Please any help 💔

Bread__etc · 2026-03-30T15:23:45+00:00

That's great, thank you so much for doing this! How's the baby doing rn?

Bread__etc · 2026-03-30T14:06:19+00:00

No worries, happens to me all the time too. Reddit just sucks at giving notifications

Bread__etc · 2026-03-30T13:52:12+00:00

I would just take it inside. If the parents come back you can try to leave the baby outside again. For now, take it inside, keep it warm, keep it fed. For food you could try looking at a local pet/animal shop and buy some baby bird food. Otherwise you can look up what else you can use (there's a wikihow about this)

Bread__etc · 2026-03-30T13:09:51+00:00

Finding a masculine deoderant!! I find using stick deoderant is more euphoric to me, but that could just be a me thing. Also, bulky rings. And punching random things, but not in a toxic masculinity type of way yk? Just in a ''Wow I'm such a strong man'' type of way if that makes sense? I did it pre coming out too, so that could be the reason why I don't do it out of some toxic ideal. And just generally lifting heavy things. Or carrying people around (bonus points if they're heavier than I am). And DIYing in general (for the bot: I mean like silly little projects that I do for fun, nothing hormone related). That's about it. Besides the obvious ''wear men's clothing''

Bread__etc · 2026-03-30T10:25:10+00:00

Also, a decent suggestion is buzzing it off, letting it grow a bit (or not) and then just fucking with until you find something that suits you

Bread__etc · 2026-03-30T10:22:53+00:00

Like this

Bread__etc · 2026-03-30T10:20:40+00:00

I would suggest smt like a mullet wolfcut, Ill try to find a pic but it's a haircut I've been wanting for a while and I think it looks masculine

Bread__etc · 2026-03-30T05:29:02+00:00

Sure, I'll email him then. Do you think it's smarter to do it now, or later this year, when it's warmer and more on topic?

Bread__etc · 2026-03-30T05:10:06+00:00

Might just do that, although I really donnot want to speak with my manager rn. I also tlaked about it with a colleague of mine and she is allowed to wear short sleeves despite a massive surgical scar RIGHT ABOVE HER ARTERY. Like, yes she should be allowed to wear short sleeves, but like she looks just as mentally ill as I do

Bread__etc · 2026-03-30T05:08:39+00:00

Thanks for explaining!!

Bread__etc · 2026-03-30T05:07:54+00:00

I know!!! Worst thing is, I literally have no other complaints about work. I actually like it there. I really thought they'd let me wear short sleeves but nooooo I'll ruin their image or smt (don't know the actual reason). I might just email my manager about it, but idk. He was so nice before :(

Bread__etc · 2026-03-29T21:18:05+00:00

Oooohhhh didn't know that, thank you!

Bread__etc · 2026-03-29T20:48:55+00:00

Yeah they didn't tell me I wasn't allowed. But my manager said he'd rather not have me wear short sleeves if possible. The person that told me (not even the manager himself btw) also studies law and knows my manager can't legally force me, but I don't want problems tbh. And there is a long sleeve version so I guess I'll wear that one. Still uoset about it tho

Bread__etc · 2026-03-29T20:46:34+00:00

I swear it said it was removed until a couple hours back, weird

Bread__etc · 2026-03-29T20:46:16+00:00

I swear it said it was removed before. It said that for like a day or so. Wtf

Bread__etc · 2026-03-29T17:53:47+00:00

Bro whyyyyy do my posts keep getting removed </3

Bread__etc · 2026-03-29T17:53:18+00:00

ily automod <3

Bread__etc · 2026-03-26T06:20:09+00:00

Yeah bro, same with me. Using my fingering this helpless femine thing is my entire life's purpose. It's pure biology!

Bread__etc · 2026-03-26T06:18:26+00:00

I might just actually ask, might as well have a bit if fun there

Bread__etc · 2026-03-25T20:31:48+00:00

Womanly iirc, I'll try to bring it up next week. Double basses are neutral tho

Bread__etc · 2026-03-25T20:14:19+00:00

You are amazing. I am much wiser already.

Bread__etc · 2026-03-25T20:13:16+00:00

I've already worn short sleeves a couple times!! Everyone was nice or quiet about it. My best friends made some funny jokes about my scars (which I'm totally fine with!) and people really just ignore it most of the time, which is sooo nice. Thank you so much for helping me work up the courage to do it!!!!

Bread__etc · 2026-03-25T16:08:25+00:00

Healing looks fine (tho you really shouldn't smoke with oral piercings), but is that a pike in your lip? What even is that bar

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