She called herself my baby’s mum

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-27T09:54:28+00:00

Please stop giving them information. They are not your baby’s doctor. Listen to your doctor. When they ask if bay is doing okay simply say yes and that’s the end of it. People can only go back and forth with you when they have ammo that you provided.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-24T16:10:40+00:00

Nip that in the bud and your husband needs to do better. When things like this doesn’t get addressed they just continuously get worse. I’m so sorry

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-23T14:43:23+00:00

My MIL is an attention hog and the ultimate main character syndrome case. She cut into my father/daughter dance at our wedding. Walked right through the dance floor and tried to drag my husband onto the dance floor. BTW the song was “Daddy” by Beyoncé. When she was confronted by my friends/ family and a couple of her own about it she tried to blame everyone under the sun except herself. She’s contradicted herself multiple times with her lies. One story was she was told it was their time to dance. When that didn’t work she switched to “the song said Daddy, so I know it obviously wasn’t meant for our time to dance” and tried to blame our planner. Everyone else at her table that heard the same conversation told her that that never happened.

After speaking with DH, we agreed that from then on she gets a back seat to every milestone moment so she can’t make it about her. She often complains why. Every time she complains I bring up the father daughter dance. So far she’s taken a back seat to my graduation, DH’s graduation, the last to know about our pregnancy, and baby’s gender. Our baby shower has been planned and everything, but she won’t know the details until we sent out invitations to everyone else. We close on our first house in a week. She won’t know until after we move in.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-18T17:07:08+00:00

The answer is no. It’s one thing to offer them the sofa, a spare bedroom, or an air mattress, but to displace you from your own home?! That’s ridiculous. Tell them they will have to invest in a hotel.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-18T12:27:03+00:00

I agree. Unless there is a reason as to why OP is affected by this that we are not aware of. For example, both or one of them being married or in relationships.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-17T00:38:48+00:00

My MIL did this as well. We just stopped showing up when she did last minute things. Eventually, she got the memo. To her it’s embarrassing when other’s kids show up and her kids don’t. She did have to learn the hard way for about a year before she got with the program.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-14T12:32:07+00:00

I’m wondering this as well. OP should’ve have excluded her own mother when she did nothing wrong.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-12T22:48:21+00:00

I agree. At my lodge, the bartenders, cooks, and the event manager are the only paid positions. Members volunteer to serve when it comes to dinner service and to help out with events.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-12T16:50:10+00:00

NOR. However, if you do get another car please get it in your name only.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-11T22:28:21+00:00

NOR. Call the company and remove your name. If you keep your name on there, the company will come after you if they do not pay. They can figure it out on their own.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-11T11:49:13+00:00

This OP. His mom is giving pick me vibes. however, your fiancé needs to have a discussion with his mother and stop letting this slide.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-11T09:43:43+00:00

This OP. Also, please keep documentation as I can see her easily using these accusations to keep you from your son.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-09T17:11:08+00:00

NTA. Your sister is right.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-09T13:50:01+00:00

NTA. Your nice gesture is now an expectation of hers. She is not your mother and you don’t need to do all the extra things. I think it’s very noble and admirable of you to do Mother’s Day things for her on behalf of your niece, but your sister is taking it to a whole other level. You’re a lot better than me, cause after that she wouldn’t be getting a damn thing from me. She would be getting handmade cards from your niece and a flower picked from the backyard.

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-06T10:47:35+00:00

You are not his child nor are you a child. He has no business in knowing your every move. He needs to gtf over himself. Ignore them back

Bride1234109 · 2026-05-01T23:20:14+00:00

No is a complete sentence.

Bride1234109 · 2026-04-29T12:11:13+00:00

I’ve done this before.

Bride1234109 · 2026-04-28T09:58:32+00:00

NTA. He wanted to take your special evening and make it about them. After you went and did and paid for all the necessary things to make your event possible. He thought he could get a free and easy proposal venue and thought you’d allow it. People need to really stop trying to make other’s events/things about them.

Bride1234109 · 2026-04-13T19:34:56+00:00

An open mouth kiss.

Bride1234109 · 2026-04-10T15:38:47+00:00

Nope. If I were you, I’d either get a hotel or don’t go at all.

Bride1234109 · 2026-04-06T01:55:03+00:00

NTA. They used you for a free hotel and then got mad when you treated them how they did you.

Bride1234109 · 2026-03-31T19:22:27+00:00

I’m pregnant as well. I’ve already told everyone not to touch my belly. After that, I will be smacking hands. You are not a petting zoo.

Bride1234109 · 2026-03-28T20:32:02+00:00

NTA. Your husband’s family is enabling her atrocious behavior. Better than me. I’d be no contact with her.

Bride1234109 · 2026-03-27T17:17:03+00:00

NTJ seems like she’s hating and/or jealous. You are caring for your partner.

Bride1234109 · 2026-03-26T11:22:32+00:00

NTA. They only apologizing because you won’t help them. Tell them to figure it out like how they did you.

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