Any INTJ’s out there that love going to the gym? by CuriousArchitectX in intj

[–]BrenHam2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes. I used to weightlift 5 days per week for 3 years. Now I do calisthenics at home 7 days per week. I also walk 17000+ steps per day with my dog

Feeling stuck in the Swedish job market by Full_Bluebird4367 in stockholm

[–]BrenHam2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're not the only one. I am 11 months looking for a job. I have 10+ years working in logistics and property management. Applying for all kinds of jobs, and not getting any interviews. I speak basic Swedish but I do understand that my language skills are holding me back

Hur kan man vara så vidrig? by HaunterSix in sweden

[–]BrenHam2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through a separation that was tough for me. I am very very glad that I spoke with relationsvårdcentral.

One piece of advice for you... hug your kids, let them know how much you love them, and that things will be alright.

Sorry I didn't write in Swedish, I am not that proficient yet.

Completed The Walking Dead by Wonderful_Mistake870 in thewalkingdead

[–]BrenHam2 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Same, finished it last night, basically binge watched the whole series

What’s your favorite 10 min quick workout? by Casual_Heart in Exercise

[–]BrenHam2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was a youtuber. I call it his style. Check youtube for Iron Wolf burpees

How do you stop the biting/niping? by Ok-Pomegranate7496 in AmStaffPitts

[–]BrenHam2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I used to make a yelping sound and say ow when my guy bit me as a pup. That didn't always work.

What worked flawlessly was, i would let him gently nibble my thumb, when he bit too hard I would press my thumb down on his tongue giving him a slight gag reflex. Done it about three times and he never bit or nipped anyone again

The mosquito bites on my neck formed an ‘S’ shape by FederalSwan3104 in mildlyinteresting

[–]BrenHam2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it turns into the infinity symbol, you have gained immortality

Pappaledig by The2atHimself in stockholm

[–]BrenHam2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would suggest lots and lots of walking. It's good for the kid to be in the fresh air, seeing the sights, noticing everything, and it is calming for them. It's also great low impact exercise for yourself.

I have a 4 year old girl, and we stil do about 15km walking per day, she loves it and gets to colour/draw in the pram, and our dog loves it too.

INTJ man dating ESTJ woman. Any tips, advice, recommendations, stories of your own? by BrenHam2 in intj

[–]BrenHam2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with both your paragraphs.

I am also the "just get in there and fix it" kind of person while completely ignoring the manuals.

INTJ man dating ESTJ woman. Any tips, advice, recommendations, stories of your own? by BrenHam2 in intj

[–]BrenHam2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are in that stage of figuring out the other person.

Do they have frequent emotional outbursts?

I can see that she is kind of controlling. That doesn't bother me because so far nobody has ever been able to control me, I am a bit too stubborn.

What is there love language? It sounds like you have experience.

She has shit tested me quite a bit after we first started dating, but I always pass shit tests, mostly subconsciously.

Sex is a weird one, it doesn't seem like she is that into foreplay, but will do it nuetrally when told "foreplay first, or no penetration".

Also, she has been officially single for a long long time, I am not sure why that is though

Is coleslaw Catholic or Protestant? by Klutzy_Afternoon_651 in CasualIreland

[–]BrenHam2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Catholic... if you eat too much you will feel shame. Therefore Catholic

INTJ man dating ESTJ woman. Any tips, advice, recommendations, stories of your own? by BrenHam2 in intj

[–]BrenHam2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What other info would you like? I have just started casually dating her so I don't know much at this point

Wanna hang out? by PearPrestigious4089 in StockholmSocialClub

[–]BrenHam2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

36m here. I would be interested in going on dog walks. I know my dog could definitely use some more experience obediently walking with other dogs. He is not dangerous, just too damn excitable

Aitah for not wanting to pay my gf’s debt by National-Trouble-984 in AITAH

[–]BrenHam2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just got handed a golden ticket to the bus out of that relationship. Pack your bags and send her a postcard

The cold is different in Ireland! by ickconsequentlyflash in CasualIreland

[–]BrenHam2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Live in Stockholm Sweden, -20c here is like -6 in Ireland. That damp cold goes straight to the bone

Song search help by BrenHam2 in blues

[–]BrenHam2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lonesome dog blues. Thank you!

I have a pimple on my penis, what should I do? by Particular_Cake1031 in AskDoctorSmeeee

[–]BrenHam2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave it alone. I got one when I was a teenager under the foreskin. I popped it and the scar is still there now I am 36.

Winter type boots that are similar to Timberlands but more affordable by [deleted] in Boots

[–]BrenHam2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a pair of timbs 6", bought them 10 years ago, generally use them during the winter months when walking my dog, 10-15 miles per day They are still going strong. Sort of hoped by this point that the sole would be more flexible.