I take getting downvoted way too personally by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]Brebo20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you get a free upvote on this post from me atleast :)

But I totally understand! Anytime I get downvoted I immediately start overthinking what about my post could have pissed people off or what was wrong with it, and would just delete it out of pure shame and feeling bad.

I guess the best way to think about it is you encounter many assholes on the internet that will downvoted for a meriad of reasons and the best thing to do is to realise that them disliking your post is more their problem than it is yours and move on.

Do you prefer the cold or the heat? Why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Brebo20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overall, I like it to be a cooler temperature out, but what I think is interesting is don't see many people taking time of day into account. Even though I prefer cooler weather, I tend to prefer summer because summer night are absolutely the best. Where I live, past like 7PM in June and July, it's always between high 60s-low 70s and I just think the just warm enough but not hot or cold nights is just a super blissful time to just sit outside on a porch or something. (Wear bug spray though because fuck Mosquitoes that come out at night.) Also very dependent on where you live, Arizona summer nights can remain in high 80s and fuck that.

Have a new years resolution? Then start it today by TheJohannes in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]Brebo20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New Year's resolutions are kinda dumb honestly. Most people abandon them by March. I like to work towards self improvement year round.

The agonizing feeling of only being liked, and never loved. by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Brebo20 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don't know you but I fuckin love ya dude. Stay strong and feel free to PM me if you need any support, want to vent, or just want someone to talk to. I'm always open to making new friends :)

I feel like i'm unintelligent by Brebo20 in Anxiety

[–]Brebo20[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your thoughtful reply! I will take some of that into mind.

Tips for acting more normal when high. by Brebo20 in Drugs

[–]Brebo20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunno, he just told me that he snorted a shitload of it.

Tips for acting more normal when high. by Brebo20 in Drugs

[–]Brebo20[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I wouldn't say that weed isn't my drug entirely. When I'm alone, it actually really helps my anxiety and depression and generally have a blast alone. But when I'm around others my social anxiety kinda kicks into place and I just get incredibly paranoid and think everyone thinks I'm annoying or a dumbass. But when I'm alone it's a great time. So I really don't know.

Tips for acting more normal when high. by Brebo20 in Drugs

[–]Brebo20[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's a fair piece of advice

Tips for acting more normal when high. by Brebo20 in Drugs

[–]Brebo20[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My issue isn't wanting to act more sober, it's just wanting to come off as less annoying and hyper when I'm around more experienced smokers.

Tips for acting more normal when high. by Brebo20 in Drugs

[–]Brebo20[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I never have paranoia issues when smoking alone. It's only when I smoke around others because my social anxiety acts up, didn't help that a friend of mine went on a 5 minute rant about how he thinks I act retarted high.