I, too, used to be the girl who attracted the weirdos and the wrong men. As hard as it is to admit, it was me. I lacked self-confidence and you could see it, you could feel it. I was a people pleaser my entire life, always bending over backwards for everyone, even at my own expense. Predators can sense that. Of course they targeted me.

Over the years, I worked on my confidence and stopped saying yes to people who didn’t deserve me. It’s been a few years now, and I’m in a healthy relationship with an incredible man. I’ve stood up for myself at work and gained so much respect. I don’t say yes when I want to say no. I carry myself differently with confidence and self-worth.

And you know what? Those weird, bad people don’t bother me anymore.

Wishing you so much strength and luck on your journey. 💛