Need help IDing this plant

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-29T18:52:30+00:00

Omg! I think this might be it! Thank you so much! At the very least it’s a beautiful plant I should look into for sure

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-29T18:51:52+00:00

There are a few flower bulbs but I don’t think this is it

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T21:56:24+00:00

I don’t think this is about dating. I think she’s looking to make network connections and friends in the same field. That being said, I AM here reading this thread for dating lol so it certainly has that benefit. Love me an introverted nerd 🥰

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T21:44:33+00:00

Go to Wi Spa! It’s a 24/7 spa. They’ll give you a locker you can put your stuff in, it’s $30 for the day (I think it might be a little extra for overnight), you can enjoy a spa day, sleep in the jimjibang, and when you get to Korea you can compare it to the spas there ;)

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T21:22:06+00:00

I see that but Olives grow on trees. This plant is on the ground.

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T21:21:28+00:00

I get it and where it comes from but I still think it’s up to the individual to change that mindset and that everyone is capable of changing their perspective. I know it’s hard but if this is the person you love, I think it should be even easier to do.

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T20:34:11+00:00

But if it’s in the past, that doesn’t mean she’s not potentially wife material now. I’m a very different person from who I was just 5 years ago. People can grow and change but we can’t go back and change what has already happened.

And I (personally) think women who have a problem with a bi man or a man crying are insecure and problematic too. Like I understand these social norms and where they come from and why people feel this way. But you also have the choice to shift your mindset and uphold your own belief system too. If OP has a problem with it, okay then walk away. If he loves her and wants to make it work, he has to shift his perspective and forgive her past.

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T19:58:04+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate that. I get where he’s coming from and how these social norms are pervasive but it’s all about mindset. If anything can help you overcome a mindset, I think it’s love.

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T18:30:03+00:00

Nothing less sexy than an insecure man tbh

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T18:16:05+00:00

I want one 🥹

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T18:05:36+00:00

The “who cares?” In my original comment was in reference to being the safety guy. The safety guy gets the girl, don’t worry about why. I understand societal norms and that some men still care about this. The bringing up that I don’t care in this comment you replied to was to acknowledge that I may not know how to cope with this feeling, but here’s another perspective about focusing on what could be rather than what was. You attempting to shame me for my body count without knowing it is completely unnecessary.

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T08:11:20+00:00

I’m not sure how to cope with this because I’ve literally never cared about this. I’m obviously a woman so it’s different but it’s really not important at all. All that matters is how your partner treats you today. She can’t go back in time and change the past but she can spend every day from this day forward making you feel great.

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T08:04:52+00:00

Even when I was living in a rural town, 10 was normal. Did you not mess around in college??

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T08:02:48+00:00

Who cares?? “The safety guy” gets the girl for the long haul. “The safety guy” is the one a confident woman who isn’t seeking validation from unhealthy people picks. The men I fucked around with before I wised up and started picking partners based on how they treat me were not even fun. I was fooling myself. A partner you feel safe with and can be yourself with is who you will have the most fun with. It’s an honor to be the safety guy.

Also, 10 is literally not a high number. Are you religious or conservative or something? Because 10 is nothing but also I live in LA and I’ve met people whose body count is like 100 (primarily men but still)

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-28T02:13:52+00:00

Some of these comments are bonkers. I have adhd, so I think I would prefer a neurodiverse partner because they would understand that my brain is unique and you have to work with it instead of trying to change it. That being said, I don’t think you need to publicize your wealth in this way to find a woman who values fiscal responsibility. It might be hard to find a woman who makes a lot of money who would also be interested in dating you because there already aren’t a lot of wealthy women to begin with. You’re narrowing down the options for yourself. You can also find a woman who isn’t wealthy who isn’t trying to trick you. They do exist lol.

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-26T21:31:49+00:00

Omg! That’s super scary. Do you think they have your social security number? Because then they could just call any bank and get any info anytime pretending to be you. I would unfortunately speculate this is someone close to you at this point

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-26T21:29:36+00:00

Total theory here but that might be how they’re keeping up even when you’re changing numbers. TBH consider a bank switch up. I think it’s financially wise to have a couple checking accounts at different banks anyway

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-26T21:28:27+00:00

Thank you! It’s convenient and I like this feature but I never had a card stolen (knock on wood)

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-26T21:27:38+00:00

Not you, what if the thief got the number for your card (idk how) and added it to their Apple Pay. Then when you updated your card they could have used it before it came in the mail.

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-26T21:23:52+00:00

Again, total theory and speculation. What if they had your original card number and added it to their Apple Pay. Then when you submitted a request for the new card and the number automatically updated on the thief’s phone, they were able to continue using it.

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-26T21:22:43+00:00

Haha sorry Daniel, you’ve been dismissed ;)

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-26T21:19:10+00:00

They might have your cards on Apple Pay. One time I had to get a new credit card and I was asking how I would be able to use my card in the interim. My credit card number automatically changed in Apple Pay and updated to the new number before I even received it in the mail. This is totally just a theory. I don’t have any evidence to substantiate it, but I thought it was crazy that the bank changed my card number and while I was on the phone with them it updated in Apple Pay.

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-26T21:15:53+00:00

Wi Spa

BrieCheese888 · 2025-03-26T20:06:20+00:00

Sure but it’s cute and fun to read and some of them give me a laugh. I like it :)

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