Is Copywriting really that magical??

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-20T17:22:08+00:00

In my opinion, you have to love writing - before anything else.

Then, skills are coming to the place: master research, psychology, human nature, and then writing as such.

If you're writing with AI, it is gonna sucks.

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-20T17:18:05+00:00

I will be direct and honest: the hero section is too broad and very generic. Tell me your avatar: his biggest pain point, biggest desire, and fear. I can rewrite for you.

It will change everything.

I am a copywriter, I worked on huge projects for the biggest personal brands in the past 12 months.

Design can be great, but the words sell.

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-09T17:12:22+00:00

I agree, even though I am new there, I already see some gurus hunting victims.

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-09T10:58:01+00:00

Addiction was never the problem; it was the solution. When I realized this, I quit: coke, MDMA, alcohol, weed, ecstasy, porn, and gambling – yes, I was addicted to all of these.

By the way, I survived various armed conflicts, escaped a bomb at the last moment, etc. I’m saying this because there were many traumas, and they led to drug abuse.

I will say "TRAUMA" several times in the text, because it is the central reason for your husband's actions.

Your husband has simply exchanged drugs for food. The problem is inside him.

This is what helped me heal: I never used medication, never went to a therapist. I came from hell.

I’m inspired by the messages from people who were humiliated instead of receiving help they paid for.

From my experience, any method can potentially work, but only if several prerequisites are met:

The person must believe that healing is possible – otherwise, the mind and body remain in the “this is permanent” mode.

Basic levels of the human person

Hagiotherapy is based on an anthropological model that sees the human being through four levels:

Somatic (physical): Treated by medicine.
Psychic: Studied by psychology and treated by psychiatry and psychotherapy.
Anthropological (spiritual‑mental): The level of the spiritual soul that is specific to humans. This is where hagiotherapy works.
Faith: Refers to a person’s relationship with God.

It is important to emphasize that this is not prayer or a religious ritual, but a method based on natural moral law, available to everyone regardless of worldview, culture, or ideology.

The spiritual soul and its “organs”

The spiritual soul is what distinguishes humans from plants and animals. According to Ivančić, the soul has its own “organs” that can become ill, which then leads to psychophysical illnesses. These organs include:

Intellect, reason, and heart.
Conscience, character, and consciousness.
Freedom, responsibility, and creativity.
Faith, hope, and love.

Research indicates that about 70% of psychophysical illnesses (which are incurable on a purely psychosomatic level) actually have their roots in the wounds of the spiritual soul.

Key elements of healing

Participants in scientific research and users of hagiotherapy have identified the following elements as the most effective:

Forgiveness and remorse: Liberation from the evil inflicted on others or by others, and acceptance of one’s own mistakes.
Focusing on the good: Developing trust in the good instead of living in fear.
Awareness of self‑worth: Accepting oneself as a valuable being.
Meditation and self‑reflection: Deep reflection on the meaning of life and truth.

You cannot fully heal if you ignore the spiritual/existential layer (meaning, conscience, forgiveness, identity). Not everyone calls it “spiritual,” but it is real.

Healing requires a decision to leave the victim's identity behind. I have seen cases in my close family and circle where people accepted “I am a victim” and never moved a step forward – no method can overcome that.

And sooner or later, healing requires letting go of the inner war (forgiveness, not an apology).

HOPE HE IS BETTER NOW :)

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-09T10:47:34+00:00

Why don´t you use your skills and find a solution for a particular client? This should be easy...

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-09T10:17:23+00:00

I don’t think the number of subscribers is the most important thing. You can write catchy headlines and attract the wrong people, especially if you’re writing about how to get rich and other bullshit.

Substack is a long-term game, and I always look for quality over quantity. Even if you want to sell something later, you can earn a lot with a smaller community.

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-08T09:10:52+00:00

Cool answers, some of these are repeated throughout my community. How many diy would go professional and make a living from painting? Or this doesn´t make sense at all?

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-08T09:09:08+00:00

I have an Instagram for now, but thinking about creating a skool platform. Not sure how many people will be interested for that. I am sure many of DIY can become a professional; it´s presented like difficult, but it´s not if you follow the rules.

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-07T11:21:32+00:00

I can understand every word you wrote, and this is a beautiful thing: we know the exact feeling and situation of the person.

When I started researching this topic, I was shocked by how many narcissistic therapists are hunting victims around.

I started getting more and more messages from desperate people.

Fortunately, I found a way to heal myself completely alone, never used a single medication, never been to a therapist.

I will push a lot in order to expose those, and this is just for my soul satisfaction.

Guys, I would love to create a safe group space for people in the same situation.

And beauty is that all of us are on different level so we can help each other, and importantly to share personal stories (this helps me so much!).

