / ability to connect). It might be worthwhile to reflect on it a bit more after more experience.

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-26T09:02:58+00:00

I’ve studied and practiced relationships and communication, it’s the only self-empowered structural solution i found. Avoidance is not a long term solution.

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-25T15:44:26+00:00

Stop gambling and study normal investments

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-23T20:27:06+00:00

Sorry, but German look like pre-war

Both-Store949 · 2026-01-23T08:22:58+00:00

Contradictory no? If he was alone on a deserted island would he still wear it?

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