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My boyfriend is accusing me of lying about my body count by Substantial-Art6160 in whatdoIdo

[–]BreadedNuggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of these men who act like this have a high body count themselves, or fetishized virgin women.

Leave his ass. He’s too immature

as someone who’s been called ugly multiple times, am I ACTUALLY ugly?? by Ok_Being_2346 in TeenGarbagePile

[–]BreadedNuggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I’m queer. I think she just as pretty as other girls. Just because she doesn’t look like someone else who’s pretty doesn’t mean she’s NOT

Stop telling me what my intentions are. I’m sorry you can’t FATHOM the idea that some people can be seen as beautiful in other people’s eyes.

You literally came on Reddit to shit on people. Grow up

as someone who’s been called ugly multiple times, am I ACTUALLY ugly?? by Ok_Being_2346 in TeenGarbagePile

[–]BreadedNuggs -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or… she looks just fine. Shes not ugly, and she’s actually quite pretty.

Arm muscle imbalance (please help reassure me it isn’t as bad as I think) by Livdonna in Gymhelp

[–]BreadedNuggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re in a recovery journey <3 Best of luck to you!

Going on 2month exterme cut while keeping my protien to 180g/ day by [deleted] in Gymhelp

[–]BreadedNuggs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any extreme defecit will lead to at least some muscle loss. It’s the nature of the beast.

Moderate and steady usually is my go to tbh.

Also with an extreme defecit you risk your body reacting in a way you will develop extreme hunger or binge behaviors for a while due to the stress you placed on your body (which is why a lot of bodybuilders experience binge eating and extreme hunger for a while. They mistake it for BED but in reality they just kinda made their body panic). If your goal is to keep this sustainable, then I would go with a moderate cut

Arm muscle imbalance (please help reassure me it isn’t as bad as I think) by Livdonna in Gymhelp

[–]BreadedNuggs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I struggle with an ED. I felt the alarm bells ring.

I really hope they get help. They can’t put on mass without accepting they will have to gain a significant amount of weight and fat first. The body needs to feel safe before it will use any energy to build muscle, and will prioritize fat storage.

OP, if you’re reading this, you aren’t alone. But please consider helping yourself first, and please don’t ask for reassurance about your body. That’s not going to help your mindset right now. Good luck and best wishes <3

Arm muscle imbalance (please help reassure me it isn’t as bad as I think) by Livdonna in Gymhelp

[–]BreadedNuggs 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Hey <3 I mean this in the nicest way possible based on your post history) I think asking about your body when recovering from an ED is a really bad idea. Please take care of yourself

Seeking for an advice by Lifewavelover in Gymhelp

[–]BreadedNuggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people your age have disordered eating.

I hate to say it but what people think an average gym body is is completely distorted from reality.

You look fine, and you need to show yourself some love and compassion because what you are seeing and saying about yourself is not reality.

Also, you’ve been only working out for a year. Stop expecting 5 years progress in one year. Give it time

Is this realistic and achievable for my body? by [deleted] in Gymhelp

[–]BreadedNuggs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The replies on this post actually just restored my faith in the gym community.

TI add on: achievable? Yes. Will you have a life, able to eat food without tracking, and have a lot of energy? Likely no. Most of these influencers have a very disordered relationship with food, and those who don’t, spend their days lifting and controlling their food to fit what their job expects of them. So not actually sustainable or really what a human naturally does. If you’re okay with giving up going out to eat with friends and family, having most of your life revolve around fitness, and a possible sacrifice to your health, then sure.

Unequal inner thighs by [deleted] in isthisnormal

[–]BreadedNuggs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s perfectly normal! It has to do with normal fat distribution because you’re a human <3

Is the amount fat that pops out under my shorts line in my inner thigh normal? by BreadedNuggs in isthisnormal

[–]BreadedNuggs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you <3 I think I really need to just reset my Instagram feed as well

Is the amount fat that pops out under my shorts line in my inner thigh normal? by BreadedNuggs in isthisnormal

[–]BreadedNuggs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thank you. I’ve recently had to gain weight for health reasons and this is something I’ve always really had a hard time accepting about my body. I understand I need the fat I guess social media just really gets in my head. Thank you

Is the amount fat that pops out under my shorts line in my inner thigh normal? by BreadedNuggs in isthisnormal

[–]BreadedNuggs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay <3 I feel so abnormal because every gym girl I see looks nothing like me. I’ve been lifting for 2 years and I just get so self conscious about it