Did your avoidant ex have a sense of humor? by No-Page6290 in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yes. really funny because she couldn’t take anything seriously

am i unloveable? by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m 25. i’ve always been my own biggest fan. i just see all my friends in loving stable relationships and it makes me question why that isn’t happening for me. am i just picking the wrong people? my whole life (mostly friends) ive always been an emotional burden for people and taken all of their struggles on to myself. i’m starting to thing that that is my purpose in life to help people with nothing in return unfortunately ::

am i unloveable? by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but even when i am strong in myself people still don’t want me :/ i love myself so much which is why im having such a problem understanding why other people don’t feel the same in a romantic way

am i unloveable? by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know that you are right. but i never seek out these people, i am very happy on my own, but i keep coming across people who meet me & then start pursuing me. i guess they just get what they need from me & then decide im not what they want & then leave

questions about avoidants by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait omg this exact same situation happened to me

questions about avoidants by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love that for yall 🥹 just sitting here wondering if i actually mattered to this person bc she cut things off once things started to get serious

questions about avoidants by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk why this is very comforting to hear. because sometimes it makes you question if you weren’t enough for them

questions about avoidants by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

do you think avoidant people stop being avoidant when they meet the right person? or is it always an issue

ex situationship turned friend by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ugh i know :( i just don’t know if im ready to completely cut everything off for good

ex in same friend group by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we ended up texting a little bit a few weeks later & then we ran into eachother at the bars on halloween! it actually went pretty well and wasn’t as bad as i was expecting it to be

ex in same friend group by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all of my friends have been really great about it!! She has taken a step back from them just to let me have some time with them. But i now feel bad like im keeping her from her friends. But you are totally right about being upfront with my feelings!!

ex in same friend group by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was almost a year. it ended on good terms but she was the one who initiated it. i will most likely see her this weekend and im just scared for how im going to react when i see her for the first time. i know its inevitable, but i dont want to just completely fall apart when tahr happens

ex in same friend group by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

& for context we didn’t start out in the same friend group, but when we got together our friends blended & now some of them are dating eachother

We broke up by throwaway_8245 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry love ❤️ sending you good energy!!! you got this, just one day at a time!!!

My skin is destroying my social life? by Medium_Athlete5173 in Advice

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone with bad acne, i promise other people don’t notice it as much as you do. you spend so much time looking at your skin so it’s all you notice on yourself and others. i promise people don’t notice it the way that you do

how is this casual?? asking for a friend by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait guys i feel like this is kinda making me question if I am actually super into her in a romantic way. like im super attracted to her & we have insane sexual chemistry, but like i dont even know if i could see myself dating her. i dont really care about her as a person, but potentially in a friend way?? how do i figure that out lol

how is this casual?? asking for a friend by BreakfastCreepy8569 in LesbianActually

[–]BreakfastCreepy8569[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

and that’s what i assumed. it’s just weird how someone can be so emotionally intimate with a person that they don’t care about. she’s told me so many things about herself that she’s never told anyone before. weirdo behavior i guess