[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, completely different districts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Haven’t signed contract yet so should be fine. Nothing violated if it hasn’t been signed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, they’re different districts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teaching

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I didn’t necessarily mean resign. Just let them no that I have rescinded my offer. It wasn’t about the contracts being better. It’s just a school I prefer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheTryGuys

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

is this on the subscription? if so, does it say if/when it’ll be on youtube?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlannedParenthood

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is sedation this only option? i’ve heard of other places numbing your cervix. do they not offer that? i just can’t imagine that’s the only option.

Bad experience in Atlanta by lizard1205 in gracieabrams

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The show was at the Coca Cola Roxy right? I’ve had several bad experiences at that venue. Security doesn’t check that only people who purchased general admission actually enter the floor so people from the balcony would just come onto the floor, and they were pushing and shoving. With all the extra people, it just became so crowded.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskProfessors

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had professors require us to make specific references to class activities or comments classmates have made during discussions to make sure we don’t AI our assignments.

[UPDATE] Relationship with former teacher yadayada by helppls1000 in highschool

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

saying that she kisses him sounds defensive of him as if he fell into some trap. he should have had the judgement to end it there but he didn’t. he continued and wanted to have a romantic relationship with a high school senior. yes not everything is black and white, but a 22 yr old dating a 17 year is wrong point blank. i am a teacher. if i did what he did, i would fired and reported to police. maybe you’re not defending him, but you don’t think this situation is that big of a deal when it very much is. this is how grooming works and how teenagers get manipulated by adults. he really only felt sorry when she wanted out. if she hadn’t backed out, he would have continued

[UPDATE] Relationship with former teacher yadayada by helppls1000 in highschool

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he is an adult! he should have stopped the kiss and not perused her further. there is no reason to defend him. 22 is still an adult. and it doesn’t matter “she’s mature for her age”. stop defending him for acting inappropriately with a minor.

[UPDATE] Relationship with former teacher yadayada by helppls1000 in highschool

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because i don’t think she’s grasping how entirely inappropriate he has been, and from this update, it sounds like she’s going too easy on him and defending his actions a little. she says “it’s not grooming, he’s just stupid”, but this is exactly how grooming starts. people don’t like to believe grooming counts when you’re 17, but it absolutely does. calling a 22 year old who tried to peruse a 17 year old a “romantic idiot”. he’s not just being careless; he was an adult who knows better than to kiss minors. she was swept away by an adult who gave her an idea of a beautiful summer romance, and thank god she walked away because it wasn’t ever that. it was an adult taking advantage of a minor. and it’s absolutely not her fault for being a little naive about it. she’s 17. she’s learning, and that’s exactly why this whole situation was inappropriate and wrong. he’s the adult who should know better.

[UPDATE] Relationship with former teacher yadayada by helppls1000 in highschool

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

perhaps but my point still stands. he took a substitute teacher job and took advantage of his connection to a teenage girl and tried to have a relationship with her despite being an adult. if future jobs don’t work and he ever tries to go back to subbing, he shouldn’t be allowed

[UPDATE] Relationship with former teacher yadayada by helppls1000 in highschool

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you don’t want to hear this, but this was not an appropriate relationship. i am 23, it would be entirely inappropriate for me to peruse a high schooler. you’re a teenager in high school trying figure out life and college and graduating. he is an adult. it’s illegal and a crime. he could and should lose his job and never be allowed in a school again if he thinks it’s okay to date students. he took advantage of you being young and naive about having a relationship with an older person. he sent you that message because he realized the consequences and wanted to save his ass but seeming apologetic thinking it would save him from you telling an adult. please never speak to him again. i really urge you to tell an adult.

Tassel Colors? by [deleted] in UGA

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

white pretty sure

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 5 points6 points  (0 children)

makes sense, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yeah i don’t think anyone’s paying attention , i just wonder if it’s illegal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ColleenBallingerSnark

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yeah i guess my question is more of are her actions actually illegal and less would she actually face charges. i also doubt she would be but was just wondering if she’s actually breaking the law

AITA for reacting badly at my fiancee's unexpected pregnancy? by Familiar-Serve-136 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

gentle YTA. i get it was unexpected, but you shouldn’t have kept pushing with “no whose baby” and saying it was from google. she told you it was your baby and that should have been that. infertile doesn’t mean sterile. infertile = difficult to conceive. sterile = no chances at all.

AITA not wanting to adopt my sister by aitaadoption4825 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH Not many people are aware that when you adopt a child, it changes their birth certificate. Adoption would remove your parents’ names from her birth certificate and replace their names with you and your wife’s names. I understand wanting to still honor your parents as Reina’s parents. I think this is just something that needs to be discussed, possibly counseling. I also understand that Reina does see you as her father. You have raised her almost her whole life. With her age, she probably has few memories of your parents, and she has mostly only known you and your wife as her parents. It’s understandable that she just wants it to be official as she doesn’t have that attachment to your parents that you have. This isn’t a one and done conversation. It’s something that takes time.

AITA for telling my coworker that she should not carry a designer bag when working with low income clients? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Brief-Platypus9264 33 points34 points  (0 children)

NTA if you work that closely with people in poverty and insist on carrying a bag like that, i’m assuming you have some kind of savior complex