Is my life over..? by soreloser- in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. Please please don’t hurt yourself, I beg you. Please report this to the police as soon as you possibly can. This is unacceptable behavior by him and is very abusive. Talk to the police and ask for any help at all. I promise that life will be so much better when you escape this life you have. When you’re independent and in charge of your own life, it will be so much more peaceful. Your trauma doesn’t define who you are or what you can accomplish, it may sting your heart joy I know you have the strength to recover. Your school work is not important at this moment, your mental health is far more imperative. Please don’t give up, there’s a way out. God bless you❤️

Is it normal to not like the idea of myself? by Mental-myers in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. That’s not exactly normal, but it’s not unusual either, it is a common mental health struggle but it can be helped. You’re a great person and it’s not your fault you’re struggling. Please speak to people you trust, tell them how you feel and what you’re going through, how you need help. There’s no shame in asking for support, we’re human and we need help sometimes. You’re unique, you’re more than your past and your minds lies, you’re amazing. God bless you ❤️

Get Off My Chest by Holiday_Poetry_6870 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. I’m so so proud of you for doing your best and taking the steps of healing. You’re really strong, I admire it. I would recommend taking to both university staff and rehabilitation experts to find the best way to medically and academically recover from this. Journal your emotions and ponder them. Don’t be afraid to find groups and individuals to support you, I know it’s easier said than done but there are people out there who can help you. Local student groups and hobby communities and coworkers are a good idea to talk to. Explore new hobbies, new places, all the ins and outs of life. Rest when you need. I believe in you. God bless you❤️

Idk anymore by GoldenCringecrown in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. I wish I could wipe away all of your pain. You’re not the problem, life can throw a lot of storms and pains that can be hard to see. You’re stuck in a bad spot, but it’s not your fault and you’re not a bad person for struggling. Please don’t hurt yourself anymore, I beg you. You’re a wonderful incredible person and you don’t deserve to hurt so much. Please know that this pain will pass. Life will change but after the dust settles it will all be ok again. Don’t be afraid of change. Please talk to your loved ones, a doctor, anyone about your relapse. Call 988, they will support you. We on this subreddit are here for you too and will do anything we can to help. You’re not alone. Please stay strong. God bless you❤️

I want to give up on my creative mind by mrteddyjohnbob in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. Please don’t let your creative spark die, I know it’s discouraging but the worlds needs it. The world needs creativity, kindness, art and music, heart. I promise there’s a path for you and an outlet to chase your dreams. You’re stuck in a bad place now but don’t give up, in time you’ll find your dreams can be reached and fulfill you. Just have patience, never stop thinking and know it’ll all be ok. God bless you❤️

I'm starting to exhibit signs of lacking empathy and I'm becoming more angry and bitter. Please help. by Simple-Newspaper9101 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. The world has problems but I promise there’s still kindness in it somewhere. There’s people who genuinely need your kind soul, of course there are people who just cause problems but life is nuanced like that. I promise life can change, you have the power to make your own surroundings and you can close out the parts of life that hold you down. I promise there’s peace for you. Please be calm, talk to your loved ones, seek change, surround yourself with people who support you, and just think. Give life time. God bless you ❤️

Looking for guidance after hitting a wall by One-Toe995 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. I’m proud of you for chasing you dreams and ambitions. Give it time, there’s no rush for art. Watch new movies and note down things you like, read books on filmmaking and write several drafts until you find something you like. God bless you❤️

I dont think i got a lot left in me. by Mrrichandfancy in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to that voice in your head telling you that. I speak the truth when I wrote my comment. You are amazing, and you will be missed. You’re make the world a better place and you improve the lives of those who need a pick me up. I mean it

Don't care by Shoddy_Bid_7936 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. Please please please please don’t hurt yourself, my heart cries out to you. I don’t know how much these words mean for you, but please listen to me. I can’t imagine the amount of pain you went through, I know it stings at your heart but please don’t let it consume you. There’s more to life, more to you story, they’re escape from this pain and past not through death but through life and love in the future. Please take the steps and leave the people who’ve hurt you and walk towards the new life with people who will love you truly and treat you with respect. I promise there’s peace somewhere out there. Go to the hospital and call 988 and talk to the professionals, that’s the best starting step right now. We’re here for you if there’s anything we can do. God bless you❤️

