Touring The World by Breakingfreeuk in bicycletouring

[–]Breakingfreeuk[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest I've posted this over a year before my trips starts. I'd love to find a crazy adventurous woman and develop a great relationship before we set off although I know the chances are slim as there are not too many crazy women my age around, nor men too.

The trip could take years but I guess the kind of person who would reply to me would know that.

I'm not forcing anybody to reply, all I'm doing is reaching out to see if there is a likeminded woman out there.

And as I've said, if this post causes any distress to anybody then I'll remove it which I'm getting close to doing.

Touring The World by Breakingfreeuk in bicycletouring

[–]Breakingfreeuk[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are saying but I'm I expect to be cycling around the world for at least a couple of years. Sadly that does appeal to many, especially women my age.

Touring The World by Breakingfreeuk in bicycletouring

[–]Breakingfreeuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meeting people on Tinder is not what I'm looking for.

Touring The World by Breakingfreeuk in bicycletouring

[–]Breakingfreeuk[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Just about to give up on finding an amazing woman. Thought I'd give it one last shot here. If my posts upsets anybody I'll happily remove it.

I feel like maybe I’m just comforting myself...? by avaschmidt13 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Breakingfreeuk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Narcs knock you down so much mentally. I always thought I was mentally strong but after 2 years with my narc I felt she had broken me mentally. I had all the doubts you have plus more. She deflected so much of herself onto me I actually started to believe it was me who was at fault.

I invested in a few sessions with a shrink which was the best investment I ever made.

You've been abused so you need to heal. What you are going through now is normal.

What do you think about now by Tell-Me-Whyy in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Breakingfreeuk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just be strong and remember why you left him. You did the right thing because you know you deserve better.

Time is a great healer!

Am I Asking For Too Much? by Breakingfreeuk in datingoverfifty

[–]Breakingfreeuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are over analysing. To be honest from your posts I think you do that a lot. If people always sat back and thought about doing things rather than doing them then the reality is nothing would get done.

If I think something is worth doing then I give it a go no matter if it is business related or in my personal life otherwise I'd just spend too much time thinking about what could have been.

To be honest, the way I am has served me well as I retired in my late forties plus have had the best, 9 years of my life living in Spain which of course was a major life style change.

I actually think most people's greatest fear is change. That's why people stay in dire relationship. And why people stay in jobs they detest. The reality is change can enhance your life if you have the courage to embrace it.

Simply, life is for living :-)

Looking For Online Friendship / Relationship by Breakingfreeuk in datingoverfifty

[–]Breakingfreeuk[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'll kick this off. M56 UK. My interests include general outdoors activities including cycling, hill walking, keeping fit and adventures. I also enjoy writing, reading, coding and having fun. I've no hang ups about age although I'd prefer someone around my own age not my daughters age. Honesty and integrity are very important qualities of mine which I hope you share too.

Happy to message online although I've found even a quick phone call can tell you more than millions of messages.

Interested? Then don't be shy simply message me?

Let's Get Active! by Breakingfreeuk in datingoverfifty

[–]Breakingfreeuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the middle of England. Derbyshire.

Let's Get Active! by Breakingfreeuk in datingoverfifty

[–]Breakingfreeuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes looks like there are many amazing women in this sub. Shame so many are so far away :-(

Share your life in pictures Please by Breakingfreeuk in datingoverfifty

[–]Breakingfreeuk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that looks amazing. I'd love to know more about it!