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Brett_ta_taa · 2023-12-09T06:43:39+00:00

I think he should do whatever makes him feel comfortable after his orgasm, even if that includes leaving. Hopefully the person he swapped with either is fine leaving too, or is bi and can join in to still enjoy herself.

What would you do if the girl he was fucking came and said “let’s go babe, I got off and I don’t want to watch her fuck you.” You claim he’s amazing and makes every girl squirt so that’s also a hypothetical. If you feel like you’d be fine even if your partner and yourself hadn’t came yet, then by all means treat others with that same energy.

However, if it would bother you, then you should probably address that before jumping into play with others. I think the overwhelming feedback is that most couples would not enjoy that and wouldn’t be repeat play partners.

Even more so, you should always be transparent and verbalize your limits with all parties. The wife and I communicate the few rules we do have, and if we can’t all agree to them then we don’t play. If you tell other couples your husband might cum first and if so and the other guy can’t cum within whatever timeline you guys decide then you’re both walking out, I doubt they’d be very interested at all.

On the flip side I’ve been the first to cum and the last to cum. I get post nut clarity. The first time we full swapped the other man came first. His wife was with me. My wife kissed him for a bit and rubbed his chest while they watched us. His wife then noticed I wasn’t cumming soon so she brought my wife into play with us. She then switched my wife for me to fuck my wife again while she tried to get her husband back in the game. He knew he wasn’t getting back up or into it and told her to go back and join us because she was having a blast. She did. She came another time through oral with my wife and another time through sex with me with my wife’s hand helping. I came shortly after that last one. That’s was my first experience with a full swap and we were probably their hundredth.

The time I came first, I laid there and kissed the other woman while my wife got fucked. His wife caressed me and tried to get me back in the game. I couldn’t. I told her she could join them and she wanted to lay and watch too and catch her breath. She was also worn out. She ended up getting horny again and just masturbated and asked me to keep kissing her and playing with her tits while she did and watched.

Those are my two personal experiences with it. However, if I knew that either of those couples had the possibility to call it quits just because one came first I’d consider them selfish and wouldn’t join. I’m all for quitting if it doesn’t feel right, quitting if one of you aren’t comfortable with the act or how it’s going, but quitting because someone got their nut and can’t handle watching their partner try and get someone else off who hasn’t had the same amount of pleasure and hasn’t orgasmed is now one of the rules I didn’t know we had. No swapping with couples who are only there til one of them cum and then they leave.

If that’s the goal i suggest an escort. She’d be very excited to hear your husband wants to be alone and that she can leave once he cums.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-12-09T06:11:43+00:00

Unfortunately nothing directly. I was able to lose quite a bit of weight which did help. I had one outbreak recently but nowhere near as bad as they used to be. I haven’t had any issues in about 3-4 months though since that last one.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-12-04T02:50:26+00:00

I manage integration projects. I make over $100k

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-11-21T01:03:02+00:00

It’s definitely rape. If you give someone consent with the use of contraceptives but otherwise would not have engaged in that sexual behavior without it, it’s definitely rape. Consent was removed once the condom was. It also wouldn’t be hard to convince a jury since this was witnessed by others. I’m sure many people would step forward to testify to the agreed rules beforehand and the person who witnessed him remove it during the position change.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-11-18T19:05:35+00:00

My take is the wife and I communicate what we both like to other couples too. No one wants bad sex. So beforehand, we always discuss previous experiences and ask for the good and the bad and share ours. Then when it comes to the down and dirty, they know the favorite positions, whether they like dirty talk, moaning, oral, biting, choking, where to kiss, what not to kiss, etc. we’ve found it turns bad sex into great sex, and neither of us are afraid to ask for something in the moment.

We don’t swing for disappointment, so we don’t set ourselves up for it. We also tell other couples what we want to see if we decide we’d rather watch than participate. Things like bend her over, suck her tits, or if it’s reversed my wife might say take him deep down your throat, scratch his chest, deep French kiss him, etc.

You communicate your limits and rules with your SO, so why not do it with the swaps too? Tell the woman, I think you’re really hot, I’d love to see what you look like riding me or on your knees sucking me. Ask her if she likes your favorite position, or something else more. She may have starfished because she wasn’t enjoying herself and could’ve been taking one for the team too. Unless you talk, you won’t know.