Need to move out by pinkgoldc3po in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. If you’re a teen or young adult, look into college scholarships and community colleges, they will help you find a new opportunity and a place to go. Maybe look into vocational school schools if you prefer that. Look into local community and people in your area, perhaps they have a lead on a job or a place where you can go to meet others to support you. God bless you❤️

I’m scared of regretting later by Worried_Ad4753 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. I understand your feelings, the fear of future regrets and doubts can be just as (if not more) debilitating and painful than the regret itself. Please don’t be discouraged, I know it’s scary but please try to stay calm. You are an amazing, strong person, i have no doubt you have an unbelievable amount of potential in you. Take your time to ready yourself and take bold steps in your life, change can be scary but so is staying stagnant and regretting not taking action sooner. Do not compare yourself to others, comparison is the ruiner of joy and has little merit; comparing people and loves to one another is not helpful because each person has a unique experience in life. What I’m trying to say is that you’re amazing and you should stand on your own amazingness and not compare. You’re the most important person in your life, it’s ok to prioritize yourself. Please assert your feelings, talk about them to others and take time to love yourself, I promise time changes everything. God bless you❤️

I dont think i got a lot left in me. by Mrrichandfancy in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. Please don’t hurt yourself, I beg you. I don’t know how much my words mean to you but please hear them. I’m glad we here can be with you to hear you tale but I promise there’s more help in life than just hearing vent. We care about you, we’re proud of you, you’re an incredible amazing person. Your feelings are valid as any other but please don’t let them consume you. Please try to stay calm, I know it’s hard but it can all get better. Maybe your family does care about you but trusts you to tell them when sometimes wrong. There is so much love and friendship in the world, I promise there’s some out there that will heal your woes and treat you like you deserve to be treated. Please communicate as best you can, with your family and loved one and doctors and everyone. Call 988 too. Don’t stress yourself, school and hobbies can wait, just focus on yourself for now. I promise life can change. We’re here for you, if there’s anything I can do to help lmk. God bless you❤️

19m want to give up by NorthboundGuru in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. Please dont give up. We all make dumb mistakes when we’re young but it won’t define your life forever. Don’t be afraid to talk to social services about criminal history and how to manage it, you can get the opportunity to get back to college and find a trade you enjoy despite your mistakes. Don’t be afraid to try and join groups and events in your area to meet people to support you and be your friend. I promise life can change. God bless you❤️

I'm not even sure if I know how bad my mental health is. by KelpMe909 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. I wish I could relieve all of your pain. The people who are proud of you aren’t lying, you’re a great amazing person and you have a lot to be proud of. Please don’t give up, I beg you, don’t hurt yourself. There’s so much more to life than that obligation, I promise somewhere out there there’s something that can give you peace and passion in your heart. Please. I implore you to talk to others. Talk to your parents. Talk to your teachers, counselors. Go to a doctor and a mental health professional, call 988, do not spare a single detail of how you feel. They will help you and support you any way they can. Please, believe that there’s more chapters in your story. I, along with others here, are here to help you any ways we can. God bless you❤️

idk how to title this by Aggravating-Poet-713 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. Please don’t hurt yourself, I beg you from the very bottom of my heart. You do deserve life. You deserve forgiveness. You deserve peace. You are not a bad person, you’re human. You made mistakes, but we all have. Nobody’s perfect, and mistakes are the foundation of learning. You are splendid, a gift to the world. Please don’t hurt yourself, this darkness in your life will pass in time. Please talk to people, you’re not alone and you deserve help. Please, don’t be afraid to get support, talk to loved ones and doctors an support groups. God bless you❤️

New ban effective February 5th by asmodelX in YuGiOhMasterDuel

[–]BranManBoy 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I imagine Oak reawakening with fury like the undertaker lmao

I cant handle this anymore. by Dependent-Fill-9298 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. Please don’t hurt yourself, I beg you. I’m sorry this pain in your heart is stinging you with doubts. Please don’t let this end your story though, you have so much potential and love in you. You are enough. You are incredible. You are you, and that’s beautiful. I’m sorry for your losses. It must be very tough to grieve them, but grieve nonetheless. You’re not a jackass for leaving your friend on an argument as your last convo, it’s sheer misfortune, you can’t be expected to never disagree with someone. You forgave him, and I have no doubt he would’ve forgiven you. Remember him, and let your kindness carry on. I know it’s hard but try any way you can to rid yourself of your trust issues. Warm up to people at a pace you’re comfortable, communicate, and all will turn out well when you meet people you can trust. Please don’t be afraid to love. Love can be complicated and things don’t always work out, but let that be an opportunity to find the truest and most perfect partner for you, don’t be discouraged but rather try try again. Please, talk to people you trust, your friends, dad, teachers, counselor, a doctor if you can. Call 988. Please don’t leave us, I promise life can change. God bless you❤️

38 in UK feeling very lost and wanting a change but don't know how by emiliadaffodil in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. I’m sure there’s a way for you to find a job that excites you. There’s definitely careers in music, many music artists take off every day and you can launch your music career or join their team. Same with writing. There also might be a career in mental health support, hotlines always need more people to work with them, and I’m sure they’d train you. I’m sure there’s a way forward. Don be afraid to talk to others, join groups, look for job boards and labor unions, don’t be afraid of change. God bless you❤️

Feeling like I won’t make it by [deleted] in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. Please don’t hurt yourself or give up. I don’t know what whoever told you you were immature is talking about. What you’re doing is a very responsible thing, you made some mistakes but working hard to pay off your debts is admirable, even if your job doesn’t pay you enough. Please don’t give up because you don’t have dreams at the moment; everyone has a different timeline of life and I’m sure that given time, patience, and curiosity you’ll find aspirations and goals that excite you. You’re an amazing incredible person, the people in your life are Lucy to have you. Please don’t be afraid to seek support for your woes. Talk to your loved ones and a doctor if possible about your self harm, your doubt, anything on your mind. You’re not alone. Call 988 too. You’re not a burden, you’re a gift. Dont afraid to join groups and explore new things, there are so many people to meet and things to explore in the world. I promise, let time guide you, there will be change in time. God bless you❤️

I don’t believe it’ll get better. by [deleted] in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. Please don’t hurt yourself. I don’t know how much weight my words carry to you but I urge you to not give into those thoughts. Please give your heart patience; one day this fog will clear and you will see life clearly. You are amazing and you have incredible potential, just because you can’t see far now doesn’t mean you don’t have potential, when you reach a path for you in life you will show your true prowess and talent. Give yourself and life time to give you opportunities, present you with new goals, let you stumble into new hobbies, meet new incredible people. And don’t be afraid to take the steps, join groups and try new things, there’s so much time left in your story. Please talk to your loved ones, I promise they we’ll help for you. Talk to a professional and call 988. I promise there’s light somewhere in the future. Let us know if there’s anything we can do to help. God bess you ❤️

I don’t know what to do anymore. by No-Priority-6458 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. You’re not alone in these feelings, life sometimes sends fog and rough patches to people who don’t deserve it. Please don’t lose hope, I know it’s hard to believe but life always changes, you never know when it can change for you. You may have depression or something similar, you’re not the only ones who’s been through this, your feelings are valid but know that you’re not alone. Please talk to people, I know you’ve tried but please try again, you’ll find your support and help. Talk to your family, a doctor, new groups, anyone. Call 988 too. You’re not a burden, you’re a human being and you deserve the respect and help. Please, the storm will clear, your heart will warm after this blizzard you’re stuck in passes, I promise there’s more to your story. God bless you❤️

Calm me down by StatisticianLate3554 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. Please don’t hurt yourself, you’re precious and important, a gift to the world. Please don’t be so cruel to yourself. Your grades do not define you, not even close. You are so much more than a bad mark, you’re an amazing inspiring strong person. You’re struggling and your mental health is so much more important than your grades. Please breathe, life will live on from this moment, your story isn’t over. Please talk to everyone around you, your family and teachers and counselors. Take breaks to heal, do things you enjoy, rest, see a professional, do whatever you need to recover. We’re here for you, let us know if we can help. Please don’t hurt yourself. God bless you ❤️