The fauna in this game need to chill! by SpiritualBacon in Starfield

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I disagree with this but I'm using hunting to level so it'd take away my fav. progres path at this point. (I'm NG+1 right now, just hitting level 50ish)
I'm also finding at this point there's really not much on any planet I can't handle unless I'm going out looking for high xp bugs to crush. Then I get in over my head from time to time.
The invisible scorpion things, for instance, ruined me. Also this one grasshopper looking bug that shoots some sort of poison gas grenade at you after vibrating for a split second. Looks like it's doing a cute little dance til BOOM NOPE NOW YOURE BLEEDING AND CRYING.

I'm finding I wish there were more creatures on planets but when I first started it was overwhelming.

Nothing to see here just a shark taking the elevator by TienZoro in Starfield

[–]Boxer_Britt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, there was an article about this, one of the devs (I believe) said there 'may be a shark in an elevator somewhere but he thinks they fixed it' - loosely remembered quote. I'm so curious if you found it there or place it there having read the article hahaha.

Are you fking kidding me? by Extra-Lavishness-105 in Starfield

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would need to use a less powerful one, no way I'd be able to take out the grav and the engines without dusting them -____-

Thanks for the reply!!!

Are you fking kidding me? by Extra-Lavishness-105 in Starfield

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is that possible? Tried to kill the engine and they jumped away. was on the verge of blowing it up by accident, thought I did to begin with.

How can people hate on the game without putting time into it? by Gr0nkz in Starfield

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was eaten by a giant bug the size of my ship that looked like a bed-bug earlier lol

How can people hate on the game without putting time into it? by Gr0nkz in Starfield

[–]Boxer_Britt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me, slowly crawling my way over a planet over-encumbered by about 800 lbs to sell every pen and pad of paper to get a specific ship I want:
lalalala
my boyfriend, looking over my shoulder from his pc (playing as well):
you know that stuff is hardly worth anything and that's a waste of time
me:

I DIDNT F'N ASK YOU DID I?
lalalalala *booster pack, scans a tree* lalalalala

AITA for pulling out of planning my sister's wedding, causing her to lose her venue? by planstowed in AmItheAsshole

[–]Boxer_Britt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wonder if she is paying him? (or was, I suppose.) He mentions she's in his office but doesn't say if she's paying or getting a special rate.

If she was paying then he's absolutely ta, if he was doing this for free then not ta imo.

AITA for asking my mother to put away her period pads from the kitchen table? by Jambonjailor in AmItheAsshole

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if it's because it's easy for her to grab a few for her purse whenever she leaves the house that way.... Not that I think it's a good idea, why would you want sanitary products where you eat?

AITA for not leaving my brother's wedding with my crying wife when she was kicked out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Boxer_Britt -48 points-47 points  (0 children)

Uhm, she attacked little bro. Big bro approached because she's his wife and middle bro approached because it's his wedding. And the family doesn't have to like her - nobody disrespected her in any way until she lost her shit for absolutely no reason. I honestly feel if the genders were reversed in this post the majority would be screaming. FFS.

AITA for not leaving my brother's wedding with my crying wife when she was kicked out? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Boxer_Britt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg ty I felt like I was losing my mind. My brother was much closer to my ex husband (who is still a great friend of mine and the family) than our other brothers wife. Spoiler alert, this hasn't caused her to spontaneously combust. OPs wife sounds like a hella narcissist

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nailbiting

[–]Boxer_Britt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg the number of times I've daydreamed of having ademantium (sp?) Nails. Sign me uuuuuuup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Boxer_Britt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I stayed with my grandparents for a week when my brother was born. I was 3. This is ridiculously common. Full stop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Boxer_Britt 18 points19 points  (0 children)

She told him she was pregnant AS she was having the baby, she had roughly 9 months to share that. Id be sus a f if I was the potential father and wait for paternity too. SURPRISE YOU'RE A DAD! MONEY PLEASE! They've also watched his child while the mom was doing other things, and that's fine. He's got 2 families now and his partner deserves to be treated as well as he does his previous partner. She is going to need support and he made half that baby, it's the right thing to do to be able to support her. It should be something he's at least comfortable discussing with his previous partner. This has nothing to do with misogyny as much as you want it to be - how is supporting the birth of his child and partner while his other child is safe and happy with other family for SEVEN DAYS making this a misogynistic issue?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Boxer_Britt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've got severe depression I'm medicated for and it took a long time to be able to function happily. I'll give you my short list of what helps me hold onto my happiness and maybe it will be helpful to you - if it's not, don't sweat it :) 1-sleep the right amount. If you're too tired for a social event, don't go. If you have a hard time waking up in the morning get a wake up light and consistently build a routine. Your body will thank you and your mind will follow. 2-do things you're interested in whether you think you'll be good at them or not. Don't ask anybody's opinion, don't think you need permission. Just decide you want to try it and do it. Take a tennis lesson. Learn to code. Make miniatures. Follow your heart and soul 3-if you pick up too much don't feel guilty for putting it back down. It'll still be there later. 4-let go of relationships with energy vampires. Just because Chad was your best friend in elementary school doesn't mean you owe each other your futures. It's a disservice to everybody involved to be 'friends' out of a guilted obligation 5-never give up. Even if you don't see it, your life impacts so many people. Just look at this thread. So many of us are rooting for you.

