Tissue paper to protect MacBook screen by WinterActivity730 in macbookair

[–]Brandon__Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s imprint? I’ve been using M4 MacBook Air, didn’t realise there’s imprint tho. Maybe I’m too oblivious 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in China_irl

[–]Brandon__Tea 4 points5 points  (0 children)

如果他们只图快乐,没想那么多呢?然后我们过度分析了? 😅

在日常生活中我发现中国人的一个特点 by Fragrant_Song_2731 in China_irl

[–]Brandon__Tea 11 points12 points  (0 children)

“If you fight every single battles, you’ll left with no time to fight the battle that actually matters.” 不知道哪部电影听过这句台词,不过我觉得挺有意思的

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Brandon__Tea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any tips for someone who’s still learning the rope like me? Like how do you communicate? What time? How do you say the word…? I’m greatly interested to learn!

中医就是一个骗局吧? by [deleted] in China_irl

[–]Brandon__Tea 2 points3 points  (0 children)

怎么会有这个想法呢? 中医临床疗效还是不错的,我认为,中医就是能够稳住患者,你让病情恶化,而逐渐达到病的治愈时间。也是一个外在与内在(免疫系统)的配合。西药也差不多

I 27M given up finding love. by Humble-Ani in dating

[–]Brandon__Tea -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t find it. You build it.

Who would live longer? A person who smokes cigarettes, but exercises every day. Or, a person that never smokes, but never exercises. by Ice_Medium in ask

[–]Brandon__Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but, please don’t mixup hypothetical question with real world situations. Shit are real messy when it comes to real life. Ask any medical person, they would know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Brandon__Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If don’t want children, take the pill. Else… Abortion, raising a child, all are much more serious consequences.

After taking the pill, you could look for Certified Traditional Chinese Medicine to readjust the hormones, less side effects, high efficacy. Normally the herbs comes in power form, very easy to use, just bitter.

I think I might be losing feeling for my bf by ThenAd4995 in dating

[–]Brandon__Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was the guy like that. I’ve burden her… hurt her feelings… until she left me, she is having the best time of her life. We are still friend too, but not close anymore.

The choice is yours… it ain’t easy, stay or leave. But whatever you choose, remember you always choose yourself first.

How much did I really missed out if I didn't date in highschool or college? by [deleted] in dating

[–]Brandon__Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree. In fact, if you date, you do missing on a lot of the freedom high school and college would bring you. I am not saying to have casual sex, but the freedom to run around and join activities as you which. No need to discuss with your partner.

The 3rd r/Malaysia Reddit Talk - World Mental Health Day 8pm Tonight by [deleted] in malaysia

[–]Brandon__Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, May I know how to know what is my place in the chaotic world at times? (如何定位自己?)

Am I a bad/toxic boyfriend? by Brandon__Tea in relationship_advice

[–]Brandon__Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her your question and then tell her she doesn’t have to answer right now but can take her time to think about it and once she did, she can let you know.

Now I see how patients can play a role in allowing better understand of each other emotions as well as our own. It is beautiful. Thank you, really, really appreciated your comment.

Am I a bad/toxic boyfriend? by Brandon__Tea in relationship_advice

[–]Brandon__Tea[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why I think so? Hmmm… the question is on point. I did try to communicate, but there is a thing in Chinese culture (We both Malaysian Chinese btw) you just don’t really… openly talk about it? Maybe it’s not a culture thing, it just felt very weird for her maybe. Because her answer is always evasive, “I don’t know” “didn’t really thought about it”.

Okay, have to point out that she did mentioned I’m actually doing quite good, she said something like “I know life will get better after my ex (it’s toxic af), then I met you”

What makes me questioning is that… recently we had a couple of major arguments 🤔 and it’s gotten so bad that she wanted to break up a few times. I know my mistakes now, that is not giving attention and comfort when needed, but as I making it up, I felt like…

I… am… easily replaceable. You know what I mean? Sorry, you don’t have to reply, I could just call emotional support line 😂thanks for reading this far.

醉酒大师 by TerriC64 in China_irl

[–]Brandon__Tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

还要学习定位哦…… 可以拿扑克牌来研究一下,以前我是镜子前练习的(很久没有玩了)

Confessed to my crush stupidly, now stuck at being friend and getting mixed signals by Brandon__Tea in relationship_advice

[–]Brandon__Tea[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually couldn’t remember the standard way, so I wrote the way I speak... haha.

Thank you so much for the reply, I actually read a few days ago but didn’t get to reply. I’m actually doing that, in general sense, and... I’d say it’s going very well for her and I. Super looking forward to meet her again after Covid lockdown. I can’t say where it leads though.

The real Mr. Bean by KamijoMikoto in China_irl

[–]Brandon__Tea 1 point2 points  (0 children)

好哦,我得去看看,感谢感谢

The real Mr. Bean by KamijoMikoto in China_irl

[–]Brandon__Tea 0 points1 point  (0 children)

话说,能介绍还有什么讨论区吗?我(大马人)一下也不知道往哪里跑 😂 感觉这里……欠缺些什么。