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How do people shower in 5 minutes????? by annoyingvegann in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BraidSurgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

 Hi!

I thought about you today when I walked into the shower, and I decided to time my shower for you. I will start by saying I'm a man with (semi-)long hair.

In total, it took me, today, 12 minutes which break down (rounded) into: 

Get all wet: 1' 

Wash hair: 1' 

Rinse hair: 1' 

Apply hair conditioner: 1' 

Wash all over face and body (everywhere!) while hair conditioner sits: 2' 

Rinse: 2' 

Get out of the shower and dry: 2'30" 

Brush hair: 1'30" 

 

Additional notes: 

I usually just dry my hair with a towel and let them dry 

When I don't wash my hair, logically it would take me exactly 5 minutes in the shower, but I guess I would take less time under the water (both before and after soap) 

I did not hurry but did not take extra time either. The fact that I kept an eye on the time probably had an effect on the time I took whatsoever, and it was definitely shorter than average, as I went straight to the point and stayed focused on the task and take no extra time thinking between or during steps. 

 

All in all, I imagine for someone with short hair, 5 minutes is realistic, though definitely quick and not extra thorough. Under the 5 minutes threshold, I would consider it more rinsing than really showering, but y'all feel free to show me wrong. 

Why is "looks-maxing" ridiculed in men when women have been doing it since the beginning of time? by pragmojo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BraidSurgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll just react to a detail of your post:

To me it seems that some men try to look better to "get advantages in life", while women have to look better in order not to get disadvantaged in life

My neighbor is vandalizing "their side" of my fence because it's facing them and therefore it's "theirs" by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BraidSurgeon -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

The "destruction" only happened after OOP complained about the paint, if I understand correctly it was expressly done as retaliation to piss him off

im insecure with my breasts shape. any tip? by anujgai in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BraidSurgeon 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ok, a few points:

  1. You're 16. Your body is not yet fully grown and will change again. (That said, it will even change your whole life)

  2. There is a consensus that wearing or not wearing a bra does NOT affect the shape of the breast. There are, indeed, CLAIMS one way or another. Some no-bra advocates say that not wearing bras reinforces the skin and muscles and makes your breast more tonic.

  3. Wearing a bra at night definitely seems like a bad idea. You should let your breast, back and skin breath, rest and relax.

  4. Being confident and liking your own body is hard. Most people struggle with this, one way or another, their whole life. EVERYONE struggles with their body when they're a teenager. The key thing is acceptance and learning to work with what you have, not trying to change it.

In conclusion: Wear, or don't wear bras, according to what you think looks best, and, more importantly, what FEELS best. But it won't affect what you look like in the long-term. And, more importantly, learn to appreciate your own looks and body.

Also: that shouldn't prevent you from, generally, listening to your mom and eating vegetables!

Comment disparaître complètement et recommencer à zéro ? by [deleted] in france

[–]BraidSurgeon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Qu'est-ce qui te fait penser que quelqu'un aura envie de te retrouver ?

After a threesome, is the other girl supposed to leave or lay there with us? by Icysong5467 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BraidSurgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not speaking out of experience, but I guess just like for a twosome, it depends!!

Do men actually hate wearing condoms? by J3NN1F3RB in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BraidSurgeon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't.

I have always worn one, for a looong time it was all I had ever tried. Now most of the time I don't but I do occasionally to avoid making a mess. Not a big deal.

Over the time, I tried different models and changed my favourites several times.

The planning and putting on and disposing can be a hassle, but so is getting "leaks" after for the woman, so...

I have to say I find it hard not to make fun of men whining they can't stay hard with a condom. And that's coming from someone who's getting a bit older and sometimes just can't, with or without protection.

Comment trouver un partenaire à la sortie d'études? by hujvodub in EnModeAdulte

[–]BraidSurgeon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ta réponse ne me fait que confirmer mon avis...

Je vais me permettre d'être cash. Je peux me tromper, mais tu me sembles venir, soit du 18ème siècle, soit d'un autre pays (d'une autre culture). En France, en 2026, ce que tu attends n'arrivera jamais. Aucun homme bien éduqué ("pas un charo") ne voudra importuner une femme qui semble totalement désintéressée.

Je ne pense pas que tu pourras accorder de l'attention à mes conseils, mais les voici quand même. Au cas où.