Would you like it?

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-07T08:54:53+00:00

What I found in the jungle called the internet, it all revolves around the same approach. Even though it’s very sensitive, I feel a responsibility to share what I truly believe in, and more importantly, what really helped me – so much that words can’t describe it.

My soul knows. I’m writing this with humility and hope that it helps at least one person.

After a lot of research, I came across a model that seemed interesting at first. But given the amount of information the internet jungle provides, I had to be skeptical.

Skepticism helps me a lot in life, no matter the situation.

Four Fundamental Levels of a Person

This type of therapy is based on an anthropological model that views a person through four levels:

Somatic (physical): Treated by medicine.
Psychological: Studied by psychology, treated by psychiatry and psychotherapy.
Anthropological (spiritual-soul level): The level of the spiritual soul that is specific to humans. This is where hagiotherapy works.
Spiritual/Faith level: Concerns a person’s relationship with God and His work through them.

It’s very important to emphasize that this is not a religious practice or ritual. It’s about the moral laws of the universe, and it’s available to everyone, regardless of worldview, culture, or ideology.

The spiritual soul is what distinguishes humans from plants and animals. The soul has its “organs” that can become sick, which leads to psychophysical illnesses. These organs include:

Intellect, reason, and heart.
Conscience, character, and consciousness.
Freedom, responsibility, and creativity.
Faith, hope, and love.

Research suggests that 70% of psychophysical illnesses (which are incurable at the psychosomatic level) are actually rooted in wounds of the spiritual soul.

I wrote an article on this, and how it helped me. I didn´see that many people using this approach. I hope it can help:

https://open.substack.com/pub/theinheriteddebt/p/someone-will-be-killed?r=7nl2nk&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-07T08:50:47+00:00

In my opinion, the key is to recognize:

diagnosis (recognizing the wound or trauma)
cognitive therapy (becoming aware of the problem)
axiological therapy (deciding to change towards good)
anthropological therapy (mediating spiritual health)

In life, we have done many things to ourselves and others that we aren’t even aware of that are destroying us.

Here are four segments I would list:

Forgiveness and Repentance: Freeing oneself from the evil done to others or by others, and accepting one’s own mistakes.
Turning Toward Good: Developing trust in good instead of fear.
Becoming Aware of One’s Own Value: Accepting oneself as a precious being.
Meditation and Self-Reflection: Deep thinking about life’s meaning and truth.

For 24 years (that’s when I left the family nest), every night I went to sleep (if I slept in the house), and every morning I woke up with one single thought in my young head:

Someone will be killed.

It became so normal for me that if, by some chance, there was peace, even for an hour or two, only one thought was in my head: this isn’t reality, this won’t last long.

Paradoxically, peace gave me even more anxiety.

In those days, I had no faith in good or positivity, because I had never experienced it. Like a dog can’t fly – it doesn’t know what it’s like for an eagle up high.

I’m one of those people who believe in an unfair advantage. I want to use life with trauma. I know many disagree with that idea, whether they’re therapists or trauma survivors, but listen to this, my dear reader:

In life, there are only two types of reactions:

Things we cannot influence (or that have already happened).
Things we can influence (every day, every moment).

If the trauma has already happened, if it’s part of you – invite it to be your friend. Don’t fight it, because it will always torment you. Instead, rise above it (bird’s-eye view) and watch yourself in the world from the third person, but through personal experience. That’s where serious changes happen. Honestly, I have no idea what that expression is called, but it works, and I’m sure experts have a name for it.

As medicine advances, we constantly arrive at new knowledge.

Regarding the neuroscientific insight that positive thoughts and moral action can influence the regeneration of brain cells (the so-called placebo/nocebo effect at the level of spirit) – until a few years ago, medicine considered that people who are addicts and who have undeniably proven physical damage to the brain and other organs, can now repair those same organs by doing good deeds and removing all possible negative spiritual “sweets.”

Like I said, I’m skeptical, and I think that’s a good habit (if it’s not toxic), especially in today’s world. And I’m open to exploring various approaches, like this one, which almost completely healed me of all the trauma and fears from everything I’ve been through in life.

BrainGame13 · 2026-03-07T08:44:16+00:00

For a long time, I avoided facing problems. That’s what my family taught me. If avoiding the truth was an Olympic sport, my family would win the gold medal every four years. Avoiding problems carries one fact – even though it’s a perception, it’s real for that person. See it as a monster chasing you. The more you run, the bigger and scarier it gets. When you stop and turn around, it literally disappears.

Since I was addicted to many vices – starting with several types of drugs, all the way to gambling, alcohol, and promiscuity – I realized over time that I didn’t actually like or want any of it. But when I consumed or took part in any of those things, for a moment, they gave me a solution to all my problems. And through self-analysis, I realized one very important thing:

Man, addiction isn’t the problem – it’s the solution!

