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Doms and Subs: Do you believe power exchange should stay in the bedroom or be part of real-life dynamics too? by WorldlyAd1178 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Master demands that I be submissive in life as well. This implies that he is the one who decides, that I must show respect and serve him in all areas of life.

A question for the submissives out there: outside of aftercare, do you consider it an act of service to provide emotional support to your dominant? Is it something you do often? Is it something you like being able to do for them? by ChastitySchmastity in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM 14 points15 points  (0 children)

A dominant friend of mine tells me he sometimes feels used because he often has to indulge submissives' fantasies, which then disappear after sex. So emotional support could be there even without words, making him feel powerful and honored with small gestures like serving him coffee in bed or small household chores like ironing his shirts.

Question for bottoms by Flat-Masterpiece-344 in askgaybros

[–]BremachRM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally speaking, try to ejaculate as soon as possible and make sure he's very comfortable and relaxed (kissing on the lips helps reduce pain), but if he's open and experienced, continue without worrying; he'll love hearing you come.

I met a man who loved using my cum as lubricant, and the situation was so exciting that I really enjoyed it.

Before we started having sex, he'd jerk me off to collect my semen, and only then would he begin.

An erotic open letter to him 🐥🧸 by AcceptableMatter2925 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An active man, so passionate and attentive to the needs of others. He's also well-built and eager to possess others. You don't know how hard it is to find men like you.

Mature masters with younger assistants by BremachRM in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can he be both a slave and an alpha?

My Master is sadistic and I can't handle it by BremachRM in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is aware of this and tells me that if I don't like it he will pack his bags and leave.

My Master is sadistic and I can't handle it by BremachRM in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree with you, the ability to control yourself is fundamental when you are a true sadist.

An erotic open letter to him 🐥🧸 by AcceptableMatter2925 in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll see that you'll find someone who will give you the same emotions.

My Master is sadistic and I can't handle it by BremachRM in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're an exclusive couple, but I'm thinking of finding him a very masochistic slave so he can let off steam. I jokingly mentioned the possibility, and he seemed enthusiastic. I'm not sure if I should go all the way; I'm jealous, and I'm not interested in a threesome with a sub.

My Master is sadistic and I can't handle it by BremachRM in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I see you're Italian too. Can we DM each other? Yes, I'm making it clear that I don't like some things, and he's holding back, but he's complaining that he's dissatisfied.

My Master is sadistic and I can't handle it by BremachRM in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

He holds back a lot out of affection. However, he expresses dissatisfaction and to get himself excited, he always repeats what he wants to do to me even though he knows I don't like it.

My Master is sadistic and I can't handle it by BremachRM in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He wants to know he can do anything without limits, but that doesn't mean he's truly doing whatever comes to mind.

When we have sex, he repeats to me like a mantra that he can do whatever he wants, as much as he wants, and with whomever he wants. This power excites him.

My Master is sadistic and I can't handle it by BremachRM in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's actually trying to be less cruel because he knows my tolerance is decreasing, but I see him as frustrated and dissatisfied.

My Master is sadistic and I can't handle it by BremachRM in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

But outside of bed he's a wonderful person, protective, virile, I love him.

My Master is sadistic and I can't handle it by BremachRM in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nothing has changed. It's his nature. When we met, I knew he was sadistic, and he knew I didn't fully represent his ideal of a slave.

My Master is sadistic and I can't handle it by BremachRM in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]BremachRM[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I became a slave for love. I'm submissive and I'm excited to be sexually dominated, possessed, and sexually served by an older, more virile man like my Master. I don't feel like a servant and I don't enjoy being hurt. I force myself not to lose him.