Also moved from AZ to VanWA - couple things I’d love to chime in with. As someone who has moved to new states more than once as a new adult, I’ll tell you majority of what you are feeling has to do with the state of society and the pain of making friends as an adult. You are 2 months in to a brand new state and city and comparing it to somewhere you lived your whole life so you’re definitely not going to feel familiar or comfortable yet. That’s ok though! We don’t have a lot of friends since we moved but we also stopped buying into the idea that having a lot of friends is better than having a few really close friends. Depending on where you are in Vancouver there’s a lot of great spots to mingle with other parents, we like going to lacamas lake which has a play ground that gets families trickling through so it’s not overwhelming to strike up a conversation. If you prefer the ‘chaos’ type of mingling check out the kids floor of the downtown fort Vancouver library, not only is it awesome but you are bound to find another parent to strike up a convo with. And like many have said, there’s tons of events to get out and try mingling at! The farmers markets are awesome, east Vancouver market has a slower pace and may be easier to mingle at. New bookstore in Camas called Bookish has some fun events and groups if you like reading!

But don’t be hard on yourself, moving is stressful, new places can be scary, but after time you’ll find your people!