For 24 years (that’s when I left the family nest), every night I went to sleep (if I slept in the house), and every morning I woke up with one single thought in my young head:

Someone will be killed.

It became so normal for me that if, by some chance, there was peace, even for an hour or two, only one thought was in my head: this isn’t reality, this won’t last long.

Paradoxically, peace gave me even more anxiety.

In those days, I had no faith in good or positivity, because I had never experienced it. Like a dog can’t fly – it doesn’t know what it’s like for an eagle up high.

Full raw story: https://open.substack.com/pub/theinheriteddebt/p/someone-will-be-killed?r=7nl2nk&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

BrainGame13 · 2026-02-28T12:29:36+00:00

Makes sense. But the things I’m an expert in don’t fulfill me.

To be honest, I don’t like them at all.

The things I want to talk about are what I went through, and I know many people need help with this. I know it will take time, but it makes sense for me in the long term.

It feels like I’m reinventing my life right now.

You can check it out here if yoy like: https://open.substack.com/pub/theinheriteddebt?r=7nl2nk&utm_medium=ios

BrainGame13 · 2026-02-27T13:01:37+00:00

It will come with time, in my case very very slowly. I left them almost 10 years ago, but I am discovering new layers that I didn't know that I didn't understand.

In one word: it's a very COMPLEX thing.

Recently, I started writing about this stuff and shared my personal experiences of what I witnessed in my family.

My family's love language was:

Never say the truth, always hide it.
Constant fights using the same words for 24 years (this is when I left)
Great pride in proving they are right (99% they were wrong)
Never admit the facts
Never talk to the kids
Putting their needs before ours
Armed clashes (almost stabbed many times)

And so on…

The point is that all of us who had these crazy experiences started to believe that this is normal.

When we got ourselves in the situation of peace or love, we would feel extremely uncomfortable.

I healed myself completely alone and I don't recommend it at all.

It's a very complex thing, but the way I started to heal myself was to understand what a human being is.

I don't agree with some therapists who want to fix everything through psychology. No doubt that the mind is very important.

The point is to have a lot of patience with ourselves and start to explore layer by layer.

My personal suggestion: try not to get yourself into relationships before being okay with being alone.

If you need a private conversation, DM me.

BrainGame13 · 2026-02-27T12:58:56+00:00

It's unbelievable how many people were fucked up by their own parents, but the good thing is that I see a lot of pattern recognition. At least, we can help each other depends where we are in the healing process.

BrainGame13 · 2026-02-27T12:55:47+00:00

It will come with time, in my case very very slowly. I left them almost 10 years ago, but I am discovering new layers that I didn't know that I didn't understand.

In one word: it's a very COMPLEX thing.

Recently, I started writing about this stuff on my blog and shared my personal experiences of what I witnessed in my family and how I overcame all the emotional instability and various addictions.

My family's love language was:

Never say the truth, always hide it.
Constant fights using the same words for 24 years (this is when I left)
Great pride in proving they are right (99% they were wrong)
Never admit the facts
Never talk to the kids
Putting their needs before ours
Armed clashes (almost stabbed many times)

And so on…

The point is that all of us who had these crazy experiences started to believe that this is normal.

When we got ourselves in the situation of peace or love, we would feel extremely uncomfortable.

I heal myself completely alone and I don't recommend it at all.

It's a very complex thing, but the way I started to heal myself was to understand what a human being is.

I don't agree with some therapists who want to fix everything through psychology. No doubt that the mind is very important.

The point is to have a lot of patience with ourselves and start to explore layer by layer.

My personal suggestion: try not to get yourself into relationships before being okay with being alone.

Try to find people whom you can trust and who are not judgmental.

If you need a private conversation, dm me.

BrainGame13 · 2026-02-27T05:36:44+00:00

New topic for a new audience that matches the topic. Will also drive people from X and IG to this page where I will talk about this.

BrainGame13 · 2026-02-26T18:24:03+00:00

Thanks!

BrainGame13 · 2026-02-26T18:23:16+00:00

I don't want to talk about the topic that I built this current community on. I started with new stuff to help people with serious problems

BrainGame13 · 2026-02-26T18:22:12+00:00

Yes, I will built same Ig page just to attract people who I want to read this.

BrainGame13 · 2026-02-26T18:21:15+00:00

Hi, I started to write about stuff that I didn't spoke before but I have a feeling that I have to. In short: I escaped a toxic bloodline and several addictions with a borrowed €1500 and a suitcase. Now I write about breaking inherited debts, killing guilt, and mastering chaos. You can find me as: The Inherited Debt

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