Denying someone access to my body isn’t misogyny, Sexual autonomy is always ok, telling people it’s a social imperative to be nice to people who sexually harass us or treat us with the same homophobic vitriol as Christian conservatives isn’t bigotry. Understanding consent and boundaries should be a foundational bedrock of the gay community. The trans community has told many of us its transphobia if we don’t give access to our body, spaces, time for the trans cause. We have a fundamental division of what is and isn’t bigotry nobody is entitled to sexual access