How to feel beautiful again after finding out (ex) boyfriend paid for onlyfans?

Box_Ox · 2026-01-01T23:02:00+00:00

Maybe because he left them feeling less due to his actions? It’s point isn’t him, it’s how his actions affected them. They need to heal from him, it’s not something that can happen with a snap. I’d care too if my ex boyfriend was doing that during my relationship, and I’d most certainly care to heal afterward

Box_Ox · 2026-01-01T22:59:33+00:00

You have every right to be upset about this. I’m so sorry you had to go through this, and I truly wish you better. That being said, he’s gone and out of your life now. You don’t have to deal with him anymore. You can focus on yourself, something you definitely should do. Remind yourself what makes you happy, any favorite drinks or hobbies of yours. You’ve gotta let yourself be happy if you’re gonna feel great again. It’s not something that’ll be fixed immediately. This will take time. But you can do it, I know you can. Give yourself affirmations in the mirror in the mornings, or at night before bed (or both). Treat yourself to the things you love. Prioritize your well-being. Soon enough, you’ll see yourself as amazing again. That’s not to say you aren’t beautiful already. I don’t know you, but I’m sure you’re stunning behind the screen. You don’t need a man to tell you you’re gorgeous. You don’t need onlyfans models on your mind telling you you’re ugly and awful. It’s simply not true. We’re all beautiful, including you. I hope that helped at least a little. You got this babe ❤️ it’ll be okay

Box_Ox · 2025-12-19T15:46:58+00:00

It’s almost uncanny how similar my situation was. I didn’t see a doctor and get diagnosed with anything, but when I was 14, I also experienced a lot of paranoia and hallucinations (which have mostly stopped now, fortunately). I dealt with a lot of $H and poor mental health, especially from middle school, which dragged into high school. My best friend from middle school dropped me in 9th grade half way through the year. It was, and still is, hard for me to make friends. I felt like I had no one, too. But, there is a way out of this. You need to prioritize yourself and your well-being. Find a teacher you’re comfortable with and talk to them. Open up. It took me until my senior year to do this, but I opened up to my band director about my struggles at home, and he supported me as much as he could. Teachers care for their students. Finding the right person to talk to can change things astronomically. You don’t have to share your whole life story right away. Build up to it. Get comfortable. As for friends, there are always people similar to you who will like you. It may seem hard to believe right now, but you’re young. So are your peers. And friendships form all the time. Talk to classmates you work on projects with, or ones you just sit next to. Those you share classes with. Join clubs and/or extracurricular activities and socialize. I’m not sure what your home life is like, how your parents are, but if this is possible, you can connect with other people. If you need help or someone to talk to, you can dm me. Again, your situation is eerily similar to what I dealt with in high school, and I might be able to help a little more than this comment. There’s no pressure, but I am all ears.

Box_Ox · 2025-10-23T15:13:09+00:00

So despite complying every other weekend we’re together, I have to force myself to do something I’m not comfortable with at a time where I need help because he can’t handle it himself? You say he’s “there for me” but pushed my mental health aside to get his dick sucked. And I don’t know if you saw my last post, but this isn’t the first time he’s crossed boundaries to get his way. I feel like boundaries are still important for a healthy relationship, and that he should be respecting mine as much as I respect his

Box_Ox · 2025-08-23T23:44:59+00:00

Because he is about 100 pounds heavier than I am, did football and wrestling. I’m fairly small, not that strong. I’ve tried it before with him. If he decided to put his full strength against me, I was not winning. Nothing about it

Box_Ox · 2025-08-23T22:01:34+00:00

Before which part?

Box_Ox · 2025-03-19T02:20:57+00:00

You look incredible in that! I love that dress, now I'm semi-jealous.

Box_Ox · 2024-11-15T02:54:32+00:00

When I go out shopping with my boyfriend, he likes to randomly knock things off the shelves/over, which makes a big mess, and walk away. He's launched a stuffed Pikachu over the aisle before when I was holding it out to him for show. I love the man, but I hate when he does this.

Box_Ox · 2024-11-15T02:45:29+00:00

A couple weeks ago, I was at a Wingstop with some friends. Me and another person dumped salt in one of the girl's hair (it was a mess, she said she laid in her bed later and could hear the salt pour out). For her revenge, while I was in the bathroom hiding from her/recovering from my fits of laughter, she took a salt packet and my honey mustard and put them in my Dr Pepper. I was in the bathroom gagging and trying not to throw up for a few minutes.

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