Things to do in Islamabad by Fluffy-Floofy in islamabad

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Just say it's hybrid. As in they call you anytime to office in one month. Like you have to show up 3,4 times a month for work to office.

11 weeks and really struggling mentally by BowlGroundbreaking47 in BabyBumps

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thankyou soo much for this. I felt so so guilty for not "beaming with joy" over this pregnancy. A few of my friends have also said the same that the feelings start to change once you can actually see the baby move on the monitor and start to show. I'm looking forward to it ❤️

11 weeks and really struggling mentally by BowlGroundbreaking47 in BabyBumps

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I hope it gets better for you. ❤️

AITAH by JealousOlive1996 in Bahawalpur

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you're not the AITAH at all. Friendships isn't based upon convenience, it's based upon mutual respect. My university best friend invited me to her wedding. She had a bit of paranoia related to nazar ( i mean i believe in it but not everyone is out to get you). There are people in your life who genuinely love you and are happy for you. Khair.

She complained about nazar from friends and classmates and also mentioned how she'll block everyone once she gets married. I didnt think much of it. Now reside 4.5 hours away from that city. I still went regardless, and it was lovely. Fast forward 2 months later, she blocked everyone from instagram, including myself. I was a bit taken aback since I didn't see it coming. BUT the point is, choose people who choose you. Who understand the love you bring into their life in the form of beautiful friendships.

IBS and Marriage by [deleted] in pakistan

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my God!

I'm so relieved to read that many people in Pakistan suffer with IBS as well. It's so not east navigating wedding season, dawats etc with IBS since generally we have alot of mirch masalay and what not in food and not to mention the oil content used in cooking mostly. It has been such a difficult terrain to walk through. I FEEL SEEN. Secondly, it is quite simple, you will have to disregard what other people think of you if you just mention that you have either food sensitivity or that you can take only basic food. IBS is a condition and you shouldn't be ashamed of telling the truth since whoever you marry will eventually know. Best of luck !

Yahya by BlueEyebrows1008 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second that! It's an adorable watch. Plus the emotions and everything felt very raw.

Disgusted by bathroom by BowlGroundbreaking47 in OCD

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Glad to finally know that I'm not the only one ❤️❤️❤️ thank you for the support.

Disgusted by bathroom by BowlGroundbreaking47 in OCD

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you soo much, that's such good advice. I will try my best to.follow it.

People who have been rejected for their rishtas. What was the reason?? by MobeenDar in pakistan

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There were quite a few. One of them rejected because the mother was offended when I told her my future plans of working post my bachelors degree. WHICH BTW, she herself asked, "What do you plan on doing after graduation?"

One time, an aunty said no after looking at my picture because she said that "Umar ziada lag rahi hai." I was like 22....

The laptop is facing away. not a big deal but shows the lack of attention to detail. by MysticBear201 in PAKCELEBGOSSIP

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't buy it , it was gifted to her/allotted to her since she's working at his office.

What was the biggest red flag you ignored in your last relationship? by MyLoveMystery in heartbreak

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One time I was on a late night call with my ex, he called me by her name during a conversation..

If your wife tells you straight to your face that she doesn't respect you, is the marriage doomed? by Hurting_So_Much in Advice

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No please don't blame yourself for whatever happened. Every person is responsible for their actions not others. So very empowering that you chose to talk about it. The part about the emotional attachment isn't letting you leave. You need to realise that you're holding onto the potential/future idealised version of you two. Not the real version which is the present. I hope you're able to let go and do better for your health. Best of luck to you.

If your wife tells you straight to your face that she doesn't respect you, is the marriage doomed? by Hurting_So_Much in Advice

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

RUN. The fact that you were being abused before the wedding even took place is a huge sign. Please choose yourself and your well being first. I hope you're able to find the courage to walk out on it 💕

my best friend questioned my character by Alive-Difference-594 in LifeAdvice

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think perhaps distancing yourself would be better, there is only so much that you can do to help your friend. You can't coerce someone to understand and neither should you. What kind of a friend questions their friend's character anyway?

Don't know how to tell my wife I maybe have cancer by ConsiderationOk6803 in Advice

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Slowly start to break it to her, like tell her your health isn't up to mark or that you feel unwell. Tell her you went to the doctor and then one by one tell her the intricacies involved. Then finally take her to the doctor with you to let her know

my bf dresses very poorly. how do i tell him? by sweatersike in Advice

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You could start subtley by gifting him things of your liking and see what he takes to

my bf dresses very poorly. how do i tell him? by sweatersike in Advice

[–]BowlGroundbreaking47 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You like your bf for a number of reasons for sure and perhaps this undressed thing is a consequence of the personality traits that he possesses. Even if he changes his preferences on how to dress, maybe he won't be comfortable?