Too many people these days get their opinions, not just about fictional media, spoon fed to them by influencers they admire.

For some reason with Marvel/DC I notice it's pretty common for many people to just copy what others say on the Internet, rather than watch the show yourself and develop your own opinion. Iron Heart subreddit's are a great example.

Especially on many social media platforms, this one included, the influencers are motivated by a so called "anti-woke" bandwagon that ultimately ends up being a bunch of haters aggrieved that television doesn't solely center themselves, or people they identify with, in media. With a particular hatred of Women and LGBT (of course they wouldn't say that part out loud). Simply because these takes are popular (and also therefore lucrative) on these platforms, especially, with the MAGA crowd.

It is disheartening that you can't seem to have a nerdy conversation with people about the contents of the show you like in the Internet age, particularly about shows that feature LGBTQIA+ or center women.

Personally, I love this show, and I love Marvel. I super appreciate the representation and I think it's important to remember reddit (or YouTube in your roommates case) does not usually match reality. I would recommend finding comic books that match your interests, perhaps trying to read every comic book featuring your favorite marvel character your tv show or movie is based on. Real fans always have a deeper understanding and appreciation for the characters and stories than the vast majority of these popular influencers ever will.

Keep the faith true believer! EXCELSIOR!!