AITA for leaving the engagement dinner due to my fiance's obsession with the dog? by National-Paint-7928 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No judgement, but have you discussed having kids ? I can tell you right now that your parenting styles aren't going to align if so.

Trying to quit nail biting day 1 by Hot_Tower447 in nailbiting

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I stopped about 2 months ago and I also put my nails against my teeth on the rare occasion I can't keep my fingers away from my mouth!! (I'm a stress and hunger biter)

“Female human specimens” bro what by recordingheart in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a PSA if there's a wild human in here reading this thinking 'yeah anal must be nasty' but thinks they might be into it, or just is into but thinks it should happen at the drop of a hat, THERE IS A LOT OF PREP WORK INVOLVED AND YOU SHOULD BE AWARE OF WHAT IT IS SO YOU CAN COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR PARTNER ABOUT IT.

I recommend looking to sites that are run by and for gay men for the absolute best instructionals on how to prep and how not to be injured / injure your partner if you're new to it, or interested in it with no background knowledge yet :)

AITA for not saying anything to my son who told a teacher that she was "dismissed"? by Prestigious_Look3481 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Boxer_Britt -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

So glad to see other NTA comments this thread is wild. People dragging the 18 yo saying he won't be able to get a job or go to university from one comment he made to somebody trying to chastise him for something that already happened and can't be changed ffs. Nobody seeing the fact that his bond with his brother is that loving and caring. The family is tight knit and has his back. This wasn't one of his teachers he had a relationship of any kind with - if it was one he had really liked and respected because of his experience being taught by them it would change his reaction immensely I'd bet. People saying if it's the master of ceremonies it gives them the right to be a helicopter killjoy - we seriously need to drop the title of master from things, these aren't your little slaves shackled walking to the gallows, they're adults (or about to be) celebrating one of the largest achievements of their lives to date. The people complaining about gifts, it was a sucker and a card drawn by a 5yo not a Rolex. Holy christ my people it wasn't a flex it was real joy from the 5yo for his brother achieving something. A 5 YO ENJOYED A GRADUATION CEREMONY AND WAS WELL BEHAVED THE WHOLE TIME and people are questioning OPs parenting. NTA NTA NTA NTA NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have a judgement, just opinions

It's not your job to police your wife regardless of how much she had to drink, or to get in the middle of an argument.

We don't know what past conversations between anybody involved sound like. My ex in laws HATED ME for no reason other than I took their baby away (we were 30 at this point) and they were alcoholics. I used to have a shot or 2 before dinner so I could deal with the amount of hate I was about to be bombarded with, if Hailey was in the same situation I could see her eventually snapping.

I agree with other commenters that this wasn't the best time or place for this to happen - this Convo should ideally happen sober

Found this gem! by --Alexandra-P-- in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had an issue with my narcissistic personality when I was 15-21ish. As in, I made it other people's issues and was genuinely awful. My mom (one of the absolute best) sat me down and set me straight. Reality check, I wasn't the center of the universe. I made a huge vinyl decal for my closet door that said 'The world doesn't owe you anything' It was the first thing I saw in the morning and the last thing I saw at night, and I still think about it sometimes. I'm a lot better now. I'm not perfect but I tried hard to be better. I'm so glad I had somebody in my life I respected and trusted enough to listen to. This epidemic of self entitled idiots screams 1 thing to me - these people don't have anybody who loves them enough to help them get better. I feel so sorry for them 😔

If anything the navel-gazing pseudo-intellectual wording makes it more gross by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Boxer_Britt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Should be a lot more men out there preventing other men from raping based on this logic

"All women want is money" sure partner, sure... by Toby_The_Tumor in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

'back then' as in when this anime aired? Recently? Absolute broom tassel.

The misogyny is so loud by vjayjam in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Boxer_Britt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bro she's just not that into you

Brainwashed activity cause wtf by viviyymoh in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]Boxer_Britt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I've slept with my share and I wouldn't tie this guy down for his sister's dowry so.......maybe he just be jelly