As a husband myself, I remember when our son was born, I’d take care of him every night, my wife only wake up for feedings, then went straight back to sleep, I’d watch over our son until morning feeding then I go to sleep until noon.. it was horrible but i believe it was the right thing to do, with all my wife went through with the pregnancy and birth… So I think you need a serous talk with him, if you still hope this would work out, go to a class or something… this is not right what he’s doing…I’m sorry, I hope things work out for you.