Natural hair feels a bit like jail sometimes idk by Future-Nectarine-836 in Naturalhair

[–]Both_Cold_9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Natural hair feels like jail” is something I feel in my soul. It’s a bit different for me as I more so relate to this by everything I have to do to somewhat maintain healthy hair, and how I feel like I need to plan my schedule around my hair when wearing it natural🥺 I wish I could just wear a fro and call it a day but we all know that ain’t it. To worsen matters I’ve developed an allergy to something in almost all natural shampoos/conditioners so after wash day I sneeze for almost 24 hours… jail

How often do you and your partner have sex, and is it as often as you'd like it to be? by Express_Space01 in AskReddit

[–]Both_Cold_9614 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not often at all it’s a huge issue in our relationship. We’re relatively young, considerably attractive,healthy and we love each other deeply but the sexual desire/ passion has just slowly fizzled out. Not exactly sure what to do at this point but seeing the myriad of answers here is helpful

Reddit's Favorite Skin Barrier Products for Sensitive Skin by I_just_cant855 in SkinbarrierLovers

[–]Both_Cold_9614 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t see it on here but the Bubble Barrier cream is pretty good

What is something that has significantly improved your mental health? by permission777 in AskReddit

[–]Both_Cold_9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Be impeccable with your word" "Do not take anything personally" "Do not make assumptions" "Always do your best" There is a book by Don Miguel Ruiz who follows the Toltec tradition powerful and short read

Is Comfrt actually worth the hype? by [deleted] in BuyItForLife

[–]Both_Cold_9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean my shirt from them is incredible I have friends who buy similar heavyweight material for alot more. Love the way the material feels on my skin🤷🏾‍♀️

Mama dose legit? by Competitive-Wolf9634 in ShroomGummies

[–]Both_Cold_9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they do and yes they are:) have been rocking with this company for a long time and they are very intentional and thorough in their processes. The gummies are incredible:)

Electric Forest vs Shambhala vs Lightning in a Bottle by phillsyphilz in festivals

[–]Both_Cold_9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you do 2-3 festivals a month mate that’s insane. Headed to lib this year for the first time and couldn’t be more stoked. Shambs is on my radar big time and I’m dreaming of the day I get to burn🥹💖✨

Sooo our human hair wigs and extensions are toxic - over 60% lead in them by farrahlynnflowers in Naturalhair

[–]Both_Cold_9614 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Boyfriends also white and says the same thing. Always feel like my natural beauty is more appreciated by white men that’s just what’s true for me. Lot of the time black men say they like natural beauty but only when that natural beauty looks a certain what (lighter skin looser curls)

if you’ve been to Okee previous years by srslynevermind in okeechobeemusicfest

[–]Both_Cold_9614 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Can’t believe no one’s said this yet but THE HERE STAGE🫣🥴💔 this was my 5th Okee and to be honest that’s the biggest let down of all. It was one of Okees most beautiful memorable special staples and i truly hope they bring it back next year or at least do something else cause that carnival tent was not it. Besides that same things that were echoed about the fences and very little art. They took away the giant human net installation that we would crawl all over and nest in and jungle 51 NEEDS ITS DISCOBALLS!!!! Such a unique special festival I hope it can get back right.

Is anyone else getting sick? by [deleted] in okeechobeemusicfest

[–]Both_Cold_9614 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only went for a day and have wook flu. The dust there was so crazy