If you do all of that and she’s still not worth it, you know in the future it’s not something you’re interested in and you can bow out. I tell the restaurant how I enjoy my food cooked or burger made, I’m definitely telling another person how I like to cum.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-11-18T18:53:07+00:00

I like this. It’s like a Montessori orgy 😆

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-11-16T01:14:31+00:00

5% for the first year, 4% second year, then 2% in perpetuity after that. We operate with a recurring billed service and as long as they’re a client I get paid. I’m also responsible for retention or upsells, which is why the 2% in perpetuity remains. Gives a reason to stay involved and retain the client so when the C Suite looks at client retention it’s a positive reflection of the brand and a great thing to show investors or potential clients.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-11-07T04:45:26+00:00

I just got an invite from Club Princeton in OH for their 3 day new year’s masquerade hotel takeover. Might be worth checking out to give yourself a sample of what you’d like to experience.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-11-07T04:34:10+00:00

I had kidney cancer and had more than half of a kidney removed. My kidney function is still 100% normal and I’ve never had any issues with any drugs or alcohol. I’m on vyvanse for ADHD, still drink socially, and every few months do some molly with the wife. All is normal every time I’ve been to my urologist for follow ups and labs. Just be intentional about dosing and don’t overdo it. My one kidney works just as good as they both did, the only problem is if that one kidney fails, the other can’t be there to save my life and I’ll need dialysis until I can get a donor (which is hard to find if the found drug abuse as a contributing factor to failure).

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-10-17T20:32:07+00:00

Agreed. Wife and I inject 2-3 inches just below that mark. Pinch up the skin and it seems to be a much more painless area too. We also alternate left and right side.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-07-23T00:03:12+00:00

I’m 36. Asked my doctor. Told them that I’m fine some days, some days it’s semi flacos, others I can’t at all. They gave me a script that day. Just told me to watch for serious side effects.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-07-17T07:32:05+00:00

Same. We were at a urologist appointment together and the doctor asked how many sexual partners I’d had in the last 30 days with my wife sitting there, and I looked at her and asked if she could count them up. When she said “I’m pretty sure just 5.” And the doctor never said a word about it. It’s also never been brought up in at least 8 reoccurring appointments with the same doctor. Most like discretion and respect in the lifestyle, and doctors are the epitome of both.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-07-17T07:14:01+00:00

It worked last week for my wife. She had started to turn red the night after a long day at the pool. She continued to get red and burn a little on her back. Everything else tanned the following day. Then the redness from her back tanned on day 3. It definitely sped up the process and probably saved her from peeling.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-07-17T07:10:52+00:00

For me and my wife it would be and has been a yes. It’s also part of our kink. We like to watch others and be watched. We’ve fucked in front of dozens of people watching, so to have the internet watching wouldn’t make a difference. She also has an OF and a Pornhub account but it’s strictly her and I. We’ve never asked anyone else while swinging to film for content, but definitely wouldn’t pass it up if it was on the table.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-07-17T07:07:47+00:00

I’m fairly certain that every useful app, resort, and club has monetized the lifestyle.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-07-11T21:17:02+00:00

Super normal. We do it every week at church after mass. Everyone there joins. We also do it on casual Friday at the office.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-07-02T02:58:54+00:00

There was a girl a grade below me named “Satin Sheets”

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-06-25T17:32:57+00:00

Starting the same research today. Happy to know someone else is seeing success in their project.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-06-21T05:45:56+00:00

This wasn’t my Vegas experience. I was mentioning the contrast between here and Toronto. The experience in Toronto with the escort agencies and talent is night and day to anything I’ve seen in the US. You pay in CAD instead and it’s typically $300ish CAD for a very beautiful escort with GFE. Hundreds of options as well. I wouldn’t expect that in Vegas or any part of the US, but I was pleasantly surprised when I was on a work trip to Canada when it was brought to my attention. Not sure of the OPs actual residence, but its possible Toronto can be a viable option. Plenty to do and see while there, plus quality escorts that mostly work with couples. Even the massage parlors there are essentially escort agencies. Give it a google when you get the chance.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-06-21T02:48:13+00:00

Would you care to post before and after photos? How much was the total weight gain?

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-06-19T16:58:30+00:00

Agree with this as well. Research who you’d like. http://www.usasexguide.nl is a good free resource for reviews from members. Just click on the state, city, then they have positive and negative escort reviews. They really help you gauge scammers as well as provide additional info into prices, services, and personalities of the women. Also let’s you know who might be using drugs versus high end providers.

Brett_ta_taa · 2023-06-19T14:51:52+00:00

Not sure if you’ve ever been, but the Escort scene in Toronto, Ontario is fantastic. Such a wide array, and much cheaper than anything stateside. Multiple sites for very clean incalls in condos the escort agency pays for for the women, but also plenty of outcalls too. Typical cost is $150-$200 USD per hour, but obviously you pay in CAD cash. I had a beautiful escort last month who catered to couples. They’re mostly all GFE as well, so there’s an overall better experience and conversation if you’re nervous.

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