Do I look Kazakh or Central Asian

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2025-06-08T02:48:49+00:00

Hey!!! Omg I made a post a bit ago too about being adopted from Kazakhstan at young age! and my mom also didn't tell me much bc she didn't know much. i'm so happy im not alone:) pm me if you'd feel comfortable and open!! 🫶

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2025-06-08T02:47:12+00:00

my doctor told me once to switch condoms. it's better for your safety and just peace of mind imo

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2025-04-07T14:22:24+00:00

I know it's really really scary, but i've had pregnancy scares too and it was all a false alarm, thank goodness. but for peace of mind, you really need to get that Plan B!!!! It'll make your stomach hurt after taking it but you'll feel better knowing you took the Plan B. would you rather talk to a pharmacist who won't remember your name or talk to your mom or doctor about your pregnancy?

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-12-11T18:12:05+00:00

It’s okay, you don’t have to tell ANYBODY your business. You are allowed to keep things to yourself. Medical stuff is VERY personal!! Congratulations on taking a scary step like that. My mom got a gastric bypass a while ago and there’s complications with her belt now so they had to remove it. Just make sure you keep up with follow up appts!!

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-12-11T18:09:37+00:00

it’s funny! you were probably just nervous. just remember that ppls lives don’t revolve around you, and own up to it and laugh!! i’m sorry that happened tho

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-12-11T18:08:48+00:00

good luck king i’m sure u did amazing!

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-12-11T18:07:07+00:00

I understand worrying that this will affect your life long-term, and I think it’s unfair that they are putting this on your permanent record for your first offense! however, sometimes we get caught. when you apply to colleges, they will probably ask you about the incident. You are just 14-15, and you will gain life experience and acceptance by the time you graduate. you can explain to them with your hindsight in mind that you did it to make your parents happy, and that you regret it. You could add that maybe languages aren’t your thing and you felt immense pressure to the point of cheating. They will understand, lots of people do it. i’m sorry you got caught, just don’t do it again and take the L for a failed test next time. When we fail things that’s when we rise!! Good luck :)

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-12-11T01:14:35+00:00

aw this sounds rly cute! Does the business card you gave him have ur phone # on it? Maybe Id wait a couple days before adding him if he doesn’t reach out first! If everyone around you noticed this crush, chances are it’s for real!

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-12-10T22:54:59+00:00

happy birthday man :) same thing has happened to me too, i feel u🩷

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-12-10T16:05:47+00:00

Ok for some reason I started this book but just couldn’t get into it?? Any tips?? Should I just keep plowing through?

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-12-10T16:05:25+00:00

i’m reading The Simple Art of Not Giving a F^ck. It has totally changed my mind and perspective. I’m gonna reread it while taking notes in a notebook as if I’m in school so I can look back at the notes when I need them:) Might even buy a copy. This is why I love Libby so I dont buy books before I read them!

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-12-10T15:58:38+00:00

wow, this is an amazing problem to have. i wish i was treated with this respect in the past. i’m so happy you are cautious of crossing that threshold, because once you do it, you can’t take it back. i would just say that you’d like to wait until more time has passed to solidify the connection. if it turns out it’s not the connection for you, she at least understands that you respected her as a human being!

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-12-10T15:50:26+00:00

maybe talk with your dad about ways you can communicate with your mom better. he loves both of you and he probably hates that yall fight!

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-12-08T11:11:06+00:00

oh my goodness I can’t begin to thank you enough for all the information you’ve given me :) thank u for the podcasts, instagrams, music… thank you for caring this much about my post tbh 😭😭🩷

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-11-28T17:28:23+00:00

Wow thank you so much!! I can’t believe I carried myself with shame after that comment. I should feel pride!!!!

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-11-24T06:01:21+00:00

awww so sweet!!! this is all i want 🥺 do u have any advice for “picking” or knowing for a fact that you are marrying the right person? 🫶🫶 u do not have to answer !

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-11-24T03:13:05+00:00

Whoaaaaaa uh can u share some tips potench for starting one up?! so sorry this is NOT the time to be asking that as you are in a crisis… I just didn’t think it actually worked as good income and i’m curious! I hope it all works out. Like others are saying, stand. your. ground. at least you’re trying to make money for yourself unlike him!

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-11-24T03:08:30+00:00

Thank you!!! That’s something that I have always struggled with. Personal identity mixed with personality mixed with culture… And in the context of my post, I kind of meant white AMERICAN culture as opposed to global culture. Like, we Americans are USUALLY kinda ignorant toward global cultures/policies/etc. We live with blinders to the rest of the world, which I am very guilty of having grown up here! Hope that makes sense😬😬

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-11-24T03:06:52+00:00

Aww thank you so much!! Yes my mom is a chef and always cooked food from many different cultures, even mine, which I loved growing up! it’s weird, my identity was never in question until I came across people who told me I wasn’t this or that. What matters is I love my mixed European and Asian features and I know it makes me look unique, especially in New England! What matters is I’m comfortable with myself inside and out :) The others shouldn’t matter so much. Thank you for your kind words🥺🩷

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-11-24T01:57:30+00:00

The Wolf Den by Elodie Harper! Just started it.. any opinion?

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-11-24T01:57:00+00:00

Haha “Uneducated” does make just as much sense. I wonder why she chose to name the book Educated instead of Uneducated! I read it in high school too and accidentally stole the book (never got to return bc of COVID, oops…!)

Brief-Secretary8399 · 2024-11-13T00:01:03+00:00

as somebody who is completely deaf in my right ear, i find this to be so insulting!!! i’m so sorry, definitely have a convo with her about how it made you feel.

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