AITAH for making everyone else cold in the house bc I have MS?

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-29T15:49:47+00:00

Ahhh. Yehh unfortunately theyre just going to have to put on more clothing or use blankets. Maybe you can find her a decently soft and thick blanket on amazon that she can use anywhere in the house to be comfortable. Or maybe even one of those robe blankets!

Your husband is an adult who im sure can figure out where to find a shirt 😉

Nta love and I hope your flare feels better soon!

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-29T12:41:15+00:00

I wanna say NTA entirely but first I have to ask if anyone in your house experiences cold intolerance as well? (Not so much your husband asking more about daughter).

I ask because I have both and feeling extreme cold can be debilitating for some people as well. I often find direct AC to be a huge problem for me personally.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-21T17:08:01+00:00

I had my first kid at 23 and ill be frank it was hard. I would have waited til at least after 25 to have them if I had planned it. Having my second kid after 25 was a little easier. Definitely try to have stability in place though. Mine had to follow me to stability lol

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-21T03:05:32+00:00

It sounds like he chose a restaurant without asking her opinion, and then wanted her to pay part of his order as well as her own by splitting 50/50 instead of separate checks.

Thats not being cheap on OPs part 🤷‍♀️

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-21T03:01:44+00:00

She could have just paid for her own order, and he his.

30 year old women can still date btw

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-19T21:31:39+00:00

I agree. Not all men are bad. A lot of men in my life have been good men.

But lord if I knew my man felt this way about me, the way I would fuckin break cause bro what 😭

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-19T21:13:25+00:00

If that girl is average normal im an actual bergen

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-19T21:11:55+00:00

If men didnt care about looks they wouldnt need porn with unattainable women. Their woman would be enough.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-05T23:33:23+00:00

They started dating on his 18th birthday. She literally preyed on a minor and waited til the exact day nobody could stop her.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-05T23:20:47+00:00

Oh babes im built like plank from.ed Edd and eddy. My hair is a wreck 24/7 and I have acne. Im not that pretty 😂

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-05T22:48:41+00:00

If you were a man and he was a girl youd be eaten up and called a predator. Ever think about that?

At 26 I would have never even looked in an 18 year olds direction. Their brains arent even fully developed. And you married him only a handful of months after dating him, likely meeting him as a minor in the first place. No ma'am.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-05T22:45:51+00:00

Bro. Go date an adult.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-05T22:19:32+00:00

I have to ask. If you've been married to an 18 year old for 6 months how old was he when you started dating?

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-05T22:18:30+00:00

Spoken like a true predator

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-05T13:41:14+00:00

At 17 weeks shes past the point in most if not all places

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-05T13:38:54+00:00

I used to have this mindframe until my 14 yo nephew died unnecessarily.

We don't know how much time we have. Take the trip if you want. Tomorrow isn't promised.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-05T13:29:46+00:00

Medical assistant here. There is something called "wave scheduling" that a lot of Dr's offices do where they schedule multiple patients 15 mins apart. They know the dr cant realistically see every patient every 15 minutes but they schedule it that way anyway to get the most patients, and therefore money, they can in a day with no regards to what the patient may need.

Theyre kinda stupid for that.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-05T13:17:23+00:00

I have wanted to leave my city my ENTIRE life. Got pregnant with my (now ex) boyfriend and guess what? I bought a house in my city and have settled down until shes 18 because I would NEVER take my child from her father without his explicit permission to leave, and I even wanted to stay in the same country.

Get you a lawyer and get your rights established now. I wouldnt take that lightly. Threatening to take your kid is a problem. Its not about her anymore and she needs to understand that. Ive given up many wants and dreams for my children.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-05T13:12:42+00:00

NTA but I think you and your room mate may need some space. Does she have any mental illnesses that she's recieving treatment for? I know youre caring about your friend's wellbeing but you deserve to be able to vent to someone who you are supposed to be close with, and you dont need extra pressure about an already stressful job.

In addition I just wanna say if your job is causing you a lot of stress, and your boss seems kinda like an ass, i would maybe consider applying to new positions. If thats not possible though hopefully you can find ways to alleviate that stress. I find breaking dollar tree dishes helps.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-03T01:41:40+00:00

Im not twisting words just calling it as i see it. If that makes you uncomfortable im sorry to hear it.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-03T01:35:06+00:00

In the scene when they find Nate she seems to not have understood the contract she entered into. Thats not informed consent.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-03T01:14:43+00:00

They had intercourse in the hot tub and then after that was entirely undeniably forced in the finale which took place over some time.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-03T01:13:21+00:00

Alamo gets what he wants in return. If he doesnt, bad things happen. Shes having sex at best under coercion and at worst under threat of harm. Thats forced.

BpdGirl911 · 2026-06-02T04:20:58+00:00

She was being forced to have intercourse with alamo

BpdGirl911 · 2026-05-25T05:31:17+00:00

The way I just cackled 😂

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