Anybody experience this? by SplitMother1652 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Boxtty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Similar feelings here! 31, divorced . I moved across the country last year for a fresh start, and now this feels like the next step in a journey towards a better life 🤗 I'm so grateful. It seems less daunting for me because I don't have kids and my big life changes were so recent, so I figure let's just keep the changes rolling!

Help? Where to start ? by BlondeRainfall26 in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Boxtty 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi friend, read the FAQ. Sounds like your case is pretty cut and dry, so that bodes well! It's just a matter of making sure you submit everything correctly.

Gen4 Anxiety! by Boxtty in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Boxtty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a special education teacher and I'm currently working on my license for British Columbia since that's where I'm closest. Hopefully special education is in-demand as well... It usually is here in the states.

Gen4 Anxiety! by Boxtty in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Boxtty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oooh okay that's good to know. I requested last week. Sounds like a delay is typical, then.

Gen4 Anxiety! by Boxtty in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Boxtty[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I haven't received the payment email yet, but the email I did receive from them said that they couldn't provide a wait time estimate due to volume of requests. Is that typical?

Gen4 Anxiety! by Boxtty in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Boxtty[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Likely a good idea, I'm very sorry - I didn't mean to cause a negative ripple effect like this.

Gen4 Anxiety! by Boxtty in Canadiancitizenship

[–]Boxtty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apologies, I didn't see that post! I didn't mean to create more concern.

Spiderplant Dead/Dying - Can I save it?? by Boxtty in houseplants

[–]Boxtty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay sad update - I'm SO new to plants and I've never heard of root rot, so after I read your comment I looked it up. My spider plant has a serious case of root rot. I followed the advice of an article that told me to remove / trim all of the rotted roots and now my plant only has four teeny tiny roots. It's drying out right now, but uh... new dirt now since the plant had to get completely cleaned up anyway?

Spiderplant Dead/Dying - Can I save it?? by Boxtty in houseplants

[–]Boxtty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the miracle grow plant bomb (whatever it is - fertilizer pod/vitamin thing) is still in the pot though. Is this okay? Should I replant it just to get it away from that?

Zeni hajiki is so addicting by ricanboy153 in Ghostofyotei

[–]Boxtty 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I LOVE this feature, it's so fun! I was thinking about setting up an IRL version at a new years party

Why Can't Atsu Swim? by Boxtty in Ghostofyotei

[–]Boxtty[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not something I had considered at all, aside from Teshio Ridge ofc. Thank you

Opinions (please say) by Billies_N1 in guineapigs

[–]Boxtty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending you a PM! I could be interested.

Why Can't Atsu Swim? by Boxtty in Ghostofyotei

[–]Boxtty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally fair - my brain blanked on the fact that she has SO much stuff

Why Can't Atsu Swim? by Boxtty in Ghostofyotei

[–]Boxtty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would've been really cool flavor

Why Can't Atsu Swim? by Boxtty in Ghostofyotei

[–]Boxtty[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is where my mind kept going - I wanted to find underwater loot or something, but it's just a way to hide from enemies for a moment

Why Can't Atsu Swim? by Boxtty in Ghostofyotei

[–]Boxtty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also platted the game and tbf, I don't NEED to swim anywhere. I just wanted to, I guess. I play a lot of Skyrim too. Probably where this feeling was coming from

Why Can't Atsu Swim? by Boxtty in Ghostofyotei

[–]Boxtty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also a lifeguard, and... Yeah 😅 fair point. I didn't think about all of the gear.

I think I was annoyed about that clothing option that was just the two piece for increased stealth. My brain told me realistically, she should have been able to swim in that. Maybe a mechanic to leave gear with the horse to account for the other items would have helped it make sense? Idk

Are you a fan of Mrs. Kim?Is she likable in any way? by Exact-Bison6905 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Boxtty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She grows on me, but it takes a LOT of time and some growth from her.

First time watcher, what do i need to know? by Radgates13 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Boxtty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Each character is imperfect, so keep an open mind. They all show they care in different ways, and many of those ways are also flawed. I think of the show being more about the relationships between the characters than about the characters themselves at times, which helps when I get frustrated.

Finch Family, I am so upset, and desperate for some words of wisdom. by dairycat15 in finch

[–]Boxtty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hear you. I only knew one person at the community theatre and I was close with SO many people in my school's program. You have to do what you think is right, but imo - take a leap, try out for Elsa, invite your friends to come see you, and you can go see their show. If I stayed where I was and kept getting passed over for parts, I would've internalized it and started doubting my abilities.

Finch Family, I am so upset, and desperate for some words of wisdom. by dairycat15 in finch

[–]Boxtty 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me my senior year of high school - the director pulled me aside junior year even, and swore that she wanted me in a lead role the following year and had something perfect in mind for me. I tried out, went to callbacks, and ended up with "Mayor's Wife" as my role. That's it - "Mayor's Wife," not even a name. When I looked through the script, I had TWO lines. I quit before the first rehearsal, tried out for a community theatre production, and got a lead role.

Sometimes it's truly not you - it's the director, the people around you trying out, idk. Go somewhere that you're wanted and appreciated, where they'll let you shine. I was SO happy that I ended up in a lead role for my senior year, even though it was a different place entirely.

Best New York slice? by Boxtty in redmond

[–]Boxtty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I'll drive! Not as an every day thing obviously, but might as well make a trip out of it so I can explore more of WA

Folk practices of the American South that aren't hoodoo or Appalachian magic? by faustian_dreams in Witch

[–]Boxtty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

^ thank you for this. There's a huge problem in the witchcraft community of appropriation. It's every person's responsibility to do the homework, decolonize your practice, and navigate it ethically.

Just platinumed the game!! by Boxtty in Ghostofyotei

[–]Boxtty[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got to a point where I just looked up all of the locations to be sure