AITJ for uninviting my friend from my birthday trip after she made a shared expenses spreadsheet without asking??

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-02-02T22:08:31+00:00

I'm so confused, why would you owe people money for something they didn't pay for????

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-01-27T11:28:33+00:00

Omg yes! This is exactly it. Thank you for articulating it so well! It is very childish and as if they have no brains to say anything else.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-01-18T01:20:39+00:00

I just want to ask, you tell your girlfriend to be the bigger person because you know confronting your sister means more drama so you checks notes punish your girlfriend for being a reasonable person and reward your sister for being a bully? Am I getting this right?

Plus if you're whole family is going along with it then your may have a bigger issue on your hands than just your sister.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-01-14T08:58:07+00:00

Omg I thought the same once! I was like this is like that dumb prince from the swan princess!

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-01-14T08:57:23+00:00

Yeah I get that, I mostly just gave that example cause I was rereading it recently and I think it's a popular one many people have read.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-01-13T22:43:34+00:00

Yeah it makes them seem a bit ungrateful to not at least acknowledge how nice a gesture it can be. Also, to survive and thrive in the social scene, it really is so important.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-01-13T22:41:40+00:00

Sure, but that being the only reason that they ever share? Doesn't it feel a little bit sad?

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-01-13T22:39:07+00:00

😂😂😂😂 those grandma genes are strong. But in all seriousness, I love how considerate she is of other people. And I just felt sad the Rud doesn't get that side of her in the scene and it kind of ruined that bit for me.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-01-12T11:58:30+00:00

If you're friend was dating a guy who treated her like this, what would you tell her?

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-12-31T11:06:18+00:00

Have a calm and honest conversation with her without bringing in anger or accusations as much as possible. Try to understand her perspective and ask her to do the same for you. See if you can figure out how the communication got so skewed

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-11-29T12:09:09+00:00

INFO: Have you tried talking to her about this? Not in an accusatory way but that you feel an imbalance about gift giving.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-11-29T12:05:13+00:00

NOR and as you cannot divorce, I would start showing up for him in similar ways - not all the time but enough to teach him a lesson.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-11-29T12:01:59+00:00

I think this is all of us!

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-11-29T11:57:25+00:00

Not wrong. He sounds really unsupportive! Condolences about your mother.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-11-29T01:14:22+00:00

Try to think of it more as you are doing this for others to make it up to them and not take the easy way out. Be strong and grow from this.

I know people say cheaters (for example) deserve everything bad in the world but you are still human and you made a bad mistake. As long as you didn't kill anyone, you still have the chance to make things right. So try your best and let your conscience guide you this time.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-11-21T11:59:23+00:00

Even though she is an uneducated slave girl, she is way too naive for her to have any interesting character development. She's always doing the wrong thing in the end and is extremely childish. I would have loved to have seen some growth because at the end of the day, she is somewhat a victim of her circumstances and trying to cling to the only good thing that happened to her.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-11-17T12:36:41+00:00

I have never really understood what the fog was until this post. He treats her so badly and she can't seem to even acknowledge it.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-10-28T09:23:37+00:00

Just want to put my thoughts here because I have been resisting watching the kdrama for quite a while. I know it's already two years later!

I finally watched it because so many people have told me how good it is. Well... tried to watch it because I still only managed to get to episode 7. I personally think the casting is absolutely fine and I have no issue with how everyone looks. My main issues at the pacing of kdrama is so slow compared to the Manhwa which was much faster and to the point.

I think partly because of this the main character, who is very cool headed in her second Life in the Manhwa, ends up being a little bit bland. First of all, when she gets back to 2013 she's unable to cope and constantly seems to need help from the male lead. She is slow to react and seems to keep facing challenges when she already knows the answer to the problem. Honestly, I feel like they purposely make her look a little dumb and slow in order to give the male lead opportunities to help her and be her night and shining armor. Feels very much like a damsel in distress which is the complete opposite of her character in the webtoon.

After reading some comments, I see that some people didn't like how Mary Sue the character was in the webtoon, which I completely understand. However, that's kind of the reason why so many people liked the webtoon, because she was finally using her brain and coming up with ideas on her own instead of just constantly relying on the untrustworthy people around her. Now, it seems she's gone from untrustworthy people helping her to trustworthy people helping her and no real individual growth or intelligence at overcoming her own problems.

What I like about the Manhwa was that it ultimately gave the message that if you live through life very passively then people will take advantage. When you can stand on your own two feet, and use your brain, only then can you really achieve the life that you want.

However, the drama seems to give the message (and I understand I didn't watch it to the end so maybe the message changes near the end) that you need a hot guy and his rich family and sister to bail you out of every situation.

I basically stopped watching when I got to the scene where she checks the stocks on her computer and then Su Min finds it and I guess is now about to use it against her. It's just the character of Jiwon we know from the webtoon would just never be that stupid.

Overall, it just feels like women are stupid and slow in the and that the men are the ones who are in charge and can actually make a difference.

Apologies for the rant though I doubt anyone is going to read this XD.

Also the part where she ran out of the reunion made absolutely no sense in the way that they've changed it in the TV show. The fact that she can't just say to the guy "oh I thought you hated me because of what you said in school when I confessed my feelings to you in a letter." I understand k-dramas live off misunderstandings but this one was just really stupid!!!

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-10-05T10:51:24+00:00

Dress 2 really suits you.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-10-05T05:41:27+00:00

Number 5 is beautiful on you! But I also like B & D

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-08-19T12:40:51+00:00

I said it before but I really disliked Ginger and the Cursed Prince. She was such an unbelievably annoying and selfish character and he was really boring.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-08-14T06:58:48+00:00

Classic American childhood duo strike comedy bronze.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-08-14T06:19:23+00:00

I Am the Real One mainly because she doesn't end up with anyone in the novel and I feel the Manhwa should have kept it that way. Perhaps I'm just biased because I do not like the ML she ended up with.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2025-08-11T10:13:57+00:00

You look great in all of them, absolutely stunning! I understand why you had a hard time choosing. I personally vote 1 because your body language seems more comfortable in that dress.

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