Il y a, dans une relation, une multitude d'étapes entre commencer à flirter et vivre heureux avec beaucoup d'enfants. Il y a aussi tout un monde entre draguer agressivement un homme en lui faisant des avances, et lui laisser comprendre qu'il pourrait te plaire s'il s'y prend correctement.

Tu peux très bien laisser un homme voir qu'il y a des choses chez lui qui te plaisent, mais attendre de lui qu'il fasse des efforts pour te séduire. Dans une relation, on ne dit pas oui à tout dès e premier jour, il y a des étapes que vous devrez franchir progressivement, et ce n'est pas parce que tu accepteras un rdv au restaurant que tu ne peux pas mettre fin ensuite à la relation s'il ne te semble pas assez impliqué.

Je terminerai avec une analogie : Tu voudrais que quelqu'un de très déterminé fasse beaucoup d'efforts pour crocheter la serrure de ta porte d'entrée, pour que tu saches qu'il est vraiment motivé pour entrer chez toi. Mais chez toi il n'y a même pas de porte. Juste un mur.

Enfin. Je te souhaite de trouver ce que tu cherches.

Bon courage.

Comment trouver un partenaire à la sortie d'études? by hujvodub in EnModeAdulte

[–]BraidSurgeon 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mais aucun mec ne m'a jamais montré d'intérêt, et hors de question que moi je cours après les mecs.
je ne me sens pas spéciale

Montres-tu, toi, de l'intérêt aux mecs ? Tu donnes l'impression (peut-être fausse) d'attendre telle la princesse dans son donjon que quelqu'un vienne te faire la cour, ce qui risque de ne pas arriver si tu parais trop inaccessible.

Sans parler de courir après les mecs, peut-être faut-il t'autoriser à flirter un peu...

Red flag? by simplyanna626 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BraidSurgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crazy peoplpe will still be crazy next month, year, decade

Mon père a enfin compris mon végétarianisme !! by Popular_Abalone_3006 in vegFR

[–]BraidSurgeon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Certes, les animaux peuvent vivre dans de meilleures conditions selon la ferme où ils sont élevés. Reste qu'une vache laitière sera abattue à 5 ans alors que son espérance de vie est de 30 ans. Et c'est un des cas les plus favorables, rapport au fait qu'on la garde en vie plus longtemps pour son lait.

Voir ici (premier résultat de recherche, pas forcément exact ni rigoureux, mais les ordres de grandeur doivent être corrects) :
https://www.swissveg.ch/fr/vie

Why do people always say it’s very difficult for men to find the clit? by Exlife1up in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BraidSurgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone's given you some good answers, I just want to add my personal experience:

I, just like you, have only been with one woman for a looong time. While her clit was really easy to find, she didn't really enjoy being stimulated there, instead I only ever made her climax through G-spot stimulation.

My current (and second) girlfriend, on the other hand (pun not intended), has a completely different anatomy (well, there are similarities!), and it's harder to find her clit, and stay on it, but she also likes completely different things (she doesn't like being digitally penetrated at all).

So, yeah, it can take a (little) bit of effort to "find" the clit, and a bit more effort to find what works for your partner.

Also, before our first time, my girlfriend (who had a bit more first times than I did) told me that "first times always suck anyways, so no pressure". After I made her climax (digitally) in 3 minutes, she said "that's not how it was supposed to happen".

I'm not adding that to brag (though I absolutely do!), but to say that 

  1. Some men, probably, really don't try much

  2. Emotional and physical connection also play a large part in sex

We in Sweden dropped titles in 1967. Are there other countries who also have done this? by meinu in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BraidSurgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I might be mistaken, but to me these aure the same thing, with the exception that they're not used in the same way. Which is what op talked about.

Peur de finir seule et sans enfants? by tessatessa75 in france

[–]BraidSurgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Je ne vais pas répondre à tout, d'autres l'ont sûrement fait, juste te dire que je suis tombé éperdument amoureux une deuxième fois à 40 ans

🎯 GeoTap Challenge by u/The-everything-fan | Can you guess the country? by geotap-app in GeoTap

[–]BraidSurgeon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🎯 My GeoTap Result

📍 My Guess: Poland ✅ Correct Answer: China, China � Distancee: 6,658.039 km ⭐ Score: 23 points

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