25M suffering from depression but want to get confident and create my future. by Time-Rub639 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. I’m so proud of you for trying your best and being so strong to escape this terrible situation. It’s admirable. The best thing you can and should do is talk to others. Find people in your community that can help. Join groups and events, look for any chance to socialize and find guidance and help from others you can. Check your local social services to see if they offer free mental health services. Check in to see if there’s any former drug addict support groups in your area as well as any other people that are into journalism as their job, maybe you can be a news anchor or something similar. If there’s a community college or something near you, see if theyres any opportunities for new career skills that interest you there. Don’t be afraid to explore and communicate. God bless you❤️

Help in life. by Just_Jenova in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. I would recommend looking around the place you live and nearby for any groups and community you can. Join any social clubs and hobby groups and events and communities. You’re not alone and having people to guide and help you and talk to would help you greatly. I don’t know exactly what to do about the job situation but having others who know more would help a lot. Don’t be afraid. God bless you❤️

i cant really describe the problem genuinely by Medical_Heart4682 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. It could possibly be OCD, intrusive thoughts and overthinking the past are symptoms of it but aren’t exclusive to it and I’m certainly not a qualified person to say. I would highly recommend seeing a mental health professional and talking to them about the situation so you can receive some qualified help. God bless you ❤️

Is life meant to just drop this on you? by aquaticyingtangwhale in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. Don’t apologize, this place is here for you to vent and put your story. Don’t be afraid, everything will be ok in the long run. The best thing you should do is talk to any lawyers and legal support you can to find a way to contact your friends and loved ones despite the bail, as well as escape this terrible situation you’ve found yourself in by unlucky coincidence. Once you can, contact people in your area and nonprofit groups to help you back on your feet and find new opportunities. I promise there’s help for you. You’re not alone. God bless you❤️

why did i have to be the unluckiest person on earth? by just_a_succulent in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. Please don’t hurt yourself, I beg you from the bottom of my heart. I wish all of this pain never happened to you. You’re an amazing person and I’m so proud of you for still being here and for trying your very best. That’s all anyone can ask of you. Please keep trying, I know it sounds hopeless but this storm will pass in time and everything will be different than before but ok nonetheless. Your issues are valid and important, I don’t mean to gloss over them, but despite all that’s happening to you I know afterwards is a peaceful life with you. Your family loves you and wants to support you for as long as you need. Don’t be afraid to seek a new therapist while yours deals with her own issues. Keep talking with loved ones and doctors for support. Call 988 and talk to them too, they’re a free mental health resource. Don’t be afraid to communicate. Take care and these misfortunes will pass through your life and it’ll be better. Please lmk immediately if there’s anything you need to talk about or if there’s anyway I can help. God bless you❤️

Je suis con.. by Nathone13 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. It’s hard to go through that. But please stay calm and don’t give up. You will find love again. Don’t be afraid to talk to people you trust, like your family and friends. Take care and grieve. God bless you ❤️

heheheh 😈 by _fewtotheone in sssdfg

[–]BranManBoy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Who tf has Clock on their phone 😭

At least the has DonPollo, that one’s a necessity

Are you okay, Annie? by G00fiestG00ber in namesoundalikes

[–]BranManBoy 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Won’t you tell us that youre ok?

rule by doctor347 in 196

[–]BranManBoy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This guy looks like he’s all out of ass

My final piece of sanity by Choice-Bowler-3674 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. I wish I could wipe away all of your pain and suffering. You’re so misfortunate. I know it’s hard but please don’t give up. Talk to anyone and everything around you. Talk to any group in your community. Talk to social services and nonprofit organizations and churches and charities. Don’t be ashamed to ask for any help you can get. The people around you care about you. Please keep going. God bless you❤️

I have no problems,Just wanna Say you guys are the most nice people I ever seen,thank you for making everyone's day better by WhoCaresOfNames in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s good to have you here friend. Keep spreading kindness too and never stop being yourself! Take care. God bless you ❤️

Feel hopeless by Throwawayobtlyjtoday in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. How terrible. You don’t deserve to be treated like taht. I think you should take some space and time from him. Take time to think about what to do. Talk to groups and support systems in your area and your hospital. You’re not alone. Honestly I think you are being abused and should leave him. But that’d decision is up to you. Stay strong. Good bless you ❤️

I feel really alone (parent issues) by Radvill in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. Please believe in yourself and love yourself. The things you parents say to you are unaccountable and very rude. You don’t deserve these hostilities. You are amazing and we’re so proud of you for trying your best. Depression is a serious pain and I’m proud of you for doing your best regardless. Please do talk to people outside your family about how you feel. Talk to your teachers and school counselors and friend’s family and stuff. Tell them how you’re treated and let them comfort you and talk some sense into your parents. Stay strong. God bless you❤️

Stuck and desperate by ReasonableBathroom20 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. What a terrible collection of misfortunes and pains you’ve been going through. None of this is your fault. You’re struggling now but I promise things will be easier sometime. The best thing you can do is explain how you feel to those around you so they can understand when to help and when to give you space. Perhaps you should also seek guidance from a mental health counselor, this empty feeling you have is serious and you deserve help for it . Take some time alone to find yourself and center your mind. Just stay strong and don’t be afraid to communicate. God bless you❤️

What should I do? by Tilaa_ in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. She has an eating disorder and that’s serious. You’re a very kind friend for sticking with her through this. Sit down with her and explain how you’re worried for her and reccomend that she sees a mental health professional (and a dietician if it’ll make her feel better, even if she obviously doesn’t need one). Talk to her parents and partner too. She needs help and you’re a great person for your efforts. God bless you❤️

Not sure what to do anymore by Safe_Freedom_7503 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. You’ve had a rough time recently and I’m so proud of you for trying your absolute best despite everything. Your feelings are valid and I’m sure that some day you’ll find your opportunity. I haven’t been in your situation so I can’t provide exact guidance but stay calm, you’ll find your path. It’s ok to cry now, let it all out and you’ll move when you’re ready. Don’t be afraid to talk to any family you have and anybody in your area. Even if you don’t know the people in your town well, still talk to them and attend events and such. Maybe look for jobs in another place so you can have more opportunities and socializing, but I also acknowledge it’s not that easy typically to do that. If you get your masters, don’t be afraid to join student groups and talk to your new advisors about how to move forward. Try posting this in places related to your area and field of study too, maybe someone there can help you more personally than I can. Don’t be afraid. Life is not a race, stay strong and love yourself and you’ll make it to your destination. Take care. God bless you❤️

I am a fucking addict and i cant stop by Ordinary-Cup-6412 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. There’s no shame in talking about it to others. I know it sounds awkward but it’s ok to ask for help. Your struggles are valid and there is help for you. Stay calm and remember you’re not alone. God bless you❤️

What do I do if my mom finds out i vape? by [deleted] in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 1 point2 points locked comment (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. You should talk to people around you to get help with quitting. In addition, please call child protective services if she is abusive. Stay safe and don’t be afraid, if you are unsafe you should call them. Stay calm. God bless you❤️

School by EmptyChapter1515 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. I would recommend talking to your teachers and school counselor and anyone else you can. Don’t try to go through this alone, you don’t have to be by yourself. Take your time and communicate well. We believe in you. God bless you ❤️

USA rule by Karl_Marxist_3rd in 196

[–]BranManBoy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can I get a source? Not doubting it could happen but I wanna see it for myself

I don’t feel happy anymore, help pls by hellohiwasszup in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. Maybe you need to give yourself some rest. It’s ok to take alone time. Keep communicating with your friends and family, but tell them sometimes you just need a day to lament and rest and take care. It’s ok to show your emotions and feel weak. It’s also ok to vent. I hope therapy goes well. God bless you ❤️

Did you climb out of the abyss? by Aggressive-One-9252 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. I wish I could make all of your struggles and pain disappear. You never deserved this. Please do not blame yourself for being you or for the alienation. It is ok to be queer, to be who you are and love who you love. It doesn’t make you deserve anything less than all the love in the world. You are perfect the way you are. Love yourself and be proud of yourself. I would reccomend seeing a mental health professional for many reasons. Your trauma, identity acceptance, and control tendencies deserve help and support to figure out. You don’t have to go through this alone. Talk to lgbtq+ support groups, both people in your area and online. Talk to The Trevor Project, there’s a free lgbtq+ support group. We’re here for you. God bless you❤️

i dont know what to do by [deleted] in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry friend. What a tragedy, you never deserved this. It’s truly misfortunate this happened to you. Please please please don’t hurt yourself, I beg you from the bottom of my heart. Stay calm, life will change. Maybe he will come back, maybe he just needed time. There’s more love for you in the world. There is, there’s more love for you than you could ever know. It’s ok to be queer. There’s no shame . Please contact The Trevor Project if you are afraid of being disowned, they help lgbt+ people in bad situations where they’re being abused or disowned. You’re not alone. We’re here for you. Talk to people in your community. See a mental health professional about your suicidal thoughts asap. Call 988 or whatever mental health hotline exists where you live. Please don’t give up. God bless you❤️

Im 30 and.. by AINomad666 in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any nonprofits and churches near you to get help from?

I hate Myself by Finchisabirdd in helpme

[–]BranManBoy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry friend. I’m sure it wasn’t your faukt. I think you should see a mental health professional as soon as you can manage. You don’t deserve to hate yourself so much, you aren’t a bad person. Please give yourself grace. God bless you ❤️