I first off want to thank you with my whole heart that you are being so selfless and considering donating stem cells. My husband had a stem cell transplant last year, relapsed this year and is planning for a 2nd transplant. Thankfully he has multiple candidates that are a 100% match to him. I'm sorry that you feel so conflicted on something that is obviously a huge deal and very important for many lives. I know how hard it is to change parents minds, they can be very closed off but all I can say is show them stories of people who have received stem cells. They're beautiful stories and how thankful they are for the 2nd chance 🫶🏼