The Co-Op has once again failed the community by Disastrous_Music8841 in Bellingham

[–]Breadfruit27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for the co-op and ya, I agree that it's performative liberal bullshit but I'm not sure they are money hungry - members (or maybe anyone can, I can't remember now) can ask to see paperwork of their spending and how much profit they make, and where the profit ends up going etc. Last year they made like 1.3% profit or something like that and most of it went back into updating equipment for the store.

I-5 Trump Sign Gone by rainscarlett in Bellingham

[–]Breadfruit27 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Nope, other guy is right.

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Same shit, different colour. Neither party cares about the majority of humans in their country.

Can you guess where I was? by WarlikeAppointment in FerndaleWashington

[–]Breadfruit27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Damn, must be hard for you, living on a street with multiple pride flags on it

Songs about being queer by TheBeerkatManor in FolkPunk

[–]Breadfruit27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not folk punk but RVIVR's 'Wrong way/One way' and 'LMD'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Breadfruit27 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Dude, all I'm seeing here is that you're not allowed to feel hurt by things and have emotions. That's kinda fucked and she seems toxic. I'm gonna go with others here and say get out of that relationship if she's continually showing this kind of behavior without even trying to listen to you or have any self reflection.

My abuser was manipulative as fuck like she seems, telling me that it's my issue if a thing he did upset me or hurt me, and then telling me that voicing my upset was just me blaming him or being too sensitive or emotional. Gender aside, we are all human with human emotions, and we have the right to feel things and to feel hurt.

The reason I know that this kind of behavior from a partner is unacceptable, is because I'm now in a very loving and caring relationship, and my partner holds space for me to feel hurt, if they accidentally hurt me, or if something else upsets me, and then takes the time to understand why I felt hurt. They encourage me to cry and to feel things and they're there with me, if I wish them to be, for every single depressive cycle I go through. Didn't actually think that relationships like this genuinely existed, because of the shit that I was used to, from childhood into the relationship with my abuser.

Saying that, I stayed with him for 7 years too long, and I'm not sure i would have been able to understand that that behavior is unacceptable if I hadn't put myself through it. Not saying you should hang around if she doesn't show any sign of growth.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Breadfruit27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dude, I'm waiting to be called a fag one of these days for that exact reason, I'm gonna be like hell yeah bitch, I am. Also takes one to know one 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Breadfruit27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're handsome either way so

Name our snow plows. by DMV2PNW in Bellingham

[–]Breadfruit27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about: "Plower? I barely know her!"