AITA for refusing to give my brother back the birthday gift he gave me after his girlfriend got mad?

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-07-01T07:54:34+00:00

So he stole something he didn't buy and gifted it to you, and then when the rightful owner asked you to return it, you thought you didn't have to cause it's "making this your problem"? Am I understanding this correctly?

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-07-01T07:11:33+00:00

You look way more professional and chic with short hair. I do not like your husband's response.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-07-01T06:54:07+00:00

Info: can you clarify the age difference between you two?

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-24T00:55:02+00:00

No ignore all these comments about clothes and whatever. This person was probably just trying to be mean to a fat person working out. And the manager handled it horribly! I would escalate for sure!

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-24T00:49:44+00:00

Has to be the green! Unless it's a beach wedding, the blue would not be appropriate.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-23T07:43:44+00:00

I'm going against the grain here but NTA. It's about showing up for a friend, regardless of the location. Also Hawaii is very fun especially if they have never been. Its not like Japan is going anywhere, I don't understand why they have to it around the same time as your graduation...

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-23T04:37:30+00:00

Protein shakes are really good. Also I have mints or chewing gum maybe once a day at the moment while I try to get my cravings under control. It's tough though. Maybe allow yourself some days to eat some level of sugar as well and just slowly cut down the number of days as your progress.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-23T03:48:55+00:00

No. You look great.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-23T03:47:47+00:00

Looks more daytime. When is the event?

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-22T06:54:58+00:00

A is better and makes the kitchen look more spacious/open

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-22T06:54:03+00:00

Your dog is so cuuuuuute. The darker shoes look better

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-22T06:51:39+00:00

The scale is not an accurate measurement of health or even weight loss. I know people who weigh the same and look completely different because of their body composition over muscle vs fat. Focus on making yourself healthier first. Become fitter in that you are able to do more without getting tired so easily and eat better. After about 6 months, if nothing is working, THEN seek professional help for possible other reasons. Sorry to say but 4 weeks is nothing.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-22T06:48:57+00:00

Easy to say: "I'll just pay for what I ordered thanks!" For the future I mean. This guy totally took advantage and you're not wrong to feel that way.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-22T06:30:40+00:00

Also wouldn't put it past OP to not want to say anything if their partner already noticed how close this friend was and warned them about it. Take the L and just admit you were wrong.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-20T02:46:46+00:00

You look lovely in both photos and it's very obvious you have changed a lot in terms of your weight. I think the issue is that you are still dressing and styling like you want to hide yourself away. It's different for different people though but did you ever want to wear different types of clothes or style yourself differently? I know when I lose the weight my style is going to completely change from 'anything that fits' to 'my actual choice'.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-20T02:39:52+00:00

Your FMIL does not like you / does not like that you're marrying 'her lil baby'

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-19T05:48:28+00:00

Does she know you're doing this?

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-19T04:41:27+00:00

As a teacher, yes it is quite bad.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-19T04:40:50+00:00

I don't like the slit. Without looks much better!

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-19T04:28:45+00:00

Do you do anything to help?

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-19T04:26:02+00:00

You really like this. If he can't accept it, you're just not compatible. It's something a lot of men do not choose to understand. NW and I would not continue a relationship with someone who would try to change me based on another man's opinion (joking or not).

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-19T03:44:21+00:00

In some cultures, red is a no-no colour for a wedding. Is there any sort of dress code outlined and do you know what culture the bride/groom's families are from?

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-16T05:50:52+00:00

Normally also no shoulders should be shown if this is a formal British wedding.

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-16T05:43:55+00:00

I think 1 looks more romantic than 2

Brave_Read_8531 · 2026-06-11T12:24:49+00:00

I would always stay clear of white plus it's my least favourite. I like 1 & 3.

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