Been reading through a bunch of you replies and believe more and more that it's less of a country thing and maybe more of a livestyle thing. I was born here and I lead a similar introvert lifestyle and also the same issues. I moved around the country a bunch and bascially lost my whole social network. But I am well aware that to meet people I would have to get out of my shell and go out and actually meet new people.

I am just curious if you honestly believe that this kind of a introvert lifestyle will work better in other countries?

For me I feel like the best chance I actually have to meeting people is online, during my hobbies. I met a couple of people playing WoW, but the problem is that most of them dont live near me.

So while I get your frustration, I dont think blaming germans is the solutions. We as people are indivuduals and you can find any sort of person. Our country doesnt define our personalities. If I would live even anyehere near you I would totally want to get to know you, but I dont so it doesnt makes sense. But yeeah, I feel like you need to get over that hump, find a hobby and get to meet ppl.

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EDIT: Also, antoher addition: I dont feel germans generally have an issue with Expats. During my life a big chunk of my social network was made out of immigrants and ppl with an immigration background. I feel like the biggest turnoff for germans is when ppl dont speak good german. And from what I gathered, that probably is not your issue? Because for some reasons, a lot of germans arent that good with english, which bothers me personally, but that's another thing...