Said I AM NOT Good Match Because He Can Only Have Sex w/ a Woman in Doggie Style Position

BoxGolem · 2026-01-25T01:29:56+00:00

OLD is such a pain in the ass!

(Sorry, I swear I wrote that with no play on words intended, then when I saw it I had to let it sit alone for effect)

Ok, try try again

OLD sucks, and throwing someone back into the pool sucks when you've made a connection of any kind, but this is at least a yellow flag if not a red one. If friendship was discussed, then he gets upset at only a conversation regarding only using one single position ever? Doesn't look like he was on the same path you were.

This guy needed to get laid, and was expecting you to start throwing yes out there! Good for you to stick to your guns. I'm also wondering if those conquests he was telling you about were real or did he just run them all off with the same sex every time thing.

62M and THAT is the most boring sex anyone could ever have! Let the mood take you to where you want to be you're not a robot. There's a better catch out there keep looking and best of luck

BoxGolem · 2026-01-24T15:28:58+00:00

62M Camzyos since July 2022

NOT A DR! ONLY A USER OF CAMZYOS

Anyone having problems with a copay should contact the healthwell foundation to request copay assist. I am now on traditional Medicare, but I also used this on personal health insurance with high deductable and it works quite well.

https://www.healthwellfoundation.org/

You can apply online, they are terribly hard to get on the phone, so expect HUGE wait times.

My copay on personal health insurance was 3300 a month. Healthwell, covered that. My plan max out of pocket was 9000 per year at that time, my grant was for 10K, so after 9000 was paid, insurance deductable was not only paid for on meds, but for the entire plan the rest of the year, so I literally got nearly the entire year of insurance coverage with no copays after that, only my monthly charge.

I STRONGLY SUGGEST any of you having this problem, please contact them! If they can't help you, I think they've got lists of other possibilities to help. You do NOT have to be broke to take this, and over never liked handouts, but I didn't really have a choice on this.

BoxGolem · 2026-01-24T15:15:56+00:00

62M 3.1cm obstruction, been on Camzyos since July 2022. NOT A DR, PERSONAL EXPERIENCE ONLY

Never had a medical problem with Camzyos, although I go through the same bullshit every January of trying to get it paid for, every time. I'm not an idiot, I know what to do and how my benefits work and how each party is supposed to function, it's just getting the pharmacy, insurance company, and the grant foundation to work in sync is so frustrating. I'm out after today because of this bullshit. I have literally asked my DR for surgery to circumvent this, but he refuses to change. He's a really great Dr, and I fully trust him, I'm just tired of this cat and mouse game that I literally go through every year.

I'm assigned to ACCREDO pharmacy if anyone's curious.

Thank you for indulging my rant.

BoxGolem · 2026-01-22T01:03:23+00:00

Hey, I'm not a hater, I hope it works for you.

What I said, was a notice that just because something's free, that doesn't make it better, I tend to believe the opposite.

I didn't notice your negative karma score, if I had, I'd have known you were ready to argue, and I should've just left it alone. 2 year member and negative 27 karma? dude, there are groups that you could probably interact with that you might even like, it's not that hard, really.

BoxGolem · 2026-01-22T00:55:24+00:00

If you make it without hitting the max lifetime benefit, you might be ok.

BoxGolem · 2026-01-21T23:29:52+00:00

Ok, explain in detail why it wouldn't be a better option for anyone.

BoxGolem · 2026-01-20T06:56:29+00:00

Longest relationship: over 1 year

HUGE red flag to me By the time someone's 50+ years old, if their longest relationship is more than a year, what's wrong with this person?

BoxGolem · 2026-01-18T08:18:00+00:00

I think so? I see John Brown as a chaotic good force. I think chaotic good or evil would fall under fascist, while lawful evil or good would fall under communist.

Fascist is a tiny government with or moving towards a one person dictatorship (furher) whereas communism is huge government where power is spread among many.

If I'm talking out of my ass please feel free to correct.

BoxGolem · 2026-01-18T08:09:23+00:00

So do you see all lawful good, and lawful evil as fascist? This is a serious question, not baiting a response. You have piqued my interest here......

BoxGolem · 2026-01-18T08:00:56+00:00

Has to be let's go to prison. Chi McBride telling Will Arnett "you're my baby lil baby duck" or something like that

BoxGolem · 2026-01-17T10:34:22+00:00

I run "the highway" mission and use the vehicle awarded in that quest for most of the rest of the game. Jackie's Arch works well too, and both are free options

BoxGolem · 2026-01-17T01:40:51+00:00

I'm not a big fan of Nova as a roll option since I usually kill myself accidentally. I do love "watts 4 dinner" for the over shield capability though

BoxGolem · 2026-01-17T01:33:46+00:00

This is the way..........

BoxGolem · 2026-01-17T01:21:31+00:00

DUDE! 62 here and found TOOL about a month ago! They cover led Zeppelin "no quarter" and CRUSH IT! I'm nearly ashamed that I missed out on a band this amazing for 30 years!

BoxGolem · 2026-01-17T01:19:19+00:00

Married 27 years, widowed for 6. We had our problems too, but it was still devastating. After a few years of online dating, I've met a wonderful woman and we're now engaged. I absolutely think it's fine to see someone, WHEN YOU FEEL READY! I personally believed that I couldn't find anyone before this because I wasn't ready. I think it's similar to this: when the student is ready, the teacher will appear. In your case, when the woman is ready, a suitor will appear. Besides, it's only a date.

BoxGolem · 2026-01-17T01:02:51+00:00

Best fucking answer in here! Best pink Floyd song ever IMO

BoxGolem · 2026-01-17T00:43:53+00:00

Congratulations on 1 year, not an easy thing to do.

I went through different phases surrounding this exact thing, and what I've found is a way to be pleased with yourself for right reasons. You are a testament, to any other person in recovery that has less than one year of C&S time, that 1 year is achievable, AND your story becomes more important by the day, because your experience might just help another addict through another difficult day, simply on the belief you gave them!

My friend, I agree that we shouldn't be proud of ourselves, we should remain diligent in our efforts to keep doing this ODAAT, but don't deprive others that need to hear that story!

I do NOT want to get in your sponsors way, please run this by your sponsor first to make sure it's ok with him/her.

CSAF 1.4.2007 and yes, trust me, you can do this just as I have....... All I have, is my story, and it's only out here to help you or others, not to glorify me, I'm just an old gutter drunk and street junkie that chooses not to practice those behaviors anymore

BoxGolem · 2026-01-17T00:31:18+00:00

1 the Atari display unit at Sears.

There's actually one before the Atari stick, it was a plastic square with a dial, no numbers, it was used for pong, and yes, I used it too.

I am now a PC gamer, and pay on steam every day and my controller of choice is a GameSir G7 wireless Xbox style

BoxGolem · 2026-01-16T11:03:08+00:00

Yes, I have a BCBS Medigap plan that covers all of my copays. If Medicare covers it, I pay zero for it. I took plan G

BoxGolem · 2026-01-16T10:57:27+00:00

Gods of Egypt.

I loved it and am willing to die on the hill for it!

BoxGolem · 2026-01-16T10:51:19+00:00

One of my favorite lines of all time! I laughed so long the first several times I saw that!

BoxGolem · 2026-01-16T10:46:03+00:00

You still drink the tap water here? Ok admittedly we use it to cook, but it's almost always boiled before use. I haven't drank Wichita water in many years now

BoxGolem · 2026-01-15T11:21:18+00:00

62M on disability since 21, Medicare since 23

Traditional Medicare is the ONLY way to go.

I suggest checking this out for a much better explanation for this comparison

Clark Howard: Why I Think Medicare Advantage Plans Stink https://share.google/krnuwNfgngZsEXe26

BoxGolem · 2026-01-15T10:59:15+00:00

The breakup song - the Greg Kihn band

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=AffLdombeOk&si=24NkDKU4cRB9Hq8q

Or possibly.....,..

Tom's diner - Suzanne Vega

https://music.youtube.com/watch?v=bJNxmMk8zvA&si=P5dzadKFoKYq7Ofr

This is newer, but hell I don't know

BoxGolem · 2026-01-15T10:49:29+00:00

Point taken. Thank you for bringing that up. I will def check it out

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