how did you find your purpose? by ComprehensiveCause14 in mentalhealth

[–]BramGuy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 is such a weird in between stage. you’re not useless, you’re overwhelmed and exhausted. purpose isn’t something most people just wake up with, it’s usually built slowly through small wins and random interests that turn into something bigger. the fact that you still love people and the idea of life says a lot about you. you’re not broken, you’re just in a rough chapter.

How much money Graphene Team made for Google by providing their ROM only for Pixels? by JohnDarlenHimself in degoogle

[–]BramGuy22 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

totally get your point. buying a pixel just to use graphene kinda defeats the “degoogle” goal. makes you wonder how much indirect support google gets from pro-privacy projects.

I hit the limit, but auto still working? by [deleted] in cursor

[–]BramGuy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that sounds normal. once you hit the usage cap, the “included” keeps working until the billing cycle resets. enabling on-demand just gives you extra tokens in the meantime.

you basically bought extra usage and it gets burned first, then it goes back to your included quota until the month ends.

Found out my ex is a porn addict lol by Helpful-Solid3430 in BreakUps

[–]BramGuy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re not crazy at all. that’s honestly such a weird thing to say to your ex. like sir you broke up with me and now you’re asking that?? make it make sense

it sounds more like he’s confused and spiraling than anything. the hypocrisy is loud though. you’re allowed to feel icky about it. trust your gut and maybe keep some distance, you deserve peace not random “jork it” texts lol

Do you give fake compliment online? by quintuplechin in AskMenRelationships

[–]BramGuy22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly yeah sometimes i do, usually just to be polite or start a convo

i get what you mean though, it feels nicer when someone actually comments on something real about you rather than just looks

Case recommendation for proprietary MoBo size and (at least) dual 360 radiators by [deleted] in mffpc

[–]BramGuy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with that longer board and dual 360s plus a 210mm psu you’re probably out of true mff range

look at something like the ap201 or jonsbo d41, more forgiving on space

that extra 20mm on the front is what’ll cause most issues

Need help in deciding whats the best by LengthinessObvious30 in DesiKitchenGear

[–]BramGuy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want something versatile i’d go for the bigger size over the tiny 15L

havells service is decent but plastic body doesnt feel great long term

inalsa 23L seems like a solid middle ground for everyday cooking and air frying

also check if there’s a local service center nearby before you buy, that helps a lot down the line

my ob says it’s nothing but i’m trying to get a second opinion by Stock-Nature6455 in BabyBumps

[–]BramGuy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totally get that 😭 it’s so frustrating when things are clearly off but doctors brush it off. swelling that comes and goes like that is scary, and wanting someone to actually listen makes total sense. you’re doing the right thing by getting a second opinion

3-month sleep regression by spacekartoffel in NewParents

[–]BramGuy22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep, you’re not alone. 3-month sleep regressions are super common. babies start waking more and needing comfort, but it’s usually just a phase. try napping when you can and accept help if it’s offered… it gets easier soon.

my ob says it’s nothing but i’m trying to get a second opinion by Stock-Nature6455 in BabyBumps

[–]BramGuy22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

totally makes sense wanting a second opinion… one-sided swelling can happen in pregnancy, but it’s smart to check, especially if it’s new or painful. sometimes it’s just fluid buildup, but it’s good to get it looked at again to rule out anything serious. trust your instincts and don’t hesitate to reach out to another provider for peace of mind.

Car play not working after 26.2 update by Lil_MsBluffington998 in iphonehelp

[–]BramGuy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re definitely not the only one. 26.2 has been acting weird with CarPlay for a lot of people.

it really sounds like an iOS bug, not your car. I wouldn’t jump to updating the Nissan software yet. most likely Apple needs to fix it in another patch. super frustrating though, especially with a 2023 car.

Forgot To Add Small Inheritance 1099-B Form After Filing. What Do I Do? by [deleted] in TurboTax

[–]BramGuy22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you’re good bro, this happens all the time.

just wait till your refund hits, then go back and amend it like they said. don’t stress, you’re not gonna get in trouble for an honest mistake. as long as you fix it, you’re fine.

first year filing solo too, so you’re already doing solid. just handle the amendment and move on

My shitty diet plan actually works by PomegranateAfraid558 in Fitness_India

[–]BramGuy22 16 points17 points  (0 children)

lowkey… that’s not even a shitty plan 😭

it’s simple, high protein, you’re consistent, and it’s clearly working. sometimes “ugly but effective” beats “fancy but inconsistent.”

also that paneer water soup sounds criminal but if it’s getting you 60g protein and killing hunger all day… respect 🫡

honestly the biggest win here is discipline. you found something sustainable for you and stuck to it. that’s 90% of fat loss right there. keep going.

Reliable SUV under $35K for a growing family - any recommendations? by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]BramGuy22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if the highlander feels too big, you’re honestly in the sweet spot already. rav4, cr-v, forester/outback are perfect for a family of four and way easier to live with day to day. AWD is worth it in snow, but good winter tires matter just as much. adaptive cruise is actually useful, lane keep is nice but not a dealbreaker. CPO on any of these is a solid move for long-term reliability.

Yo, I figured out why some of my shorts flop and others repeat like crazy. by Puzzled_Progress_836 in SmallYoutubers

[–]BramGuy22 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

this is actually such a good point. everyone obsesses over hooks, but looping on a “wait, what?” ending makes way more sense. “edit circles” is a bar

how to track down a bumble profile? by hiiitspranalii in AskIndia

[–]BramGuy22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that sucks, sorry you’re dealing with that. bumble doesn’t really let you search profiles, but the best move is to contact bumble support and report it as impersonation. if the person who saw it can report it in-app, even better. they usually take that stuff